When you have been fighting with a friend, knowing what to say to mend a friendship can be difficult. If it’s not clear where things went wrong, ask your friend to talk things over. If you’ve realized you made a mistake or hurt your friend, a clear and simple apology is best. “I’m so sorry I hurt you. I really want to mend our friendship. Will you forgive me? Is there something I can do to make things right or do better in the future?”
If you have been hurt by your friend, let them know. It is a difficult conversation to have, but honesty is one of the things that repairs and strengthens friendships. It may take some time to practice forgiveness and rebuild trust. But when you are both willing to work on your friendship, it will get stronger with time. It’s also helpful to remind yourself, and each other, what you are grateful for about one another, and about the unique friendship you have. Focusing on the positives is one way to get over the bumps in the road. If you or your friend need time or space, it doesn’t mean your friendship is doomed. You can use that time to get support from a counselor, mentor, or someone else you trust to give you advice about friendships.
If you’ve been hurt by a friend, the first thing to do is take a big breath. And another. And another. When someone you love and respect hurts your feelings, it hits differently than when a stranger or acquaintance does. They know you and love you, so how could they have done or said something that hurt you? You might question whether or not they actually love you after all, or even like you! You might question the friendship. That’s why the big breaths are important—don’t make any rash decisions here.
Once you feel a little more calm, it’s time to reflect:
When you have reflected on what happened, you need to decide whether or not to confront your friend about hurting your feelings. Sometimes, it’s okay to give a good friend the benefit of the doubt—perhaps the thing they said or did was a total accident, or there’s no way they could have known it would hurt you. In this case, it may be okay for you to let it go without saying something.
Other times, hurt really does need to be addressed before your relationship can continue. Maybe trust has been broken, or you feel you need an apology to re-establish respect. Approach them with the respect you’d want someone to approach you with, explain how their behavior impacted you, and ask them not to repeat that behavior in the future. Hopefully, your friend will respond with love and understanding.
One of life’s greatest gifts is having a best friend. If you have one, you are truly blessed. But you no doubt also know how painful it can be when your best friend is mad at you. Many a friend has spent sleepless nights due to a broken relationship with a best friend. Sometimes it’s difficult to tell exactly what went wrong – if it’s something hurtful you did without realizing it, or if it’s just a misunderstanding. Maybe someone told a lie about you to try and drive a wedge between the two of you.
So, what can you do when your best friend is mad at you?
When your best friend is mad at you, the first and most important thing you can do is talk about it. Find a place where it’s quiet and tell your friend how important it is to you that the two of you resolve what’s wrong between you. Ask what he or she is feeling, and give her the chance to truly express everything, whatever she wants. At this point, it’s your job to listen. Really listen and don’t break in with your point of view. The more you can feel what your friend is feeling, the better chance you’ll have of fixing your conflict. Jennifer agreed: The only way to fix what went wrong is by letting your friend say everything that makes them mad. Try to understand why they feel that way. All the effort is worth it.
The worst thing you can do is get defensive when resolving a conflict with your best friend. Don’t quickly react to what your friend is saying. When you hear your friend tell you what he or she thinks you did wrong, it’s natural to immediately feel like you want to defend yourself. Resist that feeling. Remember, there will be time for you to express how you feel as well. Don’t forget this is your time to listen. This is not a sign of agreeing; it is just a sign of listening!
It may take a while for your friend to express everything he or she feels. Some people have a much more difficult time talking about their emotions than others. As your friend tells you what they’re feeling, make sure they are completely finished before you start to talk. I suggest you start by repeating back to your friend what you heard him or her say. For instance, “Am I right you’re angry that I was unkind to you? Is that right?” This gives you both the opportunity to make sure each of you heard what the other said.
The next thing you might want to ask is “What can I do to help mend the relationship?” Many times, your friend will have an idea of what they’d like you to do. At this point, you can decide if you’re willing to do what he or she thinks would help to resolve the situation. Keep in mind, that your hurt friend may have a totally unrealistic solution to the problem. Don’t make promises you can’t keep. For example, if she says, “I never want you to talk to my boyfriend again.” Don’t commit to that, for it is totally unrealistic and unfair.
David said, Sometimes your friend has completely unrealistic expectations. You can either decide to find a middle ground or walk away. Most people don’t know when their expectations are unrealistic. You might find it helpful to say, “I don’t think I can do what you’re asking, but I could do this.” Finding an agreeable middle ground is a great way to make peace with an angry friend.
Be patient, and keep trying to be loving to your friend, even if he or she doesn’t want to respond.
If it becomes clear you have done something truly wrong, you need to take responsibility for your actions. It’s easy to think that just saying I’m sorry is enough. But those words can seem very shallow if you don’t mean them, or if you don’t know why you’re sorry. Are you sorry because you got caught? Or are you sorry because you can see how you hurt your friend? If you are truly sorry about something you did that hurt your friend, you need to apologize, and then prove you will attempt to never do it again. Clearly ask your friend to forgive you. Make sure you hear the words, I will forgive you before you assume all is well with your friend.
However, your friend may be slow to trust you again, even after you have apologized. He/she will need to see trustworthy behavior from you over a period of time this will prove to her you really are sorry.
If your friend doesn’t want to talk about what is making him or her so mad, you may have to just give it time. Sometimes the only way to resolve a problem is by letting time pass. Be patient, and keep trying to be a good friend, even if he or she doesn’t want to respond. A blogger, Pumpkin, said she and her best friend have been friends for nearly 12 1/2 years. We have had our ups and downs, but we’re still friends. Even when she tried to pull away and we didn’t talk much, I made a choice to keep on calling her and trying to help find the friendship we once had.
Sometimes one friend has to make the effort to be there for the friend even when you’re not sure they really care if you’re friends or not. It’s impossible to know exactly why some people hold on to anger and resentment longer than what might seem reasonable.
Sometimes all you can do is try your best to seek a resolution. You can’t make anybody else do what they don’t want to do. You might want to read this blog I wrote on forgiveness for help learning how to forgive your friend.
We were created to live in a community with other people. When God designed us he made us social and relational beings with the desire to love and be loved. God created us in His very own image, so we have some of the same character traits as God. And God is relational. In fact, He wants a relationship with YOU!
God also knows how important it is to have good friends. The Bible talks about the benefits of having others in your life: It’s better to have a partner than go it alone. Share the work, share the wealth. And if one falls down, the other helps, but if there’s no one to help, tough! Two in a bed warm each other. Alone, you shiver all night. By yourself, you’re unprotected. With a friend, you can face the worst. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 MSG)
However, it’s important to recognize that sometimes we can only do so much to repair a damaged relationship. In the end, your friend is going to need to want it as well. God knew this and so he wisely advises us just to do our best to find peace. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (Romans 12:18)
Sometimes friendships grow stronger through difficult times. So don’t give up on your friend just because you are having difficulties, but know when it might be time to move on.
Every relationship will hit a speed bump at one time or another. Because your best friend knows you so well, it’s easier for that person to really hurt you. Show your friend you are willing to work through the difficult times of misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Work toward peace and ask God to help.
If you think your friend might be struggling with something beyond just your relationship, check out our eBook library for eBooks on all types of issues and every eBook has a section on how to help a friend who is struggling with that issue.
A lot of times, you do have a choice about whom you are close friends with, so choose them wisely. For more, read Choose Friends Wisely.
Chlo says:
Have a question. How long can a relationship hit a speed bump?
Adaer says:
I have a question when u hide something from your BestFriend and she finds out about it and she ask u about and u still lie about what should You Do ? Ifu want To get Another Chance?
Cupcakes says:
You shouldn’t do anything like that adaer which means you are not a true friend
Alyssa says:
My friend just wants to talk it out with me in person and im scared cause what if i say something wrong again and i just hope that she does understand where i am coming from à½
angelica says:
Hi my bestfriend is my younger sister, kristin. I was mad at hear because I thought she doesn’t like me (as a sister). Then I just ignored her every time she talked to me. What should I do? I don’t want us to fight like forever, and it has been three months since the fight. I don want us to end up in a broken fight just because of a sibling (thing) fght. I will also apologize. What will she expect when I do? I’m really nervous, and shy. 🙁 help!
angelica says:
Also, she’s a very defensive girl. If I try to make up with her, she might get more mad than before, although I will add up the detail that it was my fault. Right now she has her period and she goes through mood swings…. how will she react???
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sandra says:
My best friend was mad at me because she felt I was replacing her with this other good friend of mine. We solved it by when she came over to me and said really politely that she was sorry for being so grumpy and mean but said what she felt and basically followed what this website said and thank you sooo much we have made up as friends and I’ll just do abit of mending to make us bffs again. Thank you so much!
sam says:
iam not talking to my best friend since 2 days
she is my best friend and i love her i cant iamgin how to live with out her
she is my person please tell me a way to make her fall for me …. i read all your advises but none of them worked please please help me i really love her plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz do smting
Zephanin says:
It did help a lot but, I don’t know what I did that was so wrong, I was at her place with a couple of friends, we were all talking, laughing and playing together, and all of a sudden, she just became really upset, I have no idea why, cause she wouldn’t tell, she just kept saying that she wasn’t upset, and I know she was, I can see it in her facial expressions. Please help me, I don’t know if I’m able to talk to her anymore cause I’m afraid that I’ll make it worse. I’m really bad at wording things correctly. Anyway my confidence just dropped suddenly, now I don’t even wanna talk to my mum about it. Btw I’m 15 and she’s 12, but she looks more mature than her age. Any advice?
Agressive-Pizza says:
she probably got jealous that you were having a great time with the others.
Anime _Kpop_Obsessed says:
For me, i was on the bus and my friend sat beside me reading my texts (i have no idea why she just was) and my best friend texts me saying “how’s the bae (the guy she likes) and my close friend sitting beside me looks at me and asks me who it is. I panicked and just told her, and i told my best friend i told her. She got really mad at me, and i apologized, and since i was on a trip i just didnt really talk to her about the problem. Any other time, i would NEVER have told anyone. When i came back from the trip, she acted like it never happened (and i didn’t really want to talk about it either because it would only result in me being yelled at). Anyways i felt terrible but i didn’t know how to fix it. We never ended up talking about it but it was clear that she doesn’t trust me anymore because she would believe people when they told her i told them stuff. Today, i was telling another friend a story about how there was this new kid who was going with my best friend to semi (AT THE TABLE NOT AS A DATE) but my friend misunderstood, and asked my best friend about it. My friend was confused, and had no bad meaning, but after school my best friend came up to me and said “WHAT THE F*** DID YOU TELL HER” and i was shocked because i never swore, let alone have my BEST FRIEND swear at me. My other friend was there too, but the damage was done. Now I’M hurt, and i’m sure she’s mad at me too. I’m honestly really hurt, and I don’t want to have a friend who keeps distrusting me. I feel like i should apologize but i feel like I’m always the one apologizing, when this time it wasn’t my fault just to make my best friend happy/untill she decides to “forgive me”.
How do I even mend this broken friendship?? If my best friend doesn’t trust me…
Dillweed says:
The friend who read your texts might just be curious. You’re not obliged to allow her to do that. Next time a friend A asks about the guy/girl your other friend B likes, you can tell A to ask B her/himself, with a smile.
How did you apologise to her? Sometimes an apology doesn’t work because both parties see the problem differently. Did you try to say what you thought she had felt (in steps: 1. I can see you’re angry. 2. You must be frustrated when you trusted me to keep your crush a secret. 3. Just because she’s the only and first person I ever told your secret to, it doesn’t justify what I’ve done. 4. I’m sorry. 5. I won’t do it again.)
And follow up with your actions.
Remember that your friend does not have to forgive you. But an apology itself is already great; just be sincere. Sometimes time is needed to forgive.
gihan says:
you can get for her a gift and a joke i had a friend that dont talk to me from 1 year and i get for her a gift and comedy folder i put a tisseu and i said if you wanna cry there is the tissue and i put jokes
Alexandra says:
I have a very close friend whose daughter is in alot of trouble with drugs and is bipolar at age 17. She sent her daughter un announced to me and my husband to spend the first week of our daughters orientation week at her first week of college. without telling us. It was very extremely disruptive for my daughter ..but she (my daughter) was at loss as to how to handle it.
We were very upset about it and told the Mom..my long term friend and she has not spoke with me since.. how do I deal with this??
leah says:
my best friend (Lets call her maddie) got mad at me today because she got a text from her old friend who hated me (lets call her jane) saying that years ago i was at a party and i was talking bad about her with another girl (lets call her chloe). Maddie was chatting with jane today and jane reminded her of the time when i said that (and i dont even remember it and we weren’t friends then so i didn’t even know her) . she just started chatting to me saying oh why did u backstab me and blah blah blah .now shes saying that someone she trusts said that i said something bad about her in the past month. I absolutely didnt and this is really worrying me. when maddie gets mad she like completly ignores u and just hangs out with ur other friends. shes very good at holding a grudge for a long time and we have to work in a group together tomorrow. what should i do? pls answer quick! ;(
jesenia says:
The people who are telling her these things are just jelous about your guys relationship well what you can do is say how much you love her and would never do that and that you cant forget about her
jennifer says:
I have a BFF which I had since 4th grade
all of a sudden a new girl came to school .
my BFF all of a sudden ignored me and would always ask me if I was still her Bff or was my Bff the new girl.
We got over that last year.
Now I seemed to hang out with the new girl more often cause she was more like me.
My friend is now so quiet and has no feelings for me anymore.
What should I do to make my BFF see I am always her Bff and am always there 4 her.
mcmichael says:
start hanging out with her more try to spend time with both of them i have had this happen to me before and its tough
cassidy says:
hey me and my friend have been for two years and i lied to her and i didn’t mean to i have told her i was sorry and saying i would do anything to get her to forgive me i dont know what else to do
jesenia says:
Say how much You love her and need her that should work
Samiksha Sinha says:
Say that u r sorry from the bottom of your heart n will never repeat it again n she means a lot to you n u dnt wanna lose her…n u hav realized your mistake n promise not to repeat it again
Claire says:
Honestly, you should try to give her some time. I know it might seem a little hard right now because all you want is to become friends again. Yet, pressing your apology can be bad. Try to make one meaningful apology and say “I am truly sorry for what I did, and I promise that I will never do it again, could you please forgive me?” If she says no, be sure to ask why. Listen to her opinion, and don’t interrupt her. If she says somthing along the lines of “I don’t want to be friends again” then, maybe you should just give her some time to think! You could also think of better ways to tell her you are sorry, just do what you think she would like… Good luck!
Olivia says:
My best friend is mad at me and I don’t know why I wrote her a note and she replies but she won’t talk to me so I don’t know why she is mad she said it is a long story I don’t know what to do
Jess Winkles says:
try talking in person
shaylee says:
Me and my dear friend have been together for a year. And I feel like I’m loseing each other what should I do ?
zac says:
Hang out with her/he and ask whats going on. But give her time it will take a while
Lex says:
Talk to her about it trust me its definatey the best option
Nina Andrianidis says:
let her know how u feel. come clear. wait for some time (a week or sth to let her think). if she doesnt respond to your “quests” then just move on.
ashlinclements says:
My bff and i are going ththrugh the same thing right now but I don’t like the other girl but my bff just doesn’t see the friendship between me and her any more
Aria says:
She read my message n didnt reply n i didnt say anything abt her or anything it jus happened
Kiyán Ward-Brooks says:
Me and my friend have been friends since September 12, 2014. We’ve gotten so close and he is like my brother that I never had. I had a slight jealousy misunderstanding that lead to him not wanting to talk to me for a while and it started Christmas evening. I seem to upset him but I don’t know what I did wrong but only was worried about him. I’ve apologized to him ever since Christmas evening I was blowing up his phone with apologies. We are on Christmas break until January 5th, 2015 and me and him have two classes together which we sit next to each other. Its gonna be really hard and awkward sitting next to him knowing that he hates my guts. I’ve been having problems (like dizziness, stomach and heart pains and crying a lot) and also feeling sick to my stomach because I am a sentimental person. I messed up and now he probably wants nothing to do with me but I want him to know I’m very sorry and just today I made a song for him and I need to sing it to him to prove all those apologies are sincere from my heart but I don’t know what’s gonna happen when we go back to school. Any advice?
daniel says:
Hello everyone.I have a BFF(lets call him Ben) and only today we We fought and he’s very mad on me so can anyone please say me wat to do?
louie says:
I’m a guy, and my friend is a girl. She and I were best friends, until she got in a conflict with my girlfriend an now she hates me. She says I’m a coward for not doing anything. I really want to be friends with her cause we always had so much fun together. She keeps saying she doesn’t want me in her life, but she texted me not too long ago asking how I was. Please help me
snowball257 says:
I have the same problem only my friend is a guy and he brought his ex gf to me knowing we dont like each other and he id telling me to get over it because his ex already has
nina says:
hey, I’ve never been in a serious fight in my entire life (not even my parents). I’m not sure why but I think it’s because I forgive people too easily and I don’t really seem to upset my friends. This new years eve I was planning on meeting up with my bff and her family friends after midnight but I got carried away and ended up not showing up. I thought it was not such a big deal because she was surrounded by family and because we are (were?) so close I thought we would be able to get through this. But when I called her one week later and tried to apologize for the first time she was just quiet and repeated “it’s okay” without not meaning it. What should I do? I don’t want to lose her.
sherri says:
I thought my sister and I were close, well I tried to be at least…She always texted me good morning and night…but no contact between those times…I never did because she always insinuates shes busy, so I never call her or text her unless she does first..I don’t want to get a text saying im eating, or leaving .ect…..when I bring this stuff up she so defensive…I know she doesn’t do this to other people but she figures she can do it to me.I finally backed away and she wants to know why, and when I did tell her I haven’t heard from her, I told her I don’t need to find a spot in anyones life.
vevo says:
Hey everybody, so my best friend had been in a terrible on/off relationship for a while, so they finally broke up. She is depressed and still hung up on him and she won’t take my advice on anything. I’m fed up with her because all we talk about is him. So I told her that I didn’t want to talk about him anymore thinking that that way she might get over him. Was I wrong to do this? Please tell me what to do?
Ray says:
Hey so I already lost my best friend (lets just call her Viviana) and she is going around telling everyone that im a backstaber [almost everyone believes her] all I did was ignore her because she was saying bad things behind my other friend (lets call her Mandolin) and I got mad at her because Mandolin is like a big sister to me. I really didn’t Care what Viviana told my friends but one of my Guy friends (let name him Sam) that I haven’t seen in a while was walking around school so I thought “hey lets say hi to him!” I ran to him and tackled him playfully like I usually do and said hi. He just said hi and left me there. Not one smile came out of him and usually he would be happy to see me. I knew the reason was because of Viviana. I just want to ask him if he’s mad at me so we can talk about it and be friends again..
Amelia_Mae says:
So me and my friend have been friends since second grade. We were talking and then she got really upset all the sudden, told me I was a fake friend and now she won’t talk to me. I don’t know what I did wrong. She always assumes people should know what they did. She’s completely ignoring me and I don’t want to stop being friends. I don’t know how to fix it. Please help asap.
Madison Her says:
Think about what you said to her, have you said that something once long ago? Did your story change by a bit? If it did, try explaining it to her. If she said you’re a fake, then there’s a misunderstanding here. There could be rumors going around, check your surroundings carefully. Is there someone/some people jealous of your guys’ friendship? Was there someone who used to be friends with you guys but left like *snap*? If there was, slowly try to spill out information from them, start digging slowly-if you don’t want your relationship to end. (It’s not being “nosy” or whatever, it’s you saving a relationship you don’t want to end and being a faithful friend trying & commiting)
emma says:
Maybe you can say to her
“I am sooo sorry for what I did to you. I don’t understand what I did, but that is what friends are for, right? To help each other through life? Please talk to me so I can know what to do next time”
Sometimes you have to really try as hard as you can to get her to talk, even if it is pulling her aside during school, work, or anywhere else! this has worked for me before… but then again I don’t stay mad at people for long.. I wish you and your friend the best!
Kenzie says:
Me and my best friend have been arguing for quite a while now because she’s mad at me. I agreed with her that I’d been mean to her at times and I apologized many times. She didn’t seem to care that I said sorry and she doesn’t really talk to me at school she only hangs out with one person and I was kinda jealous because she would ditch me for her. She then said that she is just done with me and I guess we aren’t best friends anymore, I’m really upset about it cause I really loved her but now I don’t know what to do. Was she a true best friend and should I try to get her back? Or was she a fake and should I just try to get over her?
Madison Her says:
Maybe she wants a very reasonable and descriptive apology about something, maybe when you were mean at her, you could’ve said/done something very offensive towards her. Think about things you guys did long ago and how her reactions changed throughout. Maybe she’s trying to build a higher wall on you to see if you’d climb it. Or, she’s really hurt deep inside from all the mean things you’ve done and she fears that even though you’ve said sorry, you’ll do it again another day so she’s trying to move on toughly ( throwing you that “over with” attitude ).
Kenzie Quigley says:
I am having the same exact issue!!
nicole says:
Me too
layla says:
We have something in common, and I’m sorry for what has happened but some friends are miracles and she wasn’t. I’m sorry that happen your not the only one.
Helpful man says:
I think that you should be friends with her other friends and then they can help you be friends with her
Zoe Leigh Doren says:
I’ve tried, but they don’t help at all really.
Zoe Leigh Doren says:
same thing im going through now, and omg i hate it, shes not my friend JUST because i annoyed her alot. and now shes being horrible, and all what u said is what shes doing now. 🙁
nicole says:
hello, i’m the one mad at my bestfriend, yet she wouldn’t do anything 🙁 i feel really sad that she’s not doing anything, i was mad at her because she kept ignoring me unintentionally. it’s okay if it happened the first time, but this is probably the third or something. what can i do to make her realize she shouldn’t run away from this. she has a problem too, but i can’t handle that yet unless she resolves this. i’ve been there for a ton of her problems. i just dont want a simple sorry 🙁 I want her to mend her ways.
Madison Her says:
Me and best friend got into an argument on Thursday night, we were talking about her crush and so I gave her information on how to express your feelings toward him. But she said my info was too “easy” and the way how I would do it. So I said I’m sorry, I’ll try to look in another way (which I shouldn’t have said and should’ve done). But then she snapped and said she’s over with it all, she’s done with facebook, snapchat, Skype, etc. then we never talked again the next day. I cried at school the next morning, the blame was put on her she said. At lunch I sat alone, she came and sat by me. We didn’t talk, but she ran over to a friend and they were talking about me. I didn’t even eat my lunch, so I decided to, to make them not worry about me(since I know that friend very well). Then yesterday night, she messaged me on skype saying that I should not cry ever again because the blame will be put on her. And to not help her with her problems outside of school. I said alright. Do you guys think this relationship will work? I just need some motivation and information to talk to her tomorrow in person.
supernova_14 says:
me and my best friend on she’s mad at me just for me talking to her ex boyfriend but I only ask him a question(like one question because I’m getting weaker on my arm’s muscles) because he’s on the sports team and I need to ask him to help me with my arm strength but then she got really mad at me and hasn’t talked to me for like a week what do I do and I saw her today and she avoided me like I was deadly poison and I feel very sad and guilty and I just want it to be what we were before she got mad at me:'( any advice to give?
Miss Know It All says:
Don’t feel guilty! You should only feel guilty if you’re going out with him. That’s a no no. (Or if your feeling his arm muscles). I still talk to my friend’s ex all the time.
sarah says:
what should i do if my friend is mad at me because shes a third wheel in our group? like im always with another friend than her. i dont know what to do:( shes lonely because she doesnt have “the friend” that supports her and helps her with stuff. what can i do?
Stephanie says:
Try being there for her. She feels like she isn’t needed in your group so she’s just feeling ditched and used. Don’t spend all your time with that one friend, instead try being together all of you. This happens to me a lot and it’s the worse feeling ever to feel like you are just not appreciated in the friendship.
jezebell says:
I have known my BFF for for more than 8 years we don’t go to school together and she won’t talk to me I said sorry a lot I mean a lot I don’t know what to do she is my life. She ditched me for a girl she is so mean I am so sad……..HELP!!!!!!
Miss Know It All (Snoopyluvr25 says:
Answer is easy. She ditched you and you don’t deserve that. Go find someone better if she doesn’t want to talk about it
Archielover4312 says:
I know how it feels
ME says:
Oh my god. Same thing. I’ve know my Ex best friend for like 8-9 years. Im not sure with the situation but it got crazy. So…without saying names…let’s call…EX best friend “A” And my now best friend “B” so… I was friends with “A” for like 7 years ( can’t remember exactly ) and then, “B” came into my life and I think “A” was jealous or someting….I kinda pushed “A” away because “B” was so much nicer. But……now “B” is mad at me (and honestly I don’t know why) were homeschooled soooo…..yeah.
Anyone help?
We’ve tried talking. Doesn’t help. All four parents got involved. Just not helping…
Soo…….I can’t exactly get away from “A.” So.
Yup…
SABA Shakil says:
omg like 8 years or more is a life line i think give her time or just hangout more !
Anonamous says:
Me and my friend were playing around calling each other names and I said it to my bff and she freaked out and it was really mean if me and I didn’t know it was gonna hurt her so badly now she said she’s never ever gonna forgive me and is ignoring me. What do i do?
Concerned Friend says:
I need some help. I have a friend, let’s call her friend A, and I have another friend, Friend B. Friend A has a friend named Friend C. Friend C is toxic, abusive and constantly putting Friend A down. The Friend B and Friend C are good friends. Friend B&C decide to pick on friend A, and it hurts me to see them that way, they’re usually so nice. I try to intervene (I’ve always been a peacemaker) and Friend B & C pick on me in a way that they know hurts me a lot. I got mad at friend B & C and friend B came to apologize. I forgave her and had a talk with her about how she becomes a different person around Friend C. Friend A & B decided to shun her. I’m not sure if that’s the right thing to do. Can someone help me? Sorry if this was really confusing. Friend A is too blind to see that her friendship with Friend C is toxic and hurting her. How can I point out the truth (since she’s too blind to see it) without her getting mad at me (She’s sensitive) and how can we, as a group stand up to Friend C? Thanks for all your help. Apologies for the drama and confusion, I’m just really lost. Thanks!
Ally says:
This is really short but, talk it out, you will never get it over with if you don’t. It’s not like all of a sudden POOF friendship back together without someone doing something about it. That someone needs or should be YOU
Snoopyluvr25 says:
First of all I’m sorry but what kind of friends do you have?(don’t take this the wrong way) They turned on eachother and then the teamed up again!! You just need to point out that friend C is causing all the drama. She probably talked friend A into turning on friend B. then friend C talked friend B into turning on friend A. State the obvious!
Yasmin says:
My best friend doesn’t trust me. She trust her other “best friend” after everything my family has done for her.
Chilli wave says:
I have a boy best friend who now says he can’t trust me after it all going so well I’m confused
fungirl says:
so my bff have not been talking to me and being mean to me idk what I did wrong she only said hi to me and some mean stuff to
fungirl says:
did the same thing to one of my friends and told her what happen and it was all good things
Samiksha Sinha says:
My best frnd is very very angry with me n she blames me for something so bad n cheap that i can’t even think of doing …our friendship iis2 yrs old n now she says that she doesn’t trust me …..our friendship was very famous in schol n many didn’t like it…i did everything to make her understand that i was not wrong but almost the whole class said that i had rumoured such thingsthings..i want her back but she is not ready to resolve the matter… she is hurting me by sayin that she doesn’t want to see my face n when I cried she said i did it to gain sympathy…..Hearin this unexpected thing i said to softly that i wanna die to this she said u can only do such things…
I think its over but i want my best frnd back plz help
Snoopyluvr25 says:
I want my friend back too but when they wanna judge your comment about wanting to die (joking or not joking) then they’ve taken it too far. Drop it and find better friends. You deserve better.
Mckenzie Harp says:
i know know how you feel that is what happend to me today
Philippa says:
My best friend gets annoyed when I can’t text her, she thinks I’m purposely ignoring her, whereas I’m busy, what should I do?
ashley says:
I told one of my other friends that my BFF had lice now she is mad at me and said directly at my face THIS FRIENDSHIP IS OVER I cried and I still am how do I get her back
Miss Know It All says:
That is very dramatic. She ended your relationship because of LICE!! Go talk to her and state the obvious!
Autumn Clifton says:
Are you And you friend cool now?
Anne hailey says:
Yes, Samiksha! That is the best thing to do cassidy and also Samiksha , could you give me advice?
Guest says:
Well Aria, if there isnt a reason then i wouldnt care to be her friend! You have alot more out there!
Emma says:
I have a best friend and I always get into fights with her. She once said “It’s like I’m the bad one, and you’re the sweet angel.” What the heck? She’s the one trying to be the sweet angel, while she thinks I’m the bad one. Ughh…. Someone! I need your advice! She keeps getting angry at me for being annoying!
Wolf says:
I’ve been best friends with my best friend for over 7 YEARS! I swear we have almost never have gotten into a real fight and if she was ever mad at me, she would always talk to me and be her normal self the very next day. But I discovered today that she’s mad at me?! We returned to school today from our break. I went to my friends locker today after school and she was there and she wasn’t talking and she didn’t even look up at me. She was on her phone and all of our friends were in a group chat and I was sending texts to my friends through the group chat and I peeked at her phone and I was blocked?! I REALLY DON’T KNOW WHAT’S GOING ON! From what I can remember I never did anything to her, I haven’t spoken behind her back because she is such a good friend. I only see her 1st period every other day and I have made many new friends and I see them more often then her. But, she isn’t the known for being the jealous type. I’M VERY CONFUSED AND WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF SOMEONE GAVE ME SOME ADVICE!
Snoopyluvr25 says:
Ask her what you did wrong because you want to fix it. If you really want to know what happened ask the girls on the group chat what happened and if she still ignores you then just drop it. Just find someone else
Lena says:
I have two best friends, both of them so different from the other. They really really don’t get along. One of them (call her Addy) is the kind of friend where we talk about everything and shes so understanding and I have been through a lot with her. My other friend (call her Michelle) is a much different. We used to be so close but then Addy and I became close also, and Michelle is really jealous. If Addy asks me to hang out with her all weekend early in the week then Michelle asks me late in the week and I tell Michelle I already made plans with Addy Michelle gets super angry at me and jealous. I also feel like it’s always a competition with her, like she gets mad if I go shopping because she thinks my mom spends too much money on clothes. Addy dosen’t like Michelle because she thinks Michelle treats me really bad. (I tell Addy about my and Michelle’s problems, although I probably shouldn’t) Now Michelle gets mad if I dont wait for her in the hallway or if we walk together and i talk to someone else for a split second. All the time she will leave me and I dont flinch about it or i will walk with her and another girl and she will act like im not there. When shes mad she ignores me and I try so hard to be a great friend its just so exhausting. When Michelle and I get along though its so much fun, she is just so jealous and angry at me so much. Is there such thing as a mentally abusive friendship? And what should I do? Everytime I try to talk to her she gets so defensive.
Archielover4312 says:
I never know what I do wrong. It’s annoying that they never tell u.
Snoopyluvr25 says:
My friend is mad at me because she thinks that I said something about a guy. Her family doesn’t know about him and she’s mad at me. She told me that she didn’t like him which is a lie because she would have gotten over him already. I told her I was wrong an she was like of course your wrong and I told her I wanted to be friends and I was crying (that wasn’t a lie because my face is still sticky with tears) and she said. Crying because you want attention and you wish! My friend can be VERY hardheaded sometimes and it makes me really mad and I think I’m done with her. That’s what? 2 friends in a row I’ve lost today!!
ThatGuy says:
My class is having a plant project for school. It’s being graded but I accidentally ruined his plant by dropping something on it. I’m afraid what to tell him. We’ve been friends and I don’t want the school year to end like this while he’s angry at me. Help?
Archielover4312 says:
If he is really nice he will forgive u. And tell him it was an accident and u are so sorry u feel like crap because of what happened
Britian says:
my bff has been been ignoring me lately what should i do about it
I have no BFF anymore says:
My friend won’t talk to me bc someone told her that I was saying things about her and she reads my messages and she replies but with attitude and says that she’s done with me without even telling me what I did wrong and I don’t know what to do bc she’s my everything and she’s my life so I’m feeling pretty down without her
vlw54132 says:
me a my bff are fight over something so stupid & i dont think shes going to talk to me what should i do ?
Fofa says:
i blamed my friend of a problem and she was travelling to india by the school and no one of the our group didn’t go except her so my friends warned me not to tell her so i don’t ruin her vacation so i told her because i knew that i didi something wrong and my heart keeps pounding and it was i was having a heart attack so my friends kept being mad at me and we were fighting then 2 of my friends forgived me (we are a group of 3) but the other friend was mad at me and kept fighting and in the end she told me that its wrong thing that i trusted you and became your friend so I’m done with her and i don’t care about her and i appoligized to her she kept fighting and tomorrow my friend which is coming back from india is coming and ia m really scared and i don’t know what to do plaesseeeeeee someone tell me what to do ASAP
ASDFGHJKL says:
Hi so my friend is pissed at me because well… I don’t know why she just sunddenly got moody at me
Jesslynne says:
Pms
Emma says:
me and my friend have been best friends since 1st grade (5 years) and then a new girl came to our school and she was really shy and so i invited her to come hang out with us. but then my friend thought i was picking the new girl over her her so she went and found a new group of friends. and now my so called “best friend” is saying that all I do is disapiont her and that im a horrible person and things like that. I really loved her though and i want her to stop beibg mad at me but i dont know if i should try to get her to become friends with me again. HELP PLEASE!
Guest says:
Well my best friend isnt mad at me. I have quite alot of best friends but i have 3 mains. One of them is shy but i lnow i can alwaus be with her but sometimes its awkward, the other two are both bestfriends. I was friends with one of them first and we have alot in common but then the other one came along and kindof stole her away from me. They both really like me as a friend but they seem to like each other more than they like me. Basically i feel left out.
mjgea says:
Helppp? I am teasing my bestfriend by pulling her strap in the back which is her bra and she got mad at me and I said sorry but shes ignoring me. and yes I did a really wrong thing.but iddnt knew that shes going to get mad at me. and I know I am silly that time. please dont laugh at me.but please help thanks.
Jesslynne says:
Me and my friend got in a huge fight. She refuses to even let me talk to her. I can’t apologize if I can’t talk to her right? She keeps giving me dirty looks and I don’t know what to do!
Jesslynne says:
Give it time!
Navya says:
I told a guy that my friend liked her, when she didn’t. I realized I was being mean about this and I shouldn’t have done that. How can she ever be my friend again?
Alexis says:
Well I told on my friend cuz she was doing something I disapproved of and now she’s mad at me… I tried contacting her and gave her a long message and when we say Olaf it means I love you in a best friend way… And I wrote that at the end and she replied give me sometime… Olaf and the next day we didn’t talk at all to each other so what should I do?
wh says:
I’m a guy and my female best friends are upset with me because I asked one of them out and I had no clue that they were a thing because they were keeping it quite I don’t think they have told anyone else and now they won’t even act like I exist it sucks im going to try these tips next time i see one of them
Kate Mac says:
My friends (A and B )were bitching about our friend (C). I didn’t join into the discussion because i’m in enough trouble at the moment. I have talked about her (C) before saying that I don’t trust her to friends (A and B). I thought was they said about my friend (C) was mean so i told her what they’d been saying. She was obviously upset by what they said but the only reason I told her was because if it happened to me I would want her to come tell me. Anyways she went off and confronted confronted through text which makes things more heated. Id asked her not to tell them that she knew at all because they would know it was me because I was the only one not bitching about her. My friend (A) just text me asking why did I tell her and saying she never said it! Then friend (C) is telling me she doesn’t believe me and why am I not replying to friend (A). It was definitely not my intension to have everyone one fall out i just want to make sure that if they were bitching about me she(C) would come tell me. What should I say to friend (A) and (C) HELLLPPPP
Demon_Salyer561 says:
I have a best friend and her boyfriend is being a d**k mostly to me because, before they went out we WERE friends and now we hate each other and just told my friend to not to talk to her with her boyfriend by her side but i’m going to keep doing what i’m doing. >:)
Layla says:
Me and my friend knew each other for like 5 years and we stopped seeing each other but wee still BFF but her “new friends” been saying bad stuff about me like she doesn’t care about you and she’s stupid and she’s not stepping up for me and those are like her bros when we used to be bros I’m now just a friend what should I do and I kept talking to her about it but she keeps lying!
Jayda says:
My best friend just got mad at me for no reason and I can sleep at night im afraid to talk to hear because she might just ignore me like she’s doing to her other friend, now that friend is showing signs of wanting to commute suicide! I dont know what to do anymore because I feel like I can’t talk to anyone about my feelings a and it just makes me feel so hollow inside. When she didn’t talk to me that day I felt like my heart had just been ripped out of my body. I try to look sad so she would ask if I was okay but that didn’t help anything. Please help me im begging…please.
Archielover4312 says:
I do that too. I try to look sad but my friend just thinks I’m being a baby and doesn’t even ask why I’m sad. She is mean.
TheHopeLine says:
Jayda, I’m so sorry you are having problems with your friend. It’s hard when someone we care about doesn’t return the same feelings and respect. It’s also important to talk to someone about what is going on and to also tell someone about your friend that may be suicidal. We’d like to listen and guide you through this at TheHopeLine. Please call 800.394.4673 or chat with a HopeCoach at http://www.thehopeline.com/gethelp. We also have an app you can download to get help too at http://thehope.dm/thlmobileapp
Nicki says:
But what if when I ask what I can do, my friend says for me to figure it out myself?
maddie says:
my friend and I have been friends for yrs but now I told someone who she likes but she already knew. but now she is texting me bad names and wont let me talk to her friends.What should I do???!!!
Emma says:
admit that you were wrong the best thing to do is not be defensive
Riya says:
My best friend told a guy I like them when I didnt.the best thing you can do is laugh it off and be there for her/him.
Deborah Lazarus says:
Hi…my best friend is a boy. He migrated and went to America last year November and we used to be in love with each other but I don’t think he still loves and misses me…he said he has a gf and I feel a little jealous… I am still in love with him…we text on whatsapp to keep contact…recently we haven’t been talking as much as we used to and he seens most of my messages and texts very reluctantly…. I don’t know what to do
Emma says:
tell him honestly how you feel. He is probably trying to make you jealous and get your attention.
Archielover4312 says:
It is very easy to get jealous when your best friend hangs out with someone else. U feel horrible inside and to top that off my friend barely hangs out with me. U feel all alone and angry inside. My friend found this new girl named Emma and my friend is even nicer to her. They talk about me all the time. It sucks. So u need to get over it. I trying to say this in the nicest way possible, she is not your friend if she never forgives u. U r probably the nicest person ever,so u don’t deserve a friend who doesn’t forgive u.
DRAYA says:
My best freind forever and she always mad at me for a reason i need advice
Anonymous says:
Take a break from each other.
bubblefun9901 says:
I feel my friend is ditching me for no reason like I did something wrong. Her other friend told her I did something which I didn’t and I am afraid I lost her to the other friend. I don’t know if she was just a bit cold for a day or she genuinely doesn’t want to be friends with me anymore. Any advice?! Xxx
Naruto Uzumaki says:
Well one day me and my friend were talking and I guess I got mad and defensive all of a sudden. What should I do? He won’t talk to me anymore and he recently moved so I can’t talk to him.
Naomi says:
My friend (let’s call her A) told me that my other friend (B) sent a nasty picture of me to everyone. These kind of things make me really upset and scared and ofcourse completly humiliated. So I immidiatley texted B and freaked out. I was so upset and furious at her. As I was texting B, A texted me saying that I can’t tell B anything about how I know about the picture. But I already had texted B. Then A sent me the nasty picture that she told me about. I was shocked to see that it was just a selfie that I accidentally photobombed and I didn’t even look that bad. I feel so guilty that I overeated and hurt B. Now I’m afraid of what’s going to happen tomorrow. Is B going to tell everyone about what I did? Is A going to blame me for saying something to B? Am I just the worst person ever to walk this earth? I always mess things up and start a fight. I try so hard but I always get it wrong. SOS
karla says:
what do you do when you get mad and your friend dosent talk to you what do you do
thatonegirltheyallhate says:
My friend hates me because i told her i liked her boyfriend because i thought i did but i dont and i said im sorry about a million times and that it wouldn’t happen again but she keeps saying that she wont forgive me and i should just leave her alone . and she turned all my friends against me and now everyone hates me. what should i do. is she a real friend or fake. Do I deserve to lose her.
Emma says:
tell her that you need to talk to her and tell her how much you love her and need her in your life make her feel good about herself. Tell her that it was a huge mistake and it will never happen again. Think to yourself what would you want to hear if you were her.
Brittany says:
Hello! Okay so I recently moved out of my house and into my friend Jenessas house. I have lived here for about a month or so and things were going great. Yesterday I didnt have a ride home from school and I didnt get picked up until 6pm 3 hours after school ends.. She picked me up but seemed angry at me. Her boyfriend and her other friend were home when I got home. I didnt really say much. Then we had to take her friend home and her friend and her boyfriend perssued bullying me by texting each other laughing and making jokes toward me. I ddnt want to seem like I was over reacting so I just put on a brave face and tried to join in the fun. Jenessa started giving me dirty looks and I wasnt sure why. She hadn’t talked to me at all. As soon as we got home I went to our room and sat on the bed and did homework. Jenessa and her boyfriend were tickling each other and laughing. I just ignored them. We didnt talk for the rest of the night. The next morning I woke up and she usually leaves to school before Im up. On the mirror she wrote ‘We all go through deep waters, Im always here if you need anything, keep your chin up and stay beautiful” I dont think she meant it because today she had a Chiropractor appt and I was in the lobby waiting for her. She knows I text her friends with her phone so theres no issue there. I open her sister in laws message feed and I saw things I didnt want to see like “Shes so ugly, poor girl”, “make her do the dishes lmao” “I asked her if she put more blond in her hair and she said I just washed it” “Im gonna get ready which hair wand is yours, I dont wanna get head lice from that little b.” “Dude shes so annoying I hate her”….. I honestly have no idea what im going to do. I love her to death but I dont want to be known as the ugly, annoying fat friend. What can I do? Do I talk to her about it? Im worried shell just want to fight me and kick me out. I dont want to bring up me going through her phone.. she knows I do but I hate seeing er mad at me. I am so lost. I know its a hard transition but I really need my friend.
Anonymous says:
Talk to her about it. It’s gonna get worse if you don’t, her friends are probably gonna keep saying lippy things about you. Ask her if she’s ignoring you because she doesn’t want her other friends to get mad at her. Don’t worry about the mean things they said about you, find other friends who can help you up instead of push you down. Be your own motivator for now, disagree with those comments and say to yourself “I’m not ugly” and put yourself up. Hope this helps! 🙂
Jade says:
I understand. This might be hard but confront her. Tell her what you saw, how you feel, and tell her that if she’s going to act that way then tell her bye bye. She will realize she lost her best friend and come to you. I hope this helps. good luck
Jaebird:( says:
Hey girl i have tough times to. I got bullied the first day of 4th grade! I got called ‘Medusa’ and i still get called ‘broom’ and ‘bush’ i cant help it i got really puffy hair, and dont listen to people she/he might be jealous of how pretty you are 🙂 XOXO Jaebird^_^
anon123 says:
My friend and I have been together since 4th grade and have a close bond. Recently, I said something that he told me, out loud in front of his mom. He became incredibly mad and started swearing. The next day, he ignored me and whenever I tell him i’m sorry, he tells me to f off. I don’t know what do. Please help ASAP.
Jade says:
I have this best friend who I’ve known my whole life. We get into fights a lot but we always forgive and forget. I always tell her I’m sorry and I promise it wont happen again but I break those promises and I’m tired of saying those things and she’s sick of hearing it. This is a best friend I don’t want to lose. She means the world to me. She blocked me from every social media possible, called me a b and told me to go die. Even though she said all that I know she didn’t mean it at all, but I took it to heart. We gave each other space but still the same. I’ve lost tons of friends but I don’t want to lose her. We are also in a band together and our mates try to help but also fail. It feels like we are both trying to fight for our friendship but a wall is in the way and we cant climb it. Every time we try we get mad and say things to each other. Please someone, I’ll do anything.
Lillyladada says:
Some rumors have been going round that my friend doesn’t like me no more so i checked with her today and also i told her how i felt left out of the group of friends and now she is calling me an attention seeker , for some reason she is calling me a liar , and a non believer of her
jeanette says:
Just dont tell a lie and when she dosent want to talk leave her alone or try to see whats the matter
jeanette says:
Same here
Jessica says:
Same here
katy says:
my friend is MAD at me. really mad. she thought i was talking abt her behind her back and this isnt the first time so she barely speaks to me and it’s been about a week now and this is the longest fight we’ve had. i’ve said said im sry over and over. i’ve given her space but nothing seems to work. i really dont want to lose her. please someone help me.
ali12 says:
my friend misundrestood what i told her and now she is telling me things like”its too late” when i tell her sorry and i dont know what to do she even hurt my feelings when she said”your the worst friend i could ever have”
ali12 says:
uh what do i do now she is asking for help but i dont know with what by the way i am talkng to her on skype
Madi says:
My bestie and I have known each other since the first grade and a few weeks ago I was giving her advice about her boyfriend so she got mad and started spreading rumors about me also she is following me around being a complete jerk I’m tired of it she was just using my othe best friend to be popular so then everyone would like her she just uses people and makes them feel horrible oh and why was I giving her advice you ask because she asked for it
ximena says:
My friend is mad because I told her I don’t like her boyfriend because he is really mean to me since we were small and I said a lot of things about him.
maddie says:
my best friend who i have been friends with since i was born is ignoring me and not answering my calls, and i don’t know if I’ve done something wrong or if she has just moved on, but i can’t get a hold of her, i called her once and her little brother answered, and i could hear her in the background telling him to say she was not there. also, she is very private so i can’t ask her…..
Nena says:
My friend and I been together abou 8 years. We use to care about each other,but also fighting alot. If I use to say something,and she was thinking it is wrong,she was screaming very much. And many times I was just trying to talk to her,but she wouldn’t even let me explain. After a period of time,and after I begged her,she would forgive me.The last time I said something stupid to her,after I got upset with her,and we got into the fight. She wont even listen to me,she blames me for everything all this years.She deleted me also from all public networks,after I said sorry many times,and tried to talk to her. Please,tell me what else I can do? I really don’t wanna loose her,but what ever I try she wont forgive me.
Brooklyn says:
My friend that have been with for 8-9 and we just started fighting about how I was talking about her when I was not and she will not admit that it is not true and she said that I am lying and I don’t know what to do
Lucy Stoddard says:
So me and my friend had a deal that we wouldn’t do cheer and when try outs came she tried out and made it I got really mad and we started a text fight
What should I do
Ganesh Salian says:
Me and my best friend have recently have hard times.It all started with her not talking to me and I had always found this strange and wanted to know why she isn’t talking to me as she was one of the most closest and most important friends I had. and I have also always protected her whenever she wanted me to and also been with her in her bad times.Then,I tried my level best to know the reason,unforunately she never did reveal it.Few days later,I come to know from her friend that she isn’t talking to me because someone had spread rumors that I was talking bad about her behind her back (I also knew the person who spread the rumors and told her about it yet she didn’t belive me) and I was shocked to know she actually believed.For 3 months,I was in a bad state and was in a state of anger.After that,we met and she behaved strang which forcibly made me to lie about her and which created a lot of problems.I realized few months back that what I did was wrong and should seek forgiveness.I tried many times to get in touch with her to apologize,she never responds.I tried even face to face,but now,I think it’s too late yet I want her back as she has meant a lot to me.At the moment,I don’t have any idea what step to be taken
FutureTrunks 1235 says:
Hey, so I’ve been friends with these two girls for a while now, and one was upset, so she kinda yelled at me, but then I told the other about it, and I said that she said something, but she didn’t. So the second one goes off on the first one, and then they got mad, and now they kinda aren’t friends. But recently, they were talking, and figured out that I said that thing that wasnt true. Now they have decided it’s all my fault that their friendship is ruined, and want nothing more to do with me. The first one has forgiven me, but the second one is still mad. How can I fix this?
isabel says:
My friend is mad at me and she wont tell me why so I got mad at her becomes she is telling all the secrets that I told her to other people what do I do and I don’t won’t to loose her because this is my last year in elementary school and my friend is what helps Me be strong when I feel bad.
Mikaela Nicole says:
You need to bond with your friend. That way, you had many time together.
unknown says:
talk to me please guys im alone
Mikaela Nicole says:
If your friend do not want to talk to you, give her a time. Sometimes, the only way to resolve the item is by letting time pass. Maybe one day, she will eager to talk to you.
Help me says:
On the bus my best friend was sitting by this boy she liked and she typed him a note on her iPod,and I was sitting behind her and I saw the note. My other friend who was sitting with me already knew that she liked him,and then my friend sitting by me saw that I saw the note,and then my friend in front of me (the one typing the note) saw I was looking,and then after that she gave the note to the boy and the note said: “I think you like me. Type back and tell me if you do.” And then he said some thing back, then he got off the bus. After that, she told me:”I’m sorry,but I can’t trust you with my secrets.” And then I started to cry,and she didn’t even notice. What can I do to make her not mad at me???
Mariah says:
I told my friend how i felt about her and how she got all mad at me.shes with my other friend and they’re siding against me. I tried to mend it, they won’t budge. Giving it time will just make me feel worse..
SpOok says:
hey me and my best friend have known each other ever since I could remember. Recently I did something that upseted him, I immediately confronted the issue and told him how sorry I am and what not, at first he seemed kinda pissed but eventually forgave me, however I’ve been hearing roomers lately that he’s been talking behind my back, and that we’ve known each other for a long time and how could I have done that to him, clearly he hasn’t forgiven me, so I was wondering how can I make things right, should I confront him again, will that make things right or worse…
Haiden R says:
My best friend and me have been friends for almost 3 years now and I know what I did wrong and he doesn’t want me at his house anymore! All I did was take a book from the school library and leave without taking it out because the school won’t let me! I told him that is how I got it and he started yelling at me and telling me it was stealing! It was a school library book and we are not friends anymore now because of it… Help me please!
Isabelle says:
I told this guy that my friend liked him but she meant as a friend. I didnt know she meant as a friend and now she wont talk to me. What do I do???????????
Unknown says:
tell her that you feel that she deserves better and you shouldnt have done that and that you need her
Claudia says:
I told my best friend’s crush that she used to like him and that she likes someone else some boy barged in on the conversation and told my best friend you like him and now she is mad at me and cried and feels embarrassed what do i do
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Dani says:
I’ve been friends with my friend for a year, and she constantly gets angry with me. I never know what I do wrong, but whenever she gets mad at me she’s laughing with someone else. It happened again today and she got mad at me for something someone else did. I don’t want to apologize in case she asks ‘what for’ and I don’t know what to say. She’s an artist and I think she got mad at me for hovering over her when she draws ( When the one who was doing it was a mutual friend, no offense to her). I told her I was trying to stop and all she said was ‘Then you need to try harder’ before telling me to leave.
Alizasaurus says:
So my friend is mad at me for probably a stupid reason.
Shayla McCuaig says:
I thought someone was making fun of my BFFs last name. So I told her that the person made fun of it. The person said no I didn’t and so my friend was like why did I lie to her and she ignored me. And then I asked her to forgive me and she was like you know what you started the drama. And then she said she was going to tell the whole school about my 2 biggest secrets. That got me so mad so I told her that I would tell the whole school about her secret YouTube video but I was just joking. She still won’t forgive me and I don’t know what to do. She blocked me from Facebook, and iMessages. She won’t even look or talk to me what do I do to make my BFF forgive me.
Lucey says:
Me and my best friend have been fighting for a while, and it’s almost the end of the school year. After that she’s moving across the country. I afraid we’ll never make up- what should I do?
MM says:
Here is my situation. I asked my friend (girl) via texting about
going somewhere, and she didn’t reply for two hours, which was weird
because she stopped texting just after I asked her about going
somewhere. So, then after two hours, I kinda got little impatient and
texted her asking if she doesn’t want to go; not directly, but
indirectly. She got mad at me giving me excuses, and refused to go with
me. It was my partially my fault because I shouldn’t have said, but I
wanted her to be honest, and tell me if she didn’t want to go. I mean it
was obvious because she suddenly stopped replying after I sent her that
last text. Along with her refusal, she also got mad telling me I am
this and that. She was a little blunt. It was her fault too (mainly). If
I was her, I would have said “no there is nothing like that, I was just
a little busy”. Don’t need to lash out at someone. I think about it
everyday waiting and waiting for a text. It hurts. Our friendship is
only 3 or 4 months old. And, this happened a month ago. Just at the
beginning of the summer break. Bad start. I know, she is not gonna
message me for the next three months because school doesn’t start till
then. We are in same classes. The reason I am getting too emotional
because I like her a lot even though she has a bf. I really care about
her. Also, I don’t know if she is really mad at me or not because her emotions and feelings sucks. It is always a new day for her. But, I have to assume that she is mad. HELP !!
Jessica says:
help me . So me and one of my best friend got in a fight I didn’t mean to . So I talked to somebody she hated and now she’s mad at me and ignoring me . Whenever I try to talk to her she leaves . And she’s like my only friend so if I lose her I have nobody …
mallory says:
I doint know why what to say about it she mad problem I feel emotional how I feeling I say no I doint want to do this anymore I cant take it anymore I want change everything change my name all this memories all about me sad songs makes me crying my heart out want to do this cry my broken heart had enough im done with her
amanda says:
Im having the exact same problem with my “friend” where I apoligized many times but now she just wants to ditch me for some other people and I think that’s pretty messed up
Isabel Panek says:
That is what’s happening to me too. I still don’t know what to do either, sorry
Sha says:
My best friend is mad at me now and said that I treated her as a spare tyre and which I dint even think that way…I just have my problems(me and my other friend quarrelling also)and wanted to tell her but I couldn’t find a right timing and just followed her she is a friend who I always shared my problems with and now when she is angry at me she told the rest of my fiend not to be with me…
CHAVES says:
Hello nice to meet you all.i have problem and i need help. My best friend calls a lot i dont feel comfortable because we fought on school because he angry at me because he was jealous and he intimidated me and he apologize and huged me…. Seriously so the point I don’t feel comfortable around him creepy kid what am i todo i mean he was my best friend.so please help i would really appreciate this also sorry if I skipped some words im kinda in rush🙏🏻🔥
aly says:
I hate this one girl my friend is friends with, so i said something really mean about her and my friend got really mad. she said she didn’t want to be friends anymore. i said i was sorry and that i loved her and everything but she hasn’t been replying for the past month. what should i do.
Kaleigh says:
Hi I keep calling my friend and she says mean things. I text her and she says she not doing that I’ve called her before and she was nice so I know it’s not the wrong #
I’ve done all these steps and she won’t
Answer my calls/texts/facetimes. I’m
Giving her time but she still won’t come
Through because I got defensive. Any ideas?
Mcmichael says:
Hey so my friend and I got in a fight bc I got mad at her bc she was going to stop being friends with me bc I was being mean to her other friend and than I texted her and told her I was done and didn’t care about her and that the biggest mistake I have ever made was being friends with u and said I never wanted her back and she never was a true friend and than her mom texted me bc I made her cry and I felt so bad I tried saying sorry but she told me to leave her alone and she told me to stay out of her life and she blocked me one everything but now I regret saying that and I want her back so much like I miss her a lot I’d do anything to get her back but i dont know how Too get her back and she won’t talk or anything? And I like want another chance I want to start over but how do I do that with her and how do I prove to her that I really care and miss her ???
Jaden says:
I have a really good friend that is a girl (I am a boy) and she seems mad at me for a reason that is unknown. I did go to a movie with a different girl, so maybe she has a crush on me, so I need help on what I should say and ask her just in case I’m wrong. Thanks all, this is a really tough time for me.
vinnie <3 says:
my frnd first started 2 be rude n afterwards started ignoring. she isn’t telling me the reason but wat I feel is she’s angry coz I was talking 2 her boyfriend. she isn’t feeling insecure bt the thng is smthng else. I m in a fix. now wat should I do now ?!
another_person says:
my friend and i promised that we would tell each other our secret but ive found i she told most her problem to our other friend and that made me mad. i mean, i told ALL my problems to her. and if anything happens to her, i am not the first person she would tell. we haven’t been really talk like a week and she didnt ask me to sit down and discuss our fight and pretend everything’s fine, and suddenly today she apologized to me. i dont know what to say so i just sighed and kept quiet. are we really friends?
Adelina says:
Hi I don’t know if I did something wrong and whenever time I call her she doesn’t pick up so I don’t know if she is mad at . How can I tell if she is mad at me? Please help
Johan le Grange says:
well my best friend assaulted me and tried to kill me, after I didn’t stop asking him what was wrong. How is this in any world normal behavior that one can forgive. I am going to leave this “relationship” because friend’s don’t do that!
Bryan Balvuena says:
I have a friend that i haven’t spoke to her since 6 grade and now i am in 8 grade and i want her back what should i do? ps i am a boy
Ally says:
hey people! Quick question my friend has forgiven me and um what do I say back?
annalynna says:
I love you, or hug them or thank you, I missed you like heck… Ally, that’s my ex-bff’s name *cries*
tammy says:
I work with a guy so I see him everyday…we have I thought become very close, we talk about every and any topic…whether it’s stupid or very personal…we’ve worked together for like 3 months…he has recently started ignoring me…doesn’t say hi or bye or anything…it’s clear I’ve made him mad but I’m not sure exactly how…it’s very tried talking to him but he acts like I’m not even there
Allylynna says:
I have a friend, we had someone drive a wedge between us, someone I hated, who lies, and her lies separated me and my friend. We’ve been friends for 2 years, but we know each other so well. We talked every day and every night. Now, we aren’t talking, I won’t see her till October but right now, it really hurts. We haven’t talked in 5 months except she said hi at a public event, but I wasn’t entirely sure if she was talking to me. I miss her, but I hope I can clear the air in Oct. Any advice?
TroubledGirl says:
I’ve just started the eight grade and my teacher give a lot of homework My closest friend is mad at me cause I don’t text her as often as I used to do. It started this week I don’t what to do. I’ve tried apologizing and it’s not working as I thought it would. She thinks I’m purposely avoiding but I’m just busy now a days. I want her to understand that I can’t text her 24/7. My other friend is also mad. I feel as if they’re talking about me behind my back but I’m not sure tbh. I also had personal household problem is another reasons. But I feel as if they think I’m making up excuses but I’m not. I’ve been in a similar situation 2 years ago but with these group a girls but I don’t want it to repeat. Also on Instagram I’m not that active cause I don’t post much and they expect to like all their pictures and comment and I honestly don’t have the time or don’t really want to. We have been through a lot and have been good to me and invite me to many things and helped me on personal problems. Are they worth it?
Allylynn says:
We are in a similar place here. The thing is, with me, I lost her, because I didn’t stand up and talk to her. But I still could mend things, I can call her right now, but I won’t. I will see her in Oct. Don’t go out of your way if you are uneasy to see her, maybe at a public event? The last couple of months of our friendship, she left me alone at school for some jerk and then went on to date her brother, which made things worse. I loved her like a sister, that’s why I am going to try and fix things. Just try to recal any and all good times with her. If there are few of these and something doesn’t seem right, she may not be the friend you thought she was. Good luck Kenzie
lilly says:
I am part of some friend groups. i sit with one group at lunch one group at choir. the group i sit with at lunch keeps asking me to sit with them at choir but i really dont want to and there great friends but i dont know what to do the group i sit with at choir is a little more popular than that group. Im worried they think im going to leave them like i did last year, which was a dumb thing. the tiny bit more popluar group says that if i feel concered about what they think and i feel hurt by them i shouldnt be friends with them, but at the same time they know i cant do that. Im way too nice and there really good friends. I really need help. the one group i sit with at lunch one of the girls sent me something today saying “your such a good friend” i was so confused, and i replied saying “okay?” she hasnt sent me anything since then. i dont know what to do can anyone help me please. thanks for listening.
poop says:
thnx this did help alot
tron says:
what do you do when they tell you to stop talking to you and to delete all their contact info
Chloe says:
ok so what happened to me is that one of my best friends (lets say C) well she told my other friends( V ) crush that v liked him. so now v and her other friends (theyre also my friends too) are mad at me because i didnt stop C from telling the crush. so now idk what to do. one of V’s friends has forgived me but V is still mad at me and not C. now im mad at C because she did all of this because she felt “left out”(she wasnt left out) so now i think i should just apologise to V and ignore C for a while until i can trust her to keep a secret again.
Brenda says:
Two friends of mine had problems with eachother, friend A was talking ill of friend B and friend B got upset with me for not sticking up for her. But friend A is very confrontational and I wanted to avoid a fight. But now friend B is very angry with me.
Adison childress says:
Thnx this really helped me and my friends
Jared says:
I thought 2 of my friends were friends, and 1 of them told me a huge secret. I accidentally was having a conversation with the other 1, and I said it and said “Oh you didn’t know?” and the first thing he did was tell her that he knew, and she started crying and gfot mad at me because she thought I would keep her secret, and IDK what to do I still want to be her friend and I’m not going to be around much longer and I don’t want to leave with us not being friends, I will take time but I need us to be friends before I move.
Sharry says:
same ting my best friend told everybody who she is dating but not me but not me and when I found out by another friend I told her and she wont talk to me she is ignoring meh because I lied to her that someone told meh
Lea says:
Omg same! I just asked her what she expected from me and she said what she wanted and also admitted that she has done som mistakes. Find the right moment of the day to talk to her (alone).
Rafa Rahman says:
Today I did a terrible thing to my best friend I was having trouble to my personal difficulties so I broke the friendship . I realized that I was wrong . I feel ashamed to myself right now . they helped me so much and I broke that friendship. I don’t know if I able to get that friendship once I had before
Rafa Rahman says:
True
Rafa Rahman says:
Today I did a terrible thing to my best friends. I was having personal difficulties so I broke the friendship . they helped me so much and I broke that friendship. I realized that I was wrong . I feel ashamed right now. I don’t know if I able to get that friendship like I once had before .today is my birthday . I wish they will forgive me and be my friend forever . I hope my wish will come true
JW says:
my friend and i were talking online, and i must have done something, because she got really mad, and when i asked her why she said i was being a control freak. when i tried to apologize, she said i was being an insincere piece of garbage. she won’t talk to me now, and this sort of thing has happened before, what do i do?!
katie says:
im friends with this girl who was bullied previously and i stood up for her now she always teases me that she has friends and when ever i stand up she calls me sensitive what do i do?
destiny paris says:
i accedentle called my best friend Fear from inside out because he is skinny and i was like you are Fear from inside out because u are easy to brake i was mad at him because he has a other friend and they talk bad about me pls help me with that
destiny paris says:
and we have been friends ever sence before school startedd so i know him better than any of his other friends but he is not talking to me anymore i am sad please help me
Camber Hood says:
Me and my friend have been along our sides for 7 years and I messed up big time and I know none of this will help what do I do now? ;-((
samantha schoonmaker says:
my best friend of 8 or more years has started hanging out with other people and now shes ignoring me i dont know what to do i tried messaging her and calling but she sees the messages and doesnt answer and when i last saw her she seemed like she didnt want to be around me i dont know if thats the case or not but it kinda feels that way
Kennedy says:
My friend is mad at me because I went to my other friends house. Usually I wouldn’t care but tomorrow we have a school tour and none of my other friends are in the class. I really don’t want to be alone for the tour. Any tips?
Emily says:
My best friend is mad at me and she won’t talk to me, not a single word and I don’t even know what I did wrong because she won’t tell me. I’ve tried to talk to her but when I did, she ran away or she just didn’t say a word and didn’t look at my face.
Bonny says:
same thing happened to me.I really love my best friend.but because of some issue we argued a lot.I told her that I dont want to keep our friendship.told her to stay away from me.and deleted her and her hubby from my facebook friend list.It was all because I thought she lied to me.and Iost my cool.but seriously m really feeling bad now.I apologized to her husband, because I shouldnt involed her husband into all dis.her husband seen my text but didnt reply and dint accept and reject my friend request either.I have msged my best friend many times but she dint reply at all.this is the first time its happening that she is completely ignoring me.but I know how much I love her.I am leaving my country after 1month.dont know wats going to happen.plz advice me I am dying to talk to her.
medina curtis says:
MY best friend is SO mad at me cause im dating and shes a real sassy person and i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!
Layona says:
Me and my bestfriend celeis have been friends for 4 years. She thinks I’m mad at her , but I’m not mad at her. Ive been ignoring her because this boy named ramon sometimes messes with me or play around with me and she’s his best bestfriend. But I tell her , she will get mad at me. So Today I was gonna talk to her , but I don’t know if she wants to talk to me. What should I do? Should I not be her friend or… ????
Melina rush says:
Thank you! I hope this works 😊
carol says:
Me and my friend have been mad at each other because I was ignoring her for the whole day because of a boy. I don’t get along with the boy and sometimes, I would be mad at her because she always trusts him and talks about how I should trust him and she never listens to what I am saying about him… I am not mad at her anymore but as she said she was mad at me just now, I was very mad and I need someone to help me. Her other friends would always ask me why am I so mean to her and why I should say sorry when it was her fault too. I’m always the one who gets blamed on and get in trouble. I am no shield for others! As the saying about an Aries: “Don’t mess with an Aries, you wouldn’t know what will happen”. I need help, if you guys have any ideas, plz tell me…
Sienna says:
Me and my friend are fighting over sprite cans and sh did net llook at me In school what should I do when I called her I said 5 words and she hung up what should I do ?
Luke says:
Your friend gets very mad like my friend. U need to give them time. Not to scare u, but that same friend was mad at me for 2 months and wouldn’t talk to me. I doubt that will happen to u
Kilee says:
My friend has been mad at me from may till now (more than 5 months) and I say sorry for whatever I did and I never get a reply. we have been best friends for more than 5 years but now she pretends like I don’t exist. I don’t know if I’m supposed to keep giving “it time” or just accept the fact that she doesn’t want to be friends with me. you can say she left me for the “populars”. TWO OF MY FRIENDS.
PleaseLetLifeBePeaceful says:
Just act sorry and say to her what shall I do to make it up to you. It will help
Nilesh Ingle says:
hi….. my bestie is so much mad at me……. a few days ago she was acting strange….. so i asked about the problem bt she wasn’t telling me…. so i tried asking again and again….. she started ignoring me and we fought about it she said im acting like boyfriend im emotional so i said im leaving you cause i thought it was all my fault and she said yes fine leave….. from that day im trying hard to convince her. i apologies her everyday but she is acting cold about it like she doesn’t care anymore. but i know she is in trouble and upset. she means a lot to me. what should i do?
Dan says:
What do I do if let’s say, me and my ex are trying to me be friends again. Anytime I try to talk to her she will only give me one word replies! I’ve tried asking her friend, what I should do about it and if she could relay dome messages for me. And it seems as if my ex is still mad at me for something! I am ftm transgender and she thinks me coming out was a “way to get attention” and she is still mad for “other things” that she won’t say. So what do I do!! Please reply ASAP!
Kenzie says:
My friend well she’s a very difficult person to handle. She argues with me all the time I try to talk to her but she just ignores me either that or she’ll just say stuff like get out of my way and stuff she used to act like she cared about me but now I’m sure she was just doing it for attention because no one like her, sadly everyone tries to avoid her cause she kind of says things that aren’t necessary what do I do????? Help me I’m lost!!!
Alyssa says:
My friend was getting bullied so I told the people to stop it and she got mad and won’t talk to me
Lola says:
Wow that’s dumb
Cassie says:
Lol Ikr
hailey says:
i did something with my friend and our parents found out its super awkward between us and hes mad what do i do?
secret says:
ok well I would say if she really was your friend she wouldaof stayed. But if you truly belive she liked you I would say don’t stress about it. Don’t let it change your life. stay the positive person you are. If she is your friend then she will realize no one could replace you.
mallory says:
my friend is really mad at me and my slumber party is tommorow
Hannah says:
So my best friend and I got into a fight about the stupidest thing. We were in a group chat and I couldn’t take her out and so I told her to stop talking in it everyone else did but her. I asked again nicely and then she started getting mad for no reason and she said I do it all the time do something mean and then expect her to forgive me but she is the one who does that. Plz tell me what to do we haven’t talked in 3 weeks
SABA Shakil says:
i would say i freind like hers got mad at this is useless
if she usually get mad then .. shes not worth it
alayna says:
I have this great best friend and she is super nice so when people are mean to her she cries; when they make up with her those two act like besties. I am the one who is helping her and she acts like I am not there sometimes. I get uper jealous but don’t say anything. then she asks what is wrong I just get really mad at her but don’t mean to. what should I DO?
Melanie says:
Help please!
My friend and I fought over some stupid game app which has a so-called ‘club’ and you basically are able to talk in the club with people from all over the place and stuff. She invited her friend to the game as well, but her friend quit after a few months. After a few days, one of my top star member informed me of how she left the club and found a new one due to the lack of member presence, so I decided that I had to do something about it to help prevent anyother situations such as this. And because the club is very competitive (more like I want it to be) I notified everyone in the club who were inactive for more than 3 days (it was also the criteria I set up in the beginning for new members who would join us since I was the club admin and I stuck to the rule) Seeing the attendance tracker including half the members also including my friend, I sent them a notification/message thing on their board informing them of their currect slip of attendance and how they have the remaining hour to follow up on their attendance. After an hour, I deleted those who haven’t done anything about it….my friend includingly.
In that same moment, I got a facebook message back from an upset friend who refused to go back to the club (which I said that she could go back if she wanted to) and I had to defend my stance by telling her that she could’ve quit the game just like the friend she invited since she must’ve been busy. She responded back (violently) and refused (once again) to decide if she wanted to come back. The minute I bound to apologize, she responds back with “I don’t care anymore” and “I have better things to do then talk to you.”
A week later, we’ve been ignoring eachother ever since. I would (used to) sit next to her, especially in majority of my classes, and (thank the lord we don’t have assigned seats with eachother) would now find my seat on the opposite side of the room. Also, (if I may) I had Art Club and my other friend had issues as well. Ok….well…let’s start off here: Ehem
Ah, finally ART CLUUUUUUB!! I flung my backpack at an open seat as I sat down. There’s usually people at the table I sat in but because I came extra early ( happy ) I was first. Then, the trio came (the table buddies I just mentioned) and sat. One of them was my closest friend, let’s just name her friend A, the second one was friend B and the guy friend is friend C. So friend A sat down and began working (she’s a pretty hard worker) and friend B was just a little absent-minded and easy amazed. Friend C was quite the power ball himself, he was very happy-go lucky carefree dude. So, me and friend A were having a good time minding our own business and friend B just watched friend A while friend C couldn’t keep still.
Friend A went to go get some water since she was working with clay.
Friend C sneaked to where friend A’s clay was at and began drawing a smiley face on the clay. He then ran back to his seat.
Friend A returned back with a fresh bowl of water and came back to the smiley face (which made her frown)
Friend A then stared at me (wow, she really doesn’t trust me) and begins scolding me about touching her stuff.
Friend C starts laughing as I begin admitting to Friend A that I didn’t do it.
Friend A goes back to get some paper towels for the water.
Friend B grabs a part of the clay that’s supposed to be shaped as an arm for the clay figure and she begins looking at it.
Friend A returns again but with paper towels and sees friend B touching her stuff.
Friend A says she’s in a really bad mood and looks to everyone at the table, especially to me.
Friend C throws paper ball at Friend A’s face right after her speech and she gets up, opens the door and leaves the room.
Friend C admits he went too far.
Friend B didn’t mean to touch the “arm”
And Friend A is gone.
I stood up telling the other two that we had to go look for Friend A.
I helped save the clay for Friend A and Friend B helps carry Friend A’s stuff.
Friend C tags along (even tho we told him not to) and we find friend A in the bathroom staring at the mirror.
Friend A stares back at us from mirror and says “Not Today!” And leaves.
Friend B calls out that she has her stuff and Friend A keeps moving.
Eventually, she came back to steal her stuff back and leaves with her older brother. I tried to call her and say “Friend A, wait!” But she quickened her pace and left. Tomorrow is the upcoming book club I have with friend A, and the friend I mentioned in the beginning of this whole thing. I fear that they’ll team up with each other, leaving me like this.
Mandie says:
Oh dear!!!
Complicating problems
Em says:
My friends were mad. And I mean REALLY mad. And I didn’t even know what I did. They never told me. I bought them $30.00 worth of stuff,(and that’s a LOT, considering I only had $40.00 worth of spending money.) and they forgave me for a while, but then one of them gave theres back, with a note that said, “I don’t think we should be friends anymore. We’d just keep getting fights.” I was literally crushed. I couldn’t sleep, I couldn’t eat, and in class, I was ALWAYS SO close to tears. Then it got a little better. But till this day, they still leave me out, and they don’t realize it, but it still makes me really sad. I’ve tried telling them that I feel left out, but they’re getting meaner everyday. Have I tried enough, to be done? Or should I keep trying?
Isabel Panek says:
Me and my friend just had a huge fight and I all of my other friends will side with the friend that is mad at me. I know I am going to be left alone and no onw will want to help me so what do I do?
Insert Name Here says:
Ok, so a friend of mine is super pissed at me. I told her (jokingly) that I had a crush on a video game character, and that it was serious. I made it very clear that I was joking, and she even laughed along, but after that she seemed to be pissed at me, and has been completely ignoring me. Her father got cancer a while back and is currently in the hospital, but she hadn’t told me at all. I finally confronted her about her being mad at me, and she explained in a loud tone that I had been really rude lately, that she had tried to explain to me about an issue (still not explaining what) and that I wouldn’t tell her myself when I wanted to tell her something, which was mostly because I figured she didn’t want to hear anything from me. I stayed calm at the time. I’m a shy type of person and I don’t like other people being mad at me at all. Now what? I really want to explain how much I feel like she’s overreacting, and how much she’s hurt me. And I kinda wanna yell at her.
SABA Shakil says:
Me and my best friend have almost completed an year of friendship nd because of the 3 friend she had i think shes leaving me i tried asking her what did i do she said nothings wrong !
and that 3 person was a really good friend of her in her group of friends .
nd i dont know if she has completly ditched me or no but that 3 person is talking to me totally normal
i need hellp pls !!!
SABA Shakil says:
i would say give her time if it was jus a weeks talk maybe she had problems in her family just saying u knoww !!
SABA Shakil says:
really this is the same story as mine did u try ask her y is she going with the 3 person leaving u like there might me something she likes in her !
and dont get jealous or mad at the 3 person if u dont know her like if they friends before u came then that my be a different issue soo …
thats all the advice i could give
luke says:
I have a similar situation except when I try to talk to my friend he gets super angry I don’t know what to do. If your friend cares about u he or she will forgive u, but give them time and ask what u can do to make it up. Hopefully your friend is easily forgiving, mine is not. I cannot stay mad at anyone, or I get really stressed out
Unknown says:
Same here. I apologized to my friend millions of times and I keep saying sorry and she doesn’t even care. She keeps saying “bye forever” and “i dont care about you”. No matter what I say, nothing changes…. And I didn’t even do anything tbhv
Bryce says:
My friend is dating Piper online, he met her at Instagram, and I said to him, he probably shouldn’t do it cause you are dating her online and don’t know her in real life. He got mad and thought I’m jealous and him and his gf wont talk to me, and ?
Misssobbs says:
Hi my friend just walked in school mad and won’t talk to anyone!! Please help!!
Tiff says:
My bestie and I went out this last weekend and had some drinks and then ended up in this bar and we were gonna leave and I end back in and had some more drinks with her friends instead of leaving and now she is pissed and I really don’t want to loose her as my friend but she won’t talk to me. I’m so sad. Don’t know what to do or say.
Mckenzie Harp says:
my friend got mad at me and when she sad everybody goes to here she took my heart and snapped it like a twig i really don’t know what to do i have tried every thing when i asked can i play with them she says i just want to be by myself but she has everybody over there with are she is laughing sometimes i think we were never meant to be best friends have cried out all my tears
Ella says:
My friend got exited about the guy she likes and shook my hand and my hand was holding my phone and the phone jumped on concrete. It cracked and it was a new phone so I told her she was going to have to pay to fix it. Then she got mad at me for some reason…. So I don’t know what to do now. Also we have been friends for 3-4 years
Meghan says:
My friends are upset with me because I let this girl join a group chat between all of us ( we are all in the same class and know each other well) but one of my friends doesn’t like that friend and a few others want to exclude her too. We’re all Christian, so I tried helping with some bible verses but they still aren’t happy. I don’t want to exclude anyone because the girl I let join the chat doesn’t really have many friends and is a lonely child and I want to be that person who is there for her. But almost none of my friends seem to care. What should I do?
Justice Mapp says:
My best friend and I have been friends for 4 years, we have problems of course but lately it seems like all we ever are is mad at each other, I want to fix this but she never tells me her opinion she says “it doesn’t matter” but the truth is, I don’t think she trust me…we were getting better but then things went downhill when she thought I told her boyfriend that she was mad at him even though I didn’t and I told her so, now things are tense between us, she acts like she doesn’t care about this and maybe she doesn’t, but I haven’t done anything wrong and I really want to fix this, how can I?
Unknown says:
my friend suddenly turned on me and i dont know why but she doesnt talk to me anymore and she treats me like trash
Imelda Carmona says:
Me and my best friend had an argument but we were still talking then the next day she got mad at me and I don’t Necessarily Know why? she also won’t reply to any of my texts ?Help!!! ??
TheHopeLine says:
That’s really hard, especially since she is not responding right now. HopeCoaches are available on chat 24/7 to listen and give advice. We are here for you! 🙂 https://www.thehopeline.com/gethelp/
alexa78 says:
I have a friend that we started to be super close and onces she moved away some people say things that was not true about me and said some things that I don’t even know anything about anyone and now I try to talk to her but she doesn’t talk to me and I really I miss her I just want to talk to her and tell her things like we just to talk about and now she hates me for reasons I don’t know and don’t have anything to do with it anyone help me and I have not talk to 2 years
Grace says:
my friend got mad at me for having to go when we were video chatting and she was having family problems but she is pissed. I NEED HELP!!!! what do i do
kitty says:
My best friend for a while now keeps saying she is mad at me and never doing “it” again but i have no clue what it is that i was doing wrong and i asked her if she would tell me but instead she insisted on being an even bigger bitch snd saying oh theirs noting wrong and i will tell you later what should i do
Carl says:
hey I have a crush on this girl for almost 2 month I asked her out and we have been friends for a while ounce me and my brother and some other friends and her had a nerf war.She got mad at my time for cheating when I didn’t. we haven’t talked in about a while. Then we got over that. Then when me,a friend, and her sat together in class when we were doing our homework from other classes the phone rang and my friend sai “dang that phone sounds like cancer” )not being mean( (and my my friend and the friend (girl) didn’t like each other) then she said “well you need cancer” then I told her don’t talk about it (because my friend’s dog died from cancer like 3 months ago” Then they started fighting.(with words no physical) Then she got mad at me. I looked other places how to solve it then it said I needed to just be patient so yah… now im about to talk to her later but she doesn’t want too. and which one should I pick my best friend (boy) or friend that I have a crush on (we have been having a well complicated friend ship “like we hold hands and stuff” (no kiss yet…) so what should I do!
Anon says:
Someone who I thought was my friend is spreading rumors that I never said and all my best friend and I do is argue, I said let’s not be friends and she said disagreed! I don’t understand why she’d believe a lying, manipulative, and deceiving person! (THE other girl) her mom could get to her, should I Tell her mom?
molly says:
my friend is mad at me cuz i told my other friend that she likes this other guy whih she told me and she says it was a lie but it prob wasnt cuz she told me int eh art room after chourus
molly says:
thx 4 the tips
lulu says:
i have tried everything but nothing works
Cassie says:
My “bestfriend” is being really mean to me, and she is lying to me. She has always talked to me about others and stuff and I heard her talking about me behind my back. I keep confronting her, but she denies.
What should I do?
Cassie says:
My bestfriend has been talking behind my back and I confront her but she denies. I can’t get her to tell the truth.
She’s been spying on me, and she’s still denying.
TheHopeLine says:
This is such a hard struggle. I am sorry your friend is being so secretive and dishonest. HopeCoaches are here to listen and give great insights – 24/7 Here is the link to connect with us… https://www.thehopeline.com/gethelp/
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Peace says:
Friends have their reasons r u sure she’sspying what if she’strying to prove someone who’s spreading rumours wrong
Biranna says:
What I think you should do is tell her to tell the truth but dont forget to add I WON’T GET ANGRY. One of my friends did it to me when they thought I laughed at them which I did (whoops :() and then when she said I wont get angry I told the truth.
Ellen says:
So me and my friend decided to do a group project in school but it didn’t work out because i felt like she didn’t do her share and the project is due in only a 2 weeks. We have had about 1 1/2 months to do this work and she didn’t want to work at it or even get started and I am really stressing out so I told her that I have done the work by myself and that she has to do her own project and she got mad/sad, I don’t know what to do??
Rika says:
My sister almost ruin my friendship with one of my friends. Now my friend can’t seem to trust me and won’t tell me what’s wrong. I text her, but she won’t answer me. I don’t know what to do.
Alicia says:
My friend feels like I don’t care about her but I really do and I tell her ht she doesn’t believe me I really need help cause I love her and don’t wanna loose her !!
melody says:
so me and ONE of my best friends got into a fight about something stupid, it was over text. we stopped talking because i kinda got a little mad. now my other best friend is taking her side. it’s been 2 days since i haven”t talked to them and they’ve been planning out fun stuff, and they’ve been acting like they don’t need me anymore. we were invited to a birthday party but… i don’t know! PLEASE HELP
Bobby says:
To be honest I have no clue what happened. I just texted my friend if she needed help with her essay and she texted me back saying “no thanks, But thanks for the offer. After like approximately 5 days I texted her and said “watch this video its hilarious!” and sent her the link. 2 days later I thought it was a bit too long for her to not text me back since she is always “active” so I went on her account and checked if she had posted anything because she always posts like every 2 seconds. So I went and saw I wasn’t following her and than I pressed “follow” and it didn’t let me follow her! I was so confused! Why would she block me?!? And now I’m searching what to do. March break is almost over its Saturday night after tomorrow is school. I want to ask her but I’m afraid. What if she just yells! And doesn’t want to talk to me at all. My friend is not the type to listen to these tips. So if I tried to go up to her and try all these tips, I would never be able to talk to her. They probably won’t work on her. I’m scared of losing my best friend! I REALLY NEED HELP!
L. says:
Ok, I have an issue. I kind of invaded my friend’s relationship. She and her boyfriend started dating about 2 – 3 days ago. I kept a secret to another friend that I said ” Their relationship is not going to last long “. But after I said that to him. I regretted it, today she found out. Because she forced him to tell her what the secret was, I tried to apologies but, she said ” Sorry isn’t good enough “. Also she said ” She said she had enough of me “. Of course I was hurt, back than I was being too judgemental, I still want to be friends and all. But I don’t think she will become my friend again, I don’t want my whole class to find out because they might hate me, also she and her boyfriend is in the same class as me. Please help me.
salon says:
hii…..me and my best friend have been friends for around a year and we are really close,more like sisters…just because my thinking is different from her as she handles situations more maturely than i do..we argue a lot but we also get back together because i ask for forgiveness and she forgives me saying to me not to repeat it again but i end up doing something new that hurts her…i really don’t mean to hurt her but about 4 months ago we had a fight where she told me that she will leave me but i ask her to be with me for one month and see if i changed or not,she was with me for 1 month and everything was working great but in january starting this year,i was having some family problems due to which i talked to her rudely and sort of accused her of lying but i know that she never lies to me, actually i was just requesting to continue being honest with as we had our differences in past that might have made her hide or not tell me things…..she became so angry on me because i was the one who messed things between us and she told me that she wont talk to me again as i have hurt her a lot but my friend does not know about my family problems and i have not told her yet…i tried talking to her in every way possible but it made things worse between us….i said sorry to her and also said that i am matured enough to be a good little sis, again by texting in the kindest way possible but when i met her in university as we both are students, she told me that i really don’t love her and consider her as my sis and i am saying sorry for the sake of it…we are not talking and she has also blocked me on facebook….sometimes she is hanging out with another girl whom i don’t like much and she knows that….if my best friend wanted she would have taken revenge from me in very hurtful way as she knows me and my sort of my family in and out but she didn’t….i did realize that she is my true friend and i don’t want to lose her….my friend does not believe me that i do regret my doings and i am truly sorry…if i could prove her that than things might get better between us but i don’t know how as nothing is working .i really do love and care for her as my big sister……please help me
Vball916 says:
Me and my friend have been BFFs for 9 years. Now she won’t really talk to me or our other friends and I don’t know what I did wrong. How do I start an apology with her?
sampada says:
Hey i am sam and im 15… I just spilled my bff’s crush’s name to my friend and i did it unintentionally..since my bff has my password she randomly logged in and checked my account.. She is soo mad at me and i tried to explain to her that i didn’t mean to tell it to him and im sorry and i sent her this very long msg trying to explain how it happened and i also called her but when she received the call she was crying and she said don’t talk to me and i mean it…. And that just kinda broke,me… I really don’t want to lose her i know its my fault idk how to go about with this… Ik friendship has to stand the test of time but i don’t want to lose her she is the only person who gets me,so well… Please help me,out
emma says:
HELP ME GUYS PLZ!!!!!! I THINK IM GONNA CRY!
Me and my bff have been planning me getting my ears pierced for almost a year now, but over the weekend she made plans with some other girls and me to play tennis. I agreed, but then later i found out that it was the same day as my ear piercing appointment. She told me that she was going to try to make it work, but it ended up that it didn’t work out, so she was going to play tennis instead. She told me she tried suuuuper hard, and then I told her “uh huh, whatever, have fun” And she got reaaly mad at me. She sent me a text massage that broke my heart, twlling me what a brat and idiot i am, really guilt tripping me. I realised i was a jerk, and tried responding with 5 long, heartfelt apologies, but after almost an hour, she hasn’t responded!!!!!! Please guys help me!!!!!!
Tatem says:
Me and a friend had an argument and I tried telling him I was sorry and I told him how much I still cared for him even though he told me he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and didn’t want me to call or come near him, I tried asking him what I could do to help fix this and he just ignores me call or text, I don’t know what else to do
Anonymous says:
My friend is mad because she says i changed when i got a phone, and anytime i look at it she freaks out, what do i do?
Sadperson says:
My friend thought that I was mad at her because she didn’t choose me to stay inside and study with her when she hurt her foot and I wasn’t sad! And she thinks I am and now I think she’s mad and sad at me, it was a misunderstanding, and I told her that because I was just confused that she chose someone to stay inside with her to study and she called that person a “bad person” I was just confused if she was or was nor friends with them. And so now I think she’s upset with me, what do I do? 😞😞
Daniel says:
My bestfriend crush sent me a nude and he is mad at me. And won’t talk to me. What should I do??????!!!!));
mya04 says:
I told some people stuff that I wasn’t suppose to and now they are really mad and won’t talk to me! What do I do?
Sarah rose says:
The boy that my best friend liked , never paid attention to her , he would always come to me and flirt. & I would always say no . But things started changing she & her family started to act different with me & she wouldn’t talk to me anymore . So I went for it , because I wanted to try it . & now I regret all the bad I put her threw and how fake I did her . I don’t know how to get her back? Need help
Esther Yeo says:
Me n my friend met again after 5 years graduated from high school ~ I realise she was my only comfort friend until I lose her~~ Past 2 years, She alway be there for me anytime when needed ~~
The reason why I lost her as a friend bec I over protected myself I cant fully trust her bec she ever back stab me before during the past ~ we are good friends again past 2 years ..we used to hang around making fun with each others .. I enjoyed and laughed alot.. but when we fight its reminded me what she had did to me in the past.. I just cant trust her 100% bec she dont even know wat she did to me in the past..until one day we fight again bec I accidentally mention somethings that hurts her feelings but i dont really mean it ~ I did apologise to her after incident ~ but no respond after months i guess she still mad and doesnt want to be friend with me anymore ..I know i shall move on but I miss my friend .. I cant find another comfort like her ..
avatar23 says:
me and this girl were best friends, i mean it seemed like we could talk for hours and hours straight and this guy framed me and she does not believe me and every time i try to talk to her she just walks away. She has been mad at me for 1 month and 16 days and the school year is about to be over and i am moving to California and i just don’t know what to do
abigail says:
my BFF thinks im lying every time i speak. she wont believe anything i say. even if she knows for a fact its true. any tips?
Madison Marie says:
so me and my bestfriend Isaiah we were bestfriends but now we are dating and yesterday 5/14/16 I had ran off away from him and he got mad I told him I was sorry and he said its okay it doesn’t matter anymore and now he is mad at me and this girl named destiny why I don’t know why im ganna try to give him time to think about what he said but I don’t wanna lose him and he said I never was this boy is the love of my life and we were getting along yesterday all day and im just so tired of him being mad at me. can somebody please give me some advice and we are only 12 years old and we have 4 more days left of school and I have to get surgrey on june1.
kam says:
my bestfriends third wheel me all the time and whenever i confront it one of them ALWAYS gets mad at me. she even threw my backpack today. this happens alot and she just doesnt understand
Mandy says:
I gossiped over text to one friend about my bff and the one friend told my bff and made up a bunch of stuff and later my bff came up to me and said we should talk face to face but then we did for only about five minutes and I tried to explain and say I’m sorry and I don’t want to fight but she said it’s fine it’s fine and ended the conversation right there and I didn’t ever get to finish explaining but she got to and now she’s trying to give me the cold shoulder but I’m still loving her and want her to forgive me, can anyone help me with suggestions ? Thanks
NotJustKuro says:
my best friend disowned me because i accidentally liked a Kane Larkin status asking for a follow back XD
Peace says:
my bff and had a fight but she was only pretending to be mad at me and i accidently said something rude and she hates me then i tried to fix things by messaging her but she kept on saying i dont care then i said that i told her big sis one of her big secrets so she screenshot it and told her mum so now her mum is planing on telling the princaple but what can the princaple doi mean it wasnt even at school and her mum thinks im spreading rumours but i never actually told her sis anything i only did it to get payback and now she hates me AND i’m introuble and the thing i said was really inapropriate so my mum will hate me but thats not what concerns me i wanna be friends with her again i planned on telling someone one of biggest secrets just for her but i guess she really doesnt care i’ve known her for 3 years and i really messed up i would do anything for her back but whats done is done and now she’ll spread rumours and i willlose lots of friends just for the one that matters most!!!!!!!!11 please tell me what i can do to fix this!!!
Azra says:
So my friend saw a conversation that I was talking about her because she wasn’t talking to me and I might’ve called and now she’s mad at me what do I do?
Jan says:
Hi, I have a friend who I know for 8 years, but we are having difficult times because I love her while she’s somewhere between and I still take her down because of my love expressions and other things. Now I did a thing and she is really angry at me. She wrote me long message with all things I said or did and since then she doesn’t want to see me and barely write me some message. I apologized for what I did and tried to offer her a meeting. It’s only 6 days so it’s still fresh, but she told me that she isn’t in mood to see me at this moment. She has older sister and she’s mad at me too. She told me to give it time. I feel like I am loosing her more and more because our fights are endless. It’s all caused by our different feelings to each other and the longer it last, the more fights it cause and the more we are in distance. I am trying to fight it and don’t express anything as she tells me, but sometimes it just happens. Jealousy included. What should I do?
Juliana says:
Just try getting over her because if she can’t see your sorry then forget it.Me and this girl Jessica in my class got into a fight because she thought I said something about one of her stupid crushes.Then she started crying so all my friends would feel bad for her.I lost a lot of friends because she was mad at me.Then she started throwing all her problems on me by saying I started rumors about her.Even though I didn’t.Yesterday I told her I didn’t say something and then she apparently started fake crying again at home and said she lost friends because of me even though I was losing them not her.All her little friends started jumping on me then even her mom texted me.I never told my mom because she will be mad I never said nothing.Sometimes you just have to move on.
Cass says:
I told her crush/my friend that she likes him. Then, when she found out, I tried to blame my other friend. Now the guy she likes/my friend is mad because I blamed the other friend, the friend is mad I told him, my other two friends are mad, and my half friend is mad because I started all this drama. Now I have to go face the problem at school tmrw. Wish me luck I hope they forgive me for this huge mistake. My boyfriend is gonna be notified of this drama soon (by me) and I hope he doesn’t get mad too. I’ve already apologized to as many of them as I could call from my cell. What can I do?
Rhonda says:
I have a friend that I’ve worked with for 15yrs and known personally as well. She and I eat together fOr our breaks at work. We visit each other only in times of need, I go to her more, but it doesn’t matter. She’s had a couple of family members lost, just recently her son and I can only imagine how difficult that was. I attended the funeral and checked on her often even called. Well, I met a friend at work, man, and we like each other. He comes to talk to me all the time and so does she. Only now, he comes alot. When he does, she gets emotional and walks off. This happens often. She threatened and harassed me at work about it and I cried sadly. I still want to be friends but she pushed me away. What can I do?
Pegasus Girl says:
My friend thinks I’m ignoring her, I’m not but she is. I’ve tried asking her what I’ve done wrong, apologising if I said something that she took the wrong way and asking what I can do to help but she just keeps getting all defensive and having a go at me constantly without a valid reason as to why. What can I do?
Lucy says:
Me and my best friends have been best friends for 11 YEARS but go to different schools. And suddenly I made another friend at school called Lillie. Lillie and me got very close and I love being her friend, we’re basically also best friends. My other friend has always had best friends so I am used to it but I used to be bullied etc and have never really had the chance. To be honest, I was pretty annoyed she said I wasn’t acting like her best friend anymore when we text everyday and everything but she gives me blunt answers. We had a one to one chat but she said just forget it and move on okay? And I said can you forgive me and she changed the subject. I just want advice on how to fix things before Sunday because we are having a sleepover as our mums are unaware of the situation. I can’t sleep knowing she is mad but I get that she feels left out maybe. I apologise everyday but I’m going through a lot being called names etc from another argument going on. What do I do???
Kat says:
I told my friend something who I have nown for 9 yearsI didn’t mean to know he has mean acting so mean then he kept following me and acting me and he found out I was going to tell on him and he got really mad the told my other friend who told me if they are mean or tell on us that they will harm or doing something to my friend what should I do?
spohie eddison says:
Me and my friend had a pointless argument over her status, now she doesn’t want to talk to me, what do I do?
Thomas says:
My best friend was friends with me for 7 years and recently he was invited to go on vacation with me but something came up and he couldn’t go. I got really mad and infact I got too mad and now he’s mad at me because I mean I got really mad!
Anna Dindery says:
I said something and then she got mad at me and I snarled back at her because I’m on my period and I tried to say sorry and now she’s ignoring me
Elle says:
I know how you feel I have a big group of friends and they all hate me because of 2 stupid acts I did with in less than a week and I don’t know what to do anymore aleverything I do lately I just mess up and one of them said to me don’t talk to is again until you have figured yourself out (this was over the phone) I also heard another in the background saying “I’m not talking to her again” “she can go f*** herself” and I just cried from then onwards as I type this I’m still crying I just don’t know what to do anymore I want to move schools and start fresh but I feel like that won’t work either!
Julia says:
My friend and I were hanging out, and then I had to go clean my room, and I said I would call her after, but she didn’t believe me, she thought I would forget. So I went home and was going to prove her wrong but then I had to run errands for a couple of hours, so when I finally called her she got mad at me and I tried to tell her but she didn’t believe me. 🙁
Timelordess says:
I DONT HAVE TIME
Camille says:
I’ve been best friends with this girl since the beginning of secondary school, and she gets really insecure. I try telling her she’s beautiful and wonderful and stuff and we have loads of great memories, but whenever I compliment her she somehow takes it the wrong way and ignores me. I’ll try for like a month to get her to talk to me and eventually she does but she just starts talking like nothing ever happened but it’s getting kind of annoying because I try to make her feel loved and essentially it just doesn’t work!
vegimorph says:
My social life is really bad because the friends i have been able to make always ended up being placed in another class, school, or moving to another city, etc. while the people i’m always placed with over long periods of time are rude, immature, or picked on me. As a (most likely) result, I tend to get anxious about certain situations and either overthink things or don’t think straight.
Long story short, I’m working on a project in graduate school. I met a woman on someone else’s project and we got along really well, hung out several times and I’m really enjoying her company. The producers of my project bring her on to help out and everything’s going great the first few days of shooting. At the end of the third day though, the producers were angry at the friend for some reason and during post production, they either want her name off the promotional material for the project or second billing under the person who replaced her on the last day and I didn’t find out until it was too late.
Like an idiot, I didn’t say anything because I didn’t want to open up a can of worms with everyone getting mad at me and the project going kaput. This friend found out about the credit thing and is really mad and hurt and I’m mad at myself that i wasn’t more assertive. However, I’ve already sent out the project and promotional material to over twenty competitions and I don’t know what to do.
Anyone have any advice on how i can fix this?
kay says:
okay so at the beginning of school my best friend didn’t say anything the whole first week. I texted her that weekend, of course she acted like she didn’t know what i was talking bout. She then finally said she wanted to go a different direction this year. Today, 4 weeks later, She opens the door to the stair well, her face ligths up when she says”you can go” i reply”you go” she says”you go” i reply “i’m not going unless you go first” she says ” we gon be standing here all day ” i say okauy” she says” okay my class right behind you. She finally went and she bumped my arm a little thing we usded to do to eachother to say like i love you i miss you and stuff like that. i don’t know where this is going but hopefully somewhere good
carol says:
my friend thinks I’m a psycho cause I said I would kill her for something she said as a joke..
Josh says:
My friend I always play video games online together and we became such good friends and were talking to each other for 3 years and even met but I did something stupid and he got super mad and won’t talk to me, is there anything else I can do but just give him time??
Natalia and Sara says:
Me and my friend have a best friend that got mad at us and we don’t know why and we have said sorry a billion times but she’s not saying “i forgive you” or anything at all and we don’t know what to do because we have been friends for a really long time, someone please help now
Nicky says:
I need help with a lot of things. My best friend called me fake because I was talking about her and her boyfriend. How can I get me an her close again?
Sierra thoreson says:
Hello everybody, today me and my closet BFF got into a fight. Her dad died almost a year ago, and when we were telling each other our depressions, and such, I said, ” I want you to heal about this, I want you to be able to move on” what she heard was, “You just need to get over it”. When her mom told my mom, then told me, I felt bad about it. And yes, I am sorry I had hurt her the way she took it. The same day, I was upset because my parents are getting divorced, life has not been easy for me lately, a lot of personal stuff, she had called me a, “little B” .Because I was upset, and hurt at the same time, just because I was quiet in the car. I told my mom. Then later today, her mom brought her over, so we could try to work things out. I was going to say: hey, I’m really sorry about what happened the other day, I’m sorry you took it the wrong way, I didn’t mean for you to feel offended, can we start off again? On the right foot? Then her mom said, why don’t you both tell each other how you feel and what’s wrong. I told her, since she’s older, (16) and I’m (13) 1/2 that she bosses me around a lot, and thinks less of me. Then she said: Why did you get our parents involved? If you were upset you could’ve talked to me about it. I’m like: I’m allowed to talk to my mom about things. She told me, that I said to her also that day, I said, why don’t you swear, I do. I NEVER SAID THAT. my life was on my shoulders, I felt sick and nervous, I had a mental breakdown, the last thing i said, I can’t take this. And I ran off to the farthest bathroom and locked the door, and cried. Is that so wrong?!? I couldn’t help it. My mom came in after me and tried comforting me, then she went back and talked to her. I apologized, she did too. But she wouldn’t even look me in the eye when she said it. I was scared. I don’t know what to do. Then she left, she’s coming back tonight, I don’t know what to do. I want to be her BFF, but I’m still upset and really offended. I forgive her, I just need some space for a while. Is that so wrong? Anyways, I hope things between us, get better. And she won’t be upset. I believe her when she apologized, but, she didn’t even offer anything to try to make me feel better. She could obviously see my eyes red from crying, then she left, anyways just pray for me, that things will go well between us, thank you
Amy says:
me and my best friend who i have been friends with for 8 years, have had a fight over a boy that she had a crush on. she asked me to text him for her and i did. but she thought i was flirting with him but i wasnt. she got angry at me and then a few days later, i asked if we could just forget about this but it didnt work and we ended up having another argument. ive scince then tried to apologise and ahe said that was your last chance and i blew it. i really want to be best friends with her again and i dont know how. please can you help?
Eve says:
I had a fight with a friend and she dosen’t talk to me even though I said I was wrong and I am sorry and all and she still dosen’t forgive me what should I do?
Bella says:
One of my best friend is mad at me because she said I said she was stupid but she is smart I believe in her😰😰😰😰😰😥😥😥
M8 squad says:
My friend wont talk it out so that sucks which is stupid cuz I told her plz talk to me Im not mad at u I just want u to forgive me, but shes mad cuz everytime I give my opinion it offends her (not if its about her even she said she says the group is spam so I said I dont really think so but thats just me AND SHE GOT DECENSIVE ABOUT IT) so now what she blocked me and we sit at an assigned table at lunch together so its hard to guve it time without her thinking Im ignoring her. I also apologized like 4 times and ik exactly why I need to and she says she will never forgive me. Help
Amy says:
Me and a group of friends went out and it was fun. but when I got home I saw one of my friends snap chat saying some people are hypocrites and I didn’t know who it was but she kept on opening my message and not replying so then I thought it was me and I also had her Instagram account and she had mine so she was talking to one of her friends and said she couldn’t say the name because that person had her account and would see so then I thought it was me even more and I don’t know what to do because she is a really good friend and I don’t think she will ever forgive me and the reason she might be angry with me is because she needed to be home and she was late but someone kept telling her to hurry up the one time she stopped and in my skl if someone isn’t talking to you the rest don’t and I really want to be friends and stay out of the rest of problems like this
anon cheerleader says:
so my friend wants to join the cheer team with me but cheerleading is my thing and i just want that to be a hobby something i do without her. i feel like we are just drifting apart because she is just not like me anymore we have both changed a lot. but the problem is how do i tell her that i don’t want her to join the cheer team.
Zoltan Varga says:
Me and my best friend know eachother for 11 years and we are best friend for 10 years idk what happened to him :/ he just became mean and gets mad at me for everything i do wrong :/ we are playing a game called league of legends together and if he gets mad he doesnt talk to me for weeks … and finds other friends and it makes me jealous
nihan says:
I had a falling out with a really close guy friend. I felt like there was some awkwardness between us that I wanted to get rid of and he didn’t really want to communicate or listen to me and he hurt me a lot in the process. I gave him one chance but he broke my trust again and I ended up getting so hurt because of his meanness that I told him I don’t want to be his friend anymore. I was really close with another girl who’s a common friend, but she was never really close with the guy and she was my best friend. Suddenly over few months they have become very close and I always feel when we hang out in groups that the guy deliberately gets closer to her to annoy me and I feel very hurt because the girl also knows our history and still gets in the way. I confronted the girl multiple times and tried to tell her the situation and how it makes me uncomfortable, but off late I feel like she has been talking to him behind my back about me and that really made me angry. I told her that this is gone too far and now I don’t talk to her much anymore, but now suddenly the guy wants to talk to me about the relationships. I feel like the girl probably told him about our discussions again and that is the only reason he has stepped up to talk to me out of the blue. It has been a few months and I have kind of moved on from the guy friend, but I am not sure if I want to talk about it all over again.
Huggyface says:
I decided to pull a prank on my bff at school. Nothing big, just dropping paperback books on her head from behind the bookshelf she was sitting against. I could tell she was taking it well, cause I could hear her giggling. Then she yelled out, “I have a new best friend!” And clutched onto this girl who she likes, but I don’t. So I dropped two books, one on my bffs head, and the other on that girls head. The girl u don’t like got up and told the teacher, and the teacher told me to pick up the books. So I put them back, but when I came back round to apologise to my bff, she was gone with the other girl. She refuses to talk to me and is for some reason, really pissed. I want to say sorry but she’s replaced me with that other girl. What can I do??? 🙁
Izzie says:
My friend posted an embarrassing video of me and I asked her to delete it and she won’t, saying that “all of her friends have seen it anyway”. Then she got defensive and blamed me for “barging into her friend groups” way out of the blue, and I have no idea what she’s talking about. I asked her if the reason she posted the video was because she was mad at me, and claimed to be offended. (I can’t know for sure b/c all of this was through text). I told her I didn’t say that to hurt her feelings, I asked a question based off of what she did and what she said to me. She still won’t delete the video, either! I don’t know what to do.
nickcer14 says:
what do i do if i made my friend mad because of something another friend did and she said “Stay out of it now
KT says:
My bff thinks I told her crush that she likes him. I told her that I would never do that, but she doesn’t believe me. She’s stopped talking to me, and when she does speak to me, it’s either a threat that she will tell my crush that I like him, or she says she is done with me. We’ve been best friends since 2nd grade (5 years) She is the one person that I know I can talk to about anything. She was the only person I told when my mom had cancer. I don’t want to lose her, so what should I do?
Anon says:
My best friend kissed my boyfriend while we were still going out. A few days later when she told me, she was in tears and said that she was sorry and that she lovedhim and he loved her . I forgave her, stepped back, and they go out now. But I’m heartbroken. Not over my Ex but over the fact that SHE betrayed me, I trusted her and this happened.
I’ve been told to ditch her and my ex but I can’t do that to her. She’s had so many shifty relationships, which I was there to pick up the pieces, that when my boyfriend gave her positive attention, she fell in love because it was a good feeling.
The other close friends of mine say I’m being a door mat. Maybe they’re right. I’ve ranted at her, cried over her until I was sick and now her and my ex think I need to get over it. But she isn’t here to help ME pick up the pieces like I did for her. I’m still heartbroken, I can’t seem to heal. What do I do? I don’t want to loose her.
Natasha says:
My best friend thinks I talked behind his back because I was with his ex and I was discussing about him to her saying how great of a friend he is and also by mentionining how he calls me often and she wanted to ask him if she actually does as I had a crush on him for a while and she knew it. He isn’t completely over her plus she broke his trust about faith, love etc. I then changed my way of speaking into how I call him frequently. I was worried that if she confronted him about this not only will he feel akward but embarrassed or even be mad at me about discussing us talking to her. She said she is gonna ask him so the next day I asked him if he was okay and did she tell him anything, he didn’t completely know the situation but he assumed I talked behind his back and he now has blocked me on the only common social media app we share. How do I explain him the situation he’ll never believe?
By the way the reason I even started chatting with his ex was cause she was in the group we were put together through our teachers for a project. And we eventually talked and I brought him up.
Jordan P. says:
my best friend from kinder garden(day 1) is leaving me for someone (S) she met last year. they always getting in fight. that girl is ruining our friendship and she doesn’t know it but i do……….. I feel left out all the time because they are ALWAYS laughing and playing together and i be looking all sad and lost. Day 1 is mad at me because S lied on me……… someone help plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz day and S are talking about me behind my back and always making it noticable. I cant deal with it no more
Ali says:
Me and my 2 friends are a trio. Always together. I asked one of my friends who she’s inviting to her birthday party, and she said: Our other friend, and 2 others, and of the the other 2 goes to our school. I am really upset. What do I do?
Canedy says:
I have a friend and she is mad at me
Deanne Jane says:
IT HAS BEEN NEARLY A MONTH THOUGH AND NOW SHE TREATS ME LIKE DIRT
TRIES TO AVOID ME
INSULTS ME
spreads rumors about me
and now
here i am
GloucesterGirl C says:
My best friend is really mad at me, and we have had fights over lots of years. She won’t let me talk to her, and the last time we talked, I was very rude.
indya says:
My best friend hates me, ik i can be very rude because i go through mode swings, she was mad at me cause i was be no rude to her andy i wrote her a whole paragraph on how sorry i am, my and one of my friends had a hug even fight a couple of months ago because she said something to me andy instead of saying sorry i retaliated, i’ve always thought ‘ what if i harv only said sorry’ so when my best friend said that to me all i said was i’m sry, i didn’t relies that apparently sry is like ‘ i can’t be bothered to say the whole word so i’m only gonna say sorry’ so she got mad at me for saying that, i wrote her a whole paragraph on how sorry i am and she’s just ignored it, i blocked her for a second to get rid of our fight but when i went to unblock her she had already blocked me, so i wrote a tricking book on how i’m really sorry and sent it to my friend to said to her (it was rlly funny actually i forgot to say can u plz send it to her and my friend was like oml what it’s ok what lmao) and someone has told one of my friends that i was talking crap about her, i didn’t but my best friend does and i sit there like ummm k. and $20 says that it was my best friend who told her that. i have lost a lot of friends and ppl hate me because at the beginning of the year i bitched about a lot of ppl so my friend believed her and now she is giving me shit. my best friend is being rlly rude about this whole fight and she is turning it around and telling ppl i was being mean at it but i had accepted that i was being rude straight away. just in today i’ve lost two of my best friends. idk want to do but i don’t wanna lose my best friend, what do i do?
Jocelyn Juarez says:
I told one friend what my best friend said about her . In my head there was nothing wrong with it because all my best friend said is that she was surprised my other friend just got a car. And my friend thought it was offensive and decided to confront my best friend through text. Then my best friend got mad at me but I didn’t think my other friend would take it the wrong way. My best friend is now mad at me and truth is I’m always sacares to lose her and I did bad in not replying in our fight. I texted her to have a happy thanksgiving and she just saw it but didn’t reply. The reason I feel like I’m not so badly hurt is maybe the fact that whenever we get into a fight she says i do t have to be friend with attitude tone to it and I think it makes me feel like if she loses me she’s not gonna be hurt and I am and I feel that why should I be hurting which I really am if she just ignored me. I also think it’s messed up that one of her best friends lied to her of many many things and took advantage of her and forgave her in a matter of a week but I did something shes not gonna fight for me like she did with her? I just don’t know if I should cry and let myself really feel my sadness or have hope that things will be okay and try to be happy
haley says:
one of my best friends is very mad at me and i have no idea why. i tried to ask her, but she said nothings wrong. then i saw her letting other kids in our class red her diary. of corse i asked if i could read it to. she said i could but only if i promised not to get mad. so i did. her diary was all about how she hated me and my friend. then when i looked at the back of the diary there was a story about her and her crush. me and my friend ended up being the enemies and tring to kill her. when i asked her about it all she said was there will be a happy ending. what should i do?
zelda gagiano says:
So I had this fight with my best friend that began my sister for me. It always felt that she push me away from her and then I am her every thing.. everyone said to me that she pushing me away just because I just finished school and she still in school… but she become friends with some that always shaped her in her back and just using her for the money and drinks and to get her boyfriend I want to tell her but she don’t listening to me.. one of my friends tried to fix everything but then she thought I was begin that guy so she blocked me on whatsapp so i cant tell her it was not me… I got lose her she my little sister
Michaela says:
Me and my friend were going out but she broke up with me without telling me why. Now I feel like she’s mad at me because before we were going out every time we saw each other we would hug, now we don’t do anything. I’ve tried apologising and I want to call her so we can talk but I’m scared that she’ll say no. We’ve both gone through brake ups before, but it’s almost been a month since we broke up and I still love her. Should I call and ask if we can talk? Last night I went to a dance (people don’t really dance there, it’s just a hang out place) and when I saw her and my friends she didn’t really acknowledge that I was there, she said “hi fwend” but not really anything else. My sister said to try to give her space and let her come and talk to me but I’m scared that she’ll think that I’m mad at her. A few days after we came out to each other she asked (via text) what would happen if two friends dated and then broke up. This was before we started dating. I said they would go back to being friends then I asked why and she asked what I was doing the next day and if she could come over and talk to me. I said sure and the next day she asked me out, I hugged her and then we sat on my front porch and talked for an hour or two. Should I talk to her? What should I do? I miss my best friend.
ksfalod says:
Hy i want to know that how can i understand my best friend then other.
Carrie says:
I dated my friends crush AFTER she told me she didnt like him anymore but then we broke up but I still liked him because I just wanted to be friends because everyone hated us together. But now shes saying that she never stopped liking him. But also I told my other friend I liked her crush and now shes mad, calling me a crush stealer because she knew I knew she liked him. I honestly feel like a terrible friend. Now they’re leaving me out and ignoring me and stuff. One of them even blocked me on hangouts. What do I do? I really don’t want to lose my friends, I tried talking to them and they won’t listen to me and I feel like they really hate me. Please some advice on how to fix this and make them be happy again
Mary Gomez says:
My best friend is mad at me she’s receiving my messages and reading them but she doesn’t reply. I don’t know what to do my heart is literally broken right now.
nya says:
I made a fake snap chat account to see if I was a friend bestfriend or nothing to my bestfriend she figured it out and she’s really mad and won’t talk
What do I do
kelsey says:
hi my friend is really angry at me for something i did which i feel really bad about and now she is completely ignoring me and ive told her im sorry and everything but i dont know what else to do ? please help x
Emme Sullivan says:
Me and my friend (i just met him 2 months ago) we are close and he wanted me to do something but i didnt and know he is mad at me. What should I do? This friendship is important to me. 🙁 </3
Guest says:
None of this will work because when she’s mad at me she won’t talk to me, AT ALL.
dazy says:
I don’t get it! I made a friend at school and became best friends. she had two old friends which I became friends with too. we started hanging out in lunch together having fun. we trusted each other until. one day I was with one of my friends and then my other friend came with us we were looking for my best friend and then we found her and her instead of hugging me or telling me hi she did that to one of our friends and I felt bad. so they said they were going to the restroom so I stayed with our other friend and we went to the library and then there was our other friend. I told them ‘hey lets go with our other two friends that went to the restroom’ one of my friends said ” I think that when marissa is with angie she ignores us, they both ignore us when there together” and I told my other friend to be honest I think that’s true and then she said yes I do too. so then we started walking and I told them can you guys please take me to the girls lockers ima change for p.e. so they took me and I send my friend angie a message saying ” hey I think its true what Marissa said” but I didn’t really mean to say her name I meant to say our other friends name and thas how everything started!! now there all mad me I don’t know what to do. they don’t trust me and they don’t like me no more! wha sould I do?
Joanna West says:
I accidenally said something really messed up when I was mad to one of our friends about her and she is hearbroken and hates me. I did all those steps and she still hates me. Her family doesn’t want her to talk to me. She blocked me on several social media sites. What else can I do? I don’t want to lose her. She’s like my sister.
Lily says:
I like to get my best friend stuff and it makes her really really happy. So I got her something and she wanted to know where I got it. She got mad at me because i told her “I don’t want to tell you because it will give away what it is.” She’s mad at me and I don’t know what to do.
Alicia says:
My friend is blaming me for some small things and saying that I did something when I was just trying to help (I think this was the biggest thing). My friend was being gossiped about and I told my friend and she texted the person who gossiped about her and the person denied it and said she didn’t say anything. Then I got blamed that I made the story up and frames the other girl.
UNKNOWN says:
hey, so I have a guy best friend since 3 years and recently his other best friend started telling him and everyone that I was spreading wrong rumours about him. The rumour was that he had feelings for me while he was in a relationship. He is not talking to me and believing the other guy, what should I do? The other guy won’t admit he is wrong and my best friend is becoming distant now.
Leabeth says:
My friend was dating my no1 bff we have Been f for just over a year and he would do anything for me and I would do anything for him so me and my friend went to the cinima and she meet a guy witch was also a friend she loved my bff aloud but likes this guy more when we went home they started dating and she was gonna break up with my bff in the morning when he came over but he hates me and her now he says it’s my fault for not telling him and saying I was gonna tell him face to face and idk what to do I want him back but u can tell he will be mad forever
Rossella says:
I told our best friend my best friends crush code name but that friend knows Who Is it but didn’t know the code name what can I do:((
dy says:
hi so i really need help because ive done something stupid to my friend for 8 years and she is really disappointed at me because i conducted an trial with my other friends to ignore my friend (for 8 years) for a day but we realized that while planning the trial, we are already starting it because we didnt pay attention(ignored) my friend (for 8 years) for about a week just by just planning. i really need help because we havent talked for half a month(christmas vacation) + 2 days(school) and one of my friends said that our friendship is already damaged. i tried apologizing a lot of times but she ignored me (friend for 8 years). what should i do???
tyler says:
hey. so i have a friend who caught me talking bout her with my other friend and its been months since i talked to her what should i do?
Cassie says:
I yelled at my best friend for telling my sister to run away from me and told her that she needed to stop but it turns out my sister lied. Now my best friend wont talk to me so i cant tell her that i was wrong to do that and that i’m sorry.
Cassie says:
I yelled at my best friend for telling my sister to run away from me because that’s what my sister said had happened. Currently my best friend is ignoring me so i cant say sorry.
Sofia says:
My two best friends (three’s a crowd), had a sleepover, without me. And we still have an awkward relationship… they are prone to ignoring me, for 5-45 minutes. Should I still call them my friend?
Kate says:
Me and my friend haven’t been friends for very long and she is the only one I have so I am clingy and feel left out and hurt when she is with someone else. I tried to talk to her but the words came out wrong and we had a big fight. When I try not to be clingy later in I get more clingy and I feel really bad but she said she’s done. I feel awful. What do I do? I want to give her space but also talk it through as soon as possible
Kate says:
Me and my friend haven’t been friends very long and she is the only friend I have and I am clingy and when she is with other people I feel left out and hurt. I wanted to talk about it but the words came out wrong and we had a huge fight. I apologized like ten times and she won’t talk to me and she said she was done. I really care about her. What do I do?
Mackenzie says:
Hey, I have a best friend and we were friends when we were about 2 years old. Its been a long journey together. But we do get in fights. But this one is bigger… she thinks that I don’t care about her anymore. Instead of coming to me for advice or just someone to talk to.. she goes to someone else. She also sometimes acts like she doesn’t even have a best friend around people. I feel offended and sad at the same time. And idk what to do. I’ve gave it time.. and told her many long apologies
Please help!!
Em says:
I have a friendship group of 3. Me and 1 of my friends play a lot of video games etc, and my other is more like me when it comes to emotional problems, sort etc. But me and my gaming friend have made her feel left out these couple of days. She was really hurt and I knew she was crying when she messaged us on our group chat to tell us. Any advise for when I see her tomorrow? :c
me says:
My friend is mad at me and she is driving everyone away from me, idk how to talk to her bc she is always pissed and i struggle to make her smile
angie says:
and if i wait the things are going to get worse i tell my self that i don’t care but n the inside i actually really care
angie says:
plz help
angie says:
i don’t know what to do
angie says:
hi my friend was really sad because i told her that a true friend would no be so mean to her but she yelled at me and now she is back with my other friends that were mean to her and they always gosip about me
Mya says:
my best friend yelled at one of my friends for eatting nasty food and when everyone yelled at her back she got very upset and thought it was me.childish right and i dont want to choose sides i want them to both be friends.
Jordan Blevins says:
My friend and I had conflict today and I called her a fake friend what should I do
mimi says:
OMG same. My bff told my crush i liked him with my other friend and then they had a HUGE fight about it. I shouldve been mad
Guardian Angel Z says:
-Wow this got long but there is so 💥much to say- please i need advice!💥
Me and my friend was arguing today, what happend was that two weeks ago we figured that we could work together on a project (now you didn’t have to but we decided to do it) but i thought it was supposed to be sent in last week so i got really stressed and it was really late and i really forgot that we were going to work together, cause we didn’t say anything about it, so when i told her she got really mad and said how much of a horrible person i was and then she just cut me out and she tried to make me sad and mad by asking our other friend at lunch but ignore me and i didn’t comment on that or what she asked to the others cause i knew she would get pissed and we didn’t talk more at school
then she called me and i said to her the same thing as i said before that yes it was my fault! I’m so sorry but i don’t know what to do, and i can help if you want. But she said she couldn’t trust me and i told her i have really bad memory and then she said i should go to a psychologist or a doctor so i could figure out why i can’t remember stuff and i was really offended, like so you think somethings wrong in my brain? And then she followed up with “I didn’t mean it as a bad thing, many people go to them to get help” but how many go to a psychologist for memory problems?
Then she said she had no trust in me and then she continued about me forgeting about the project was like me forgeting her or forgeting to go to school, and the whole time i was crying cause i was so hurt cause all i wanted to do was to help and fix this but all she was doing was going of about me and saying that it wasn’t logical and how she thought i was lying and how bad my memory is and and i’m hurt cause it feels like i’ve just destroyed our friendship and the worst thing is that i tried to fix it and i listend the whole time and didn’t say anything mean but she continued to pick on small thing to try and say i was lying. Then after 40 mins of us arguing (mostly her ranting about how horrible i am) she said it was chill and she could do it and then i said goodluck to her and she pauses for a moment and sais “Eh, ok. Goodbye” like i was telling a lie.
Btw i drew that picture that we were going to use and i’ll let you use it and then she came up with reasons that i had lied cause, i didn’t want to work with her, that i didn’t like her idea and things like that and i feel worthless, seriously even if i wanted to say something mean i didn’t, i stayed as calm as i could
I did not interuppt
i did not get defensive or anything why? Cause i didn’t want to make things worse
But she didn’t think like that and she did all of them.
I even offered to help but she dosn’t feel like im trustworthy enough.
She said that everyone will agree that forgeting about that project that wasn’t even a set group project is the same thing as forgeting her, and she kept pointing that out and how bad my memory was.
We are/were a small group of four and if she dosn’t want to be near me i can be with the other two.
i have other friends but i’m never with them like a whole day.
One thing she also said was “MAYBE i’ll can work with you again but that’s after some time”. Should i just wait? I really don’t feel like talking to her but, have i ruined our friendship? Like she was really REALLY pissed at me and she didn’t say one single thing that i could do to make it better she just continued with “well i haven’t done anything wrong” and “well i would say i’m sorry but i don’t have anything to be sorry about” so what can i even do?
Julian Grink says:
My friend is butt hurt because i laughed when someone roasted him
N says:
I came here because
My friend request at video games and gets mad at me a lot
I tried to get him to stop and express myself
He just got even more mad
Sweetie says:
Me and my best friends all together and we are four best friends and one of them just don’t wanted to be the other two friends we have to be there friend and just by that we have had five arguments going on and when ever we have on it is only me who have to apologies for being there friend .
Brinley says:
My bestfriend and I got split apart because I told a few people a secret and the new girl that came in got into my buisness and spreaded rumors, the drama is gone now. They said they will drop it. I lied to my two best friends and I want to make them happy and talk to me again. The people they hang out with don’t like me and I can’t go ear them without getting called names and them saying “WE DON’T WANNA TALK TO YOU”. The girl who says that is e “leader” she controls all of my old friends and i want them to realise that they can break free and I aslo want another chance from them. Someone please help me!!
sunaina says:
my best friend
sunaina says:
i m having an issue with my best friend for some confidential reasons
he gets annoyed by my little little things…
he even doesn’t picks up my phone..
what should i do…..
i seriously need your help
!!!!!!!!
paigeie2 says:
My friend thinks i was spreading rumors about her being in the mental institution and making suicide jokes about her amd i didnt and im not sure what to do.
sammy says:
okay my best friend is mad at me because i had sex with a guy . And when she asked me if i had sex with him i replied no protecting her feelings. side note this was my ex boyfriend no she don’t have feelings for him. she’s really mad because i lied am i wrong after promising her i wouldn’t have sex with him?
Abby says:
ME and my best friend have the greatest and weirdest relationship. We fight for stupid reasons but at the end of the day we’re not holding a grudge and we’re posting stuff about each other on Instagram. I love my Tori, who is my bff
Sharrina Woodson says:
My and friend had been mad at me since Sunday night and told me why. She moved in another state but visited in my stat for her mom. But She texted me and said ‘I’m not gonna speak to you for awhile’ and I said wat did I do? And then she told me that I had not once hit her up asking to hang out but she did. She told me that we could go swimming and that her stepdad could pick me up but that couldnt happen cuz I was busy all that week. So now she is mad at me and doesnt text me like she used to. We have been best friends for almost 4 years andndont want our friendship to end because of this. What can I do?
Gaby Alzate says:
this was amazing
Kiri says:
Hey
So my best friend ( her name is sophia )
told me things out of confindence but then i went and told other people ive said im sorry so many times and she wont forgive me what should i do help me
Kiri says:
Kenzie ,
( Hi My name is Kiri )
I am going through the same thing you were it seems to me like your friend was angry with you about maybe something you did to her or said that led to your fight and led to your downfall and then no longer friends so just let it settle in and take some time to think about what went wrong .
* Can we be friends
American Psycho says:
I rekindled a friendship with a female friend. Things were going fine, I saw her as just a friend and nothing more. Three months ago she was diagnosed with stage 3 to borderline 4 liver disease. It was devastating news for her and heartbreaking news for me as we have become best friends over the past two years and her calling me her rock.
Suddenly my emotions went into overdrive. I really starting caring more about her inside and actually had a bout of jealousy when she went out with another guy. Now I have constant thoughts of her on my mind between losing my dear friend to liver disease or to another guy.
She continues to drink, which even before I felt the pangs of jealousy bothered me but she doesn’t want to seek treatment or feel like she is being judged. I really don’t know what to do. I do care about her, I don’t know where this jealousy is coming from because I truly only see her as a friend but these feelings of jealousy added on to the feelings of her health are just wiping me out.
Should I tell her I need to back off and take some time away from our friendship due to these feelings? Would this be like I was abandoning my friend? I know this will sound selfish but whether I stick around or walk away I will be heartbroken in the end.
Cristina says:
My cousin and I got into a fight. He won’t tell me what I did wrong, but I’ve already apologized to him multiple times. He isn’t accepting my apology. 😭☹️😭
Julia says:
i’m super mad right now.I have this “friend” that is trying to take advantage of the fact that i’m not allowed to see my best friend anymore because her parents think im a “bad influence” long story,Yet i’m not its only because her dad is friends with the person i was “harassing”.Anyway that “friend” of mine is now trying to take advantage as i said by like going out places with her to like trampoline parks,shopping,doing gymnastics since their both really good(i’m good too but like i cant see her anymore and do it with her) anyway as i was saying now she DOESN’T even care about that and wants to be with her like all the time because she’s “always” hanged around with me and not with her which is a lie when she does like all the time,and now since today the first day of break .I mean she might just tell me she hates me to my face because its clear already and there’s nothing worse than wondering if someone hates you or has a problem with you because then all you want to do is just know and if they don’t want to go somewhere with you etc. and they still go you can sometimes tell they have an issue and that’s happened to me before and i can see it on their face and when i ask them they say its fine and then that just feels like you’ve done something wrong,and then you end up feeling insecure,uncomfortable and sometimes like you dont know what to do and do stupid things instead and may embarrass yourself more ;-;
Christine says:
I need help , me and best friend have been together for 1 year and her old friend from middle school that now goes to our school they are very close and a few weeks pass and they grow closer and closer and I got jealous but tried to get over it but I couldn’t then a week later she is with her best friend and I am hang out with them then I make a joke and she gets mad for no reason and then I talk to her again but she gets mad again and I am so confused then she is alway chasing after her friend from middle school and leaves me behind and she ignored me to day when I was trying to give her space but she just got mad I am de baiting if I should still be her friend or give up
eve says:
i been firends with my firend for 5 years and we beem close friends but she only tells me her crush secret that it.now we got to high school she changed but we still talk and stuff its not that she doesnt trust me but she just doesnt tell me her secret . so this gril she just met and tolled her screts but she wont tell me . should i unfriend her?? but i love her tho like a sister, what should i do?
crazycountry says:
when i said i wanted to go first at something she said no i want to go first and we always have to do what she wants and it makes me mad!!!
Gisselle says:
So I think my best friend is mad at me how can I get her to stop being mad at me ?
ZAIYON WILLIE says:
My friend Said im really not his friend and all i do is treat him like garbage
KawaiiPerson says:
My friend has been mad at me for a few days now and will refuse to be around me. She won’t sit with me on the bus, she talks about things behind my back that aren’t true and pretty much excludes me from everthing all because I told her that it isn’t good for her to stay up at 2:00 in the morning before a test. I try to talk to her but she just walks away. Nothing I can do will help. I know her very well, but I feel like I did something wrong. I don’t like to hurt people’s feelings. I have been keeping this to myself and haven’t told anyone about this except my mom. My friend keeps considering me a bully, and not a pleasant person to be around. I keep texting her to say I’m sorry if I did something wrong, but still refuses to pick up her phone and text me back, but texts other people in a group chat. I really want to make up and be friends, but I can’t because she won’t give me the opportunity. I want her to stop being so furious towards me. This is the first time she has been mad at me, and I have known her since the third grade. I don’t want to be a part of this drama, but she does and likes to gossip now, but didn’t before. I really don’t know if she wants to be my friend. I hate it when other people are upset and I want to help them.
Cristina says:
Since i know my cousin shes a good girl and i meet her best friend so we both now are best friends forever and now my cousin got mad at my best friend and she always asks me you still talking her? And i lie i said no i dont talk to her anymore so my cousin say that my best friend have alot of secrets idk and she hates me and i really dont to who believe to my cousin or to my bff 😩 how should i finish this fight between them ??!!😫😖
Anne says:
Hi
lolplolool pons says:
my bff is mad because im friends with a guy who had a crush on her and she kinda did have a crush on him back, but she said he was a jerk and know she wont talk too me and im afraid she will spread rumors
dani says:
My friend says our entire relationship was a mistake. I cried for so long because she has stopped me from killing myself and she says that I shouldn’t have to deal wit her. She ignored me all day, what can I even do? She doesn’t want to talk it out, it without her, I’m practically already dead.
Mia H says:
its okay.
Stella says:
I annoyed my friend and I needed a break since she didnt talk to me for a few weeks I took a break for 2 months and I have a good heart and I forgive we had our ups and downs and she wont even talk what I do?
Ava says:
My friend maria and I have know each other since 6th grade we are now freshman becoming sophomores in a week and we haven’t talked for like 3 months and we have been there for eachother through really bad times, We both Realte on a deep level but I have been annoying cause I have anxiety and depression and add but i have a good heart that forgives even though i may be hard to deal with cause i try to impress people cause I ain’t really a cool kid or popular but I am funny and real and I am not fake but we both have been through some bad things and I annoyed her cause she didn’t come to our band performance that was big and I shouldn’t have overreacted and now she won’t talk I needed a break and now she won’t talk to me all she blocked me and it hurt my feelings since I’m going through other stuff and I don’t have her, there have been rumors about me not from her but other people and it’s hard but I ignore it I tried everything I have a changed over this break, I really have and I want to show her but she won’t talk and we only have a week left what do I do?
valeria says:
will i have this friend and we are in 4 grade and she mad at me for the things she did to me to and we where just playing a game she hit me i hit her back but in playfull way and she got mad and domt talk to me and we where a treeoh and shes gong to tell the other one to ignore me and she was going to tell my x cruch that i like him again}
Ariana says:
My best friend won’t talk to me. She says that she has heard things that I’ve said about her behind her back. All she wants to do now is mess up my life. She has taken most of my friends away and I don’t know what to todo. And to day one of my ex friends came up and scratched me saying that is I ever talk bad about my best friend again there will be heck to pay. So what do I do???
Jennakruckenberg says:
Yesterday, as a small joke, me and my friend were in band class (We had a free day to study) and while she left for the bathroom, My other friend pressured me into a small harmless joke, so I agreed. All I did was lock her phone for 15 minutes, because all she does is use her phone all day. When she came back, she started screaming and swearing at me, even though it only lasted for about 3 more minutes, which I was a bit annoyed about. So a day has passed, and again, she’s on her phone again, perfectly fine, and now she wont even look at me. Iv’e tried talking to her, and asking questions to break the ice, but she ignores me and talk to her other friends.
Amalie Seth says:
At school, I was talking to my best friend about midterms and how i deserved a 70. She got really defensive and told me don’t make fun of me. Anyway, later I see her gossiping to this girl I used to be friends with, but she started ignoring me because of vicious rumors about me spread by other girls. Then, I talk to her and ask her why she is mad at me and spreading rumours. She tells me she is getting bad grades, and thought I knew her grades, which i did not. She apologizes, and says she messed up. At a school fair, I see her talking about me to the girl I used to be friends with. I try to approach her, but she rapidly move away from me. The school gossips approach her and ask her what is going on. She starts talking about me, and now i am sure everybody hates me. Most of all, i lost my best friend. I spend the rest of the fair crying in the bathroom. I still have 2 more years left of middle school. What do I do!!
person with problems says:
Well my guy best friend is really stubborn and is mean at times. I tried to talk to him last night with one of my friends and it accelerated into a fight where we called each other names that we shouldn’t have I don’t know if he’ll respond if I apologize because he isn’t an apologetic person but I want closure that we’re okay. He said some things about my mom and I freaked out I hurt his feelings and I can tell but he doesn’t have to hurt my friends feelings as well. I know he means some of the things he’s said but I did too. I don’t want to loose one of my best friends over this.
savanna parr says:
My best friend is mad at me. Because I’d went dress shopping without her and with another friend instead and she keeps saying she’s not mad but now she doesn’t talk to me like she used to. What do I do?
Lilie says:
My best friend is mad at me because i yelled at her because we like the same guy.i tried to tell het that she could have him but she accused me of dropping boyfriends like flys and i freaked out.
Tiny Asian Sticker says:
i accidentally sent my friend a bad post on instagram when I ment to send something else, my friend is mad, and his mom took a picture of what I accidentally sent, even though it was by mistake, my friends mom is going to show my mom the picture, even though I’ve said over and over again it was by accident, and even though I apologized, my friend and his mom wont believe me, what should I do I’m scared, (keep in mind my mom hasn’t seen the picture yet, and if she see’s the pic she might kill me, since my friend and his mom got a picture of the post with proof that I sent the pic even though it was by accident,how can I make seem as if I didnt send the pic and it wasnt me?)
Ariana says:
Me and my bestie have gotten into fights but made up like 2 days later. But she misunderstood something I posted on ig and now she’s been wanting to only talk to this other girl and telling me how good of friends they are and how they hangout together and leaving me out and avoiding me. Idk what to do I really love he rand want us to be friends but it seems like she hates me now.
zimr says:
my friend is mad at me becuse i text her to many times
zimr says:
please help
zimr says:
hey my friend mad at me
Noah says:
My friend put me in silent treatment and just recently found out she no longer wants to be friends. A little background: she and I are coworkers and have known each other since she began working at our place of employment. We were friends at first and in the past 8 months before this whole mess started we were close, so close that I fell for her but I know it can’t happen bc she has a bf. I knew that I was putting myself in a spot I don’t want to be in which is being friendzoned but when you find someone who truly makes you feel like time stops and everything that doesn’t matter when you’re around them and are truly genuinely happy you found something special. I work full time and go to school so I had really no time to hang out with my close friends bc our schedules were so different and our priorities in life change. She was the only constant around me during that period that help me keep my sanity. I was so focused on my goal with so little time my circle of friends completely shrunk. Naturally I gravitated to her until one day she was complaining about the job I helped her get. She worked hard to get this job and it was a job that anyone would trade with her in a heartbeat. This wasn’t the first time she has done this and she has only been on it for a short period of time. For me I’m too brutally honest so I told her how her comments was making her look and sound which was being ungrateful and started to make her look entitled but in my head my intention was pure as in to let her know from an outside perspective. She didn’t like that since she is very prideful and knows her self worth. Needless to say this was the beginning of the end. I’ve tried to apologize, tried to ask her to talk it out and for 8 weeks she wouldn’t talk/acknowledge me. I didn’t know how to get through to her so I asked for advice from her friends and other coworkers who works close with her in confidence. Fast forward a month later I finally get her to talk to me and find out the root of the issue which was her friends telling her our problem when she doesn’t want anyone to know about it. She finally opened up to me “she said that who was I to talk to her in that way was since I don’t pay her bills or take care of her?” But she was more upset with me for the fact that I let others know about our issue. I tried to apologize for my actions, tried to rationalize with her but her mind was set and she wouldn’t listen. She told me we are no longer friends and that I can’t be trusted. All we are are colleagues. I realize now that there is nothing I can do other than give her her time and space. Even though my intent was pure my mistakes made me selfish by putting my need of finding a solution and not putting her and her feelings into it. I know I should’ve never have asked her friends since girls talk to girls even though I told them that in confidence. Lastly even though my actions that I took in my head were pure I didn’t account the fact that it’s not what I said or how I meant it but it’s how she heard it and seen it which makes me feel selfish. What she said though about me being untrustworthy is making me question my character as a person. I want her back in my life but it can never happen now but any advice on how this can be done in time?
alli says:
i have a thing with my best friends ex boyfriend. she is mad at me for it because i didn’t tell her. i only didn’t tell her because i believe sometimes you have to lie to protect the ones you love and that is what i did. i wish she could be supportive of us and still be my best friend at the same time..
Jo says:
my best friend of 5 years thinks that i have been talking about her behind her back and telling her secrets to my other close friend (which i haven’t) but she doesn’t believe me. I dont know what to do. we’ve been fighting for about 2 weeks now and i’ve felt so lost that i would literall break down 5 time a day thinking about how i miss her. what do I do?
Micheal says:
So one of my friends wanted me to ask another friend if she had a boyfriend and i did so she asked me tonight and i told her i asked for him and she just said good night and hasnt said anything thing since and ive apoligized 3 times whats the best way to deal with this
Maya says:
Maya
My friend and I were texting and she’s moving to a different school. I said some thing and she thought I was trying to make her fell bad. I said ( sarcastically) yes. But she took it personally and even when I tried to apologize she pushed me away, I tried all the steps except give it time. I can’t wait for her, I know I should but I can’t stand the thought of giving her up. I love her too much. What should I do
TheHopeLine® says:
Moving to a new school can be really scary. Plus it is sad to leave the familiar things behind. You can be supportive and encouraging and empathetic about what she is going through. Spend time listening to how she feels and letting her talk about her new experience, her fears, anxieties. This blog has great tips on how to be a really good friend to her right now – https://www.thehopeline.com/63-how-to-be-a-great-friend
jessica says:
Whats annoying is my best friend always says im moody all the time yet i dont notice it or mean it…and the other she was saying how i was speaking about her behind her back which i know i wasnt like i know i can complain to someone like the things she does dont like and sometimes i even tell her myself but now she doesn’t wanna listen to me she told she someone said i did which she wont say who….and im upset cause were so close but i worried we wont be anymore ive try saying sorry and talking to her but she keeps ignoring me…and what makes me upset is shes always trying to make me jealous with other people by posting everything about it. I think shes got bored of me which is fine i guess she can have other friends she no longer needs me. Should i keep trying or give up
Alyson says:
One of my best friends friends sent me something rude so I told her and she suddenly started yelling at me. She said that he did nothing wrong and she’s not in the mood. I asked her what’s wrong but she told me to leave. What do I do. I don’t know why she’s upset. I was texting her boyfriend after that to see if they’re ok and they are but she’s not ok with me. I don’t know why. Please help me
Faith says:
Me and my best friend have been fighting ever since I left her house yeserday and now she won’t talk to me I said sorry and stuff but she makes up exudes and I don’t know what to do can someone help me bc I was up crying all night it broke my heart it like someone just rips half your heart out 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Shanel Lopez says:
Hey, i have this guy bestfriend that happens to also like me and i like him back. We have been friends for 3 years now and we always open up to each other. Just this year, he told me he liked me and we started to become a thing and he was unsure if he wanted to date or not so we were just friends till he figured that out. Then, one day we were texting and we were not really arguing or anything we were actually playing charades. And then he all of a sudden blocked me on snapchat. And he also blocked one of my other friends too. He said that we were apparently annoying and petty for no reason. But i dont know what he means by that. I tried to talk to him about it but he said he doesnt wonna talk about it and i tried asking his bestfriend if he knew why he was mad and he doesnt know. He’s actually trying to help me figure it out but its not working. I dont know what else to do. He blocked my number, snapchat, and my main account on instagram. Yes, he is aware that he still has me on my finsta. which is weird. He also wont talk to me in person. I dont know if i should try talking to him again or if i should leave it alone for a while and then try talking to him in a month or so.
Angie says:
Hello! So my friend and I were walking home with our other friends and so she saw eating icecream. So when we’re were parting ways I smacked her icecream a little bit but it wasn’t like a huge smack and I was playing cause I always play like that anyways when I smacked it a little, some of it got on her hair. Now I’m at home and she won’t answer my messages..what should I do??
Amrie Slate says:
Hi i’m Amrie and my bff Alli told me she wasn’t my friend anymore. I didn’t know what to think. I thought she was joking but, she wasn’t… and last thursday i gave her a note on the bus asking her to forgive me and that I’ve said sorry a thousand times
but before i got off i heard, “NO! GIVE UP I’LL NEVER FORGIVE YOU!”. i’m still heart-broken. can anyone help me please?
Anon says:
I will try this! my friend is mad because i was joking about who he likes, that was 2 days ago so i will let it pass… my other friend is mad because i am dating the boy she likes, he said he loved me in front of her, she got VERY mad about that,not at the boy but at me. i am so sorry,those two people are my main besties! 🙁
Caitlyn says:
My friend said thhings about my other bff and then my bff got mad at me for telling my other bff what she said. When my other bff confronted her she denied it. I sent her an email and got a angrey response back even thtough the email was a sorry email. Now i was sick and not at school yesterday i came back and they had made up but were now accusing me of lying and when i say sorry they do noting because they are stubborn. What do. Do?
Error__ says:
Hello! I know my matter us different, but I need help and I’m clueless 🙁 I was recently left by a guy, who hurt me pretty bad and said his feelings ‘faded away.’ And I’ve gotten over him, ofc but here comes the problem..
I have a close friend, who met her ‘love’ ( let’s call him A) in a similar way I met my (ex) guy. And I was really happy that her relationship continued on even tho mine tore apart.. However, rn, she’s eyeing other guys, and somewhat looks like she’s about to find a lame excuse to leave him (A). The way I see it, she is hurting him just like the guy I used to like hurt me.. 🙁
‘A’ is a really good person, and I don’t know how to save him before he suffers the pain i went through of getting hurt such way. help.. :'(
Nadia says:
Hi! So, about 3 days ago, my bestfriend and i were sitting together at an assembly and i went over to sit with some of my other friends. We had been sitting with some of our friends, so it wasn’t like i abandoned her. She was super mad at me, she wouldn’t even look at me. After the assembly i said i was sorry but she said she never wanted to talk to me again. I said that she was overreacting, but she said she felt betrayed that i left her to sit alone while i was having a great time with my friends. I have texted her at least 5 long messages saying how sorry i was but she left me on read. I have been depressed, it hurts when your bestfriend says she doesn’t want to ever see you again. I asked some friends to text her saying i was sorry, but she didn’t answer them either. the reason why im so scared is because she has gotten in fights with other friends in the past, and they have never been friends again. i love her to death and i cant lose her… anyone, if you have any suggestions, please tell me… it is so deeply appreciated i need her back. thank you
kyra says:
hi my name is kyra and my best friend is mad at me we where on snapchat and i sent her stuff and she got mad i’m going to Disney Land soon and i don’t know how this will work out…….plz help
CaptainQuirkz says:
ok, i really screwed up, i told a secret that i shouldn’t have told and now the person i told is telling other people. i know i should talk to the friend about it but he is really pissed at me and i am too scared and socially awkward and anxious to follow any of the tips here. now the person that i told is wanting to get into a fight with the friend because he thinks he is the victim
Lilly says:
Lastnight was my bestfriends first home game (flag football)and her boy bestfriend likes me and I think he’s cute so we were talking ya her games but it winter and very cold so he was like we can just congratulate her later it’s hella cold wanna go to our mutual friend that was with us house and me and the friend that was with me were like it’s freezing we will just let my bestfriend know when she gets out. We didn’t do anything with them they were just smoking and stuff but she called me talking ab where are u by did u leave u were supposed to support me, etc saying I left her for which I’d never do but anyways she realllllly mad at both of us and I’ve been reaching out to her because I love her so much but I understand why she is mad but her other friend that she is really close went but he went for the varsity game but she didn’t even play in that one she idk why she isn’t mad at him to but I’m her bestfriend so Ik why she is more upset with me.
_sally says:
My best friend is mad at me for not sitting next to her after half an hour of her asking me to move as I was sat next to the person I like but doesn’t like me back she feels as if I ditched her what should I do?
John says:
My friends and I were at a party, we were being immature which I’m willing to admit. The incident didn’t leave anybody harmed, but my friend Jeremy got really mad. He got quite violent and started kicking us. The Adults already know about this, but I’m worried about my friends. I have a bit of training in self-defense, and I can take a couple punches, but this area is usually pretty nice, and my friends aren’t accustomed to violence like me. I don’t think we will ever be friends (although I hope for it), that might be hoping for too much, but I want to at least make sure he won’t hurt anyone else. I’ve never seen him this angry, but then again, we’ve never messed up with him so badly. I don’t want anyone to leave this situation hurt.
Jasmine Cook says:
my best friend Nathan Carver isn’t talking to me and I don’t know why and I started crying because he wont talk to me and he has been my best friend since 4th grade and we are in 8th grade right now and everyone is mad at him and I don’t know what to do because I told him sorry about what I did and I don’t even know what I did
BERNIYAH says:
I was in a group there were four of us we have been together since kindergarten like we slept at each others housees all the time and every summer the come over to my house to spend the summer we know each others parents and i have bad days and i tell them we always, agreed that there would be four peoplr in the group and their always has been we always talk every thing out cause we argued like all frenid but this year we are in sixth grade and these grils alwys want ed to be in are group and we said no beacause, there were four but we all were cool after that so recently i had a bad day and forgot to tell my friends so they assumed i was mad at them and i wasn’t so they kicked me out because a rule we made you got to tell the group when your mad or at least show them your mad so they added the other two girls in im not sad they kicked me out im sad they broke a promise we had since we were five and know the two girls that got added are talking about me and i just want to know what should i do?
BERNIYAH says:
I have been i a group since i was twith my best frenid we always have sleep over and we all know each others parents and we made a rule when we were five it would always be us and we would always tell each other when we have bad days and these two girls always wanted to be in are group but we said no because it was only four people so recntly i had a very bad day and all week i hadn’t talk to any one so they thought i wanted to be out of the group so they put me out and added the other two girls in and now the other two girls talk about me all the time but we are in sixth grade so it a lot of drama going on so i really dont know what do but i love my frenids so much and i just want every thing to go back how it used to be
Me Goofy says:
I am SO glad I came across this article! I have recently had a fallout with someone I love. And when I say love, I mean a I truly LOVE this person. The thing is, I don’t really understand why she is SO mad at me. Its over something that I said about myself that made her upset. I don’t see what the big deal is. Honestly, she is being childish. But, I learned a long time ago that life is WAY too short to lose someone who is close to you forever over one stupid argument. So, even though I still don’t understand why she is so mad, I am just gong to fall on my sword and apologize for saying the minor thing about myself that has caused her to stop speaking to me.Of course, when I am wrong, I apologize and I certainly do mean it. But, I am also going to start apologizing, even when I am not the one who was wrong. It is completely and totally worth it if it saves a close friendship.
KAYLEE FLETT says:
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Kyle Vignali says:
I’ve been friends with her for about 5 years. She never got mad at me, she was the best friend I could of ever had. Since May of 2017 she’s been mad at me. I was first scared and never said anything due to me being afraid of what she’d say. And I believe that hurt me and her more than when we were separated by a stolen object in which I never stole. I texted her in October of 2017 but she never answered what do I do? What can I do?
Imma Guinea pig says:
My friends mad at me because she said I said an insult about her at P.E., and I didn’t even say anything about her at P.E. So i’m asking what did i say and she says I’m a fake and that I think I’m a little miss perfect, I don’t get it.
Umaymah says:
Hi my best friend is mad at me it’s been over a month her friend was mad at e before and she thought I was saying bad stuff about her when I wasn’t.Everytime I text her she doesn’t read it text back today I wrote we a page long apology letter to her and her text response was we need time the friend that was mad at me before is friends with me know and my bff says that she is done with middle school drama does that mean that she is done with me I know this very confusing but that is my problem I need help to get her back before it’s too late!
Jade says:
It was a normal day but my friend just stopped talking to me and when ever I try and ask if there is anything I can do to cheer her up. All she does is shrug and turn away. I have given her time like it said but I feel like it’s worse.
What do I do I tried everything.
Lilla says:
Hello! Yesterday i screwed up my friendship and now i feel like dying. I know that i am responsible for it but i have no idea how to fix it. I basically forgot about her on a party where i invited her. There were many old friends of mine and i was catching up with them and i left her alone. I feel so guilty now and i know that she is mad at me. Should i just go and talk to her? I dont want to do this on the phone but she doesnt let me in last time i tried. I dont want to lose her so please help me!
kelly says:
My friend is mad at me because i told my other friend who she liked and my other friend liked the same person which i did not know and then they all; got mad i said sorry one of them forgave me but the other one did not and she called me fake and now she wants fight me and my other friend forget her annoying a** and i was like ok and i do not know what to do but i will forget her fake a** self
Nature Kit says:
Last year there was a guy who sat next to me, he always enjoyed watching as I doodled because he liked watching pictures form and said they where really amazing (of course I was really flattered by all)
I have social anxiety (like a lot)(like I’m not able to talk at all without fear of being judged)
So one day I was drawing a detailed dog and once I finished the back of the neck he was all genuine and asked all excited “is that going to be a dog??”
And then my social anxiety crept up and I trjed to say something for a moment but I was just stuck until I got through all the awkward thoughts like “thank you for even talking to me, it really means a lot” (he’d probably I was some weirdo) and I ended up blurring out “No it’s a cow, Sherlock”
Now I feel like a total jerk and I’ve been trying to apologize to him for a year now but he’s a huge extrovert and is always surrounded by huge groups of people (I’m really shy and awkward)
And I kinda hate myself for this and I don’t know how to forgive myself
Heh help?
Also I’ve already tried a note and I might try to give it to him again but I don’t know how (his friends might read it and then a rumor would probably spread about things that are actually true)
Also in the note I always asked if he wanted, I could teach him one of his favorite things that I drew
Do you think that’s weird??
franny says:
i have a best friend we both were very close with each other but once i cut my hand in her name letter and wen my other friends got to know they started to blame her and that made her angry shes not talking to me since one year and trying to conveince her but she does not want to talk nor see me how can i suggest her ?
Daphne says:
My friend was mad at this guy because he didn’t clean up after himself so this other girl did it instead. She was being rude to me after it happened and I told her calmly that try to calm down and she was being a little bit rude to me. She went to the bathroom and when she came back she looked like she was crying (she said she was “fine”) I told her I was really sorry (even in my opinion I didn’t do anything wrong) and she just rolled her eyes at me. Maybe she thought I wasn’t sorry at all and I was just saying that? I have no idea what to do and tomorrow I see her again and i don’t want to start bawling
kels says:
hey, i just got in a fight with my friend. i didnt realize what i said hurted him. he stopped talking to me, and ignored my texts. i wanted to say something else but then i feel like i was gonna make it worse. hes been my best friend since we were kids. and i feel like talking to him will make him mad, but not talking will make him angry. i dont know what i should do. i feel scared. help me please.
PandaLover says:
So hey. I think my bestfriend is mad at me. I don’t really know if she’s really busy or just ignoring me. She thinks I got back with my ex (Her ex too, We were not friends yet when I got in a relationship with him). It’s because of this post in twitter, our common friends uploaded.
She said that I’m lucky that I have him back, but it’s not true. I don’t even talk to that guy anymore. I know she likes him again. We already broke up a year ago. I would never hurt my bestie. I treat her like my little sister. I love her so much. She’s the only one that understands me. I keep saying sorry but I don’t get any replies. I’m in a different country now, so I can’t talk to her in person. I think I’m being immature about it. I just need your help. Can anyone give me advice? I would be glad to read your comments. And thanks for reading this drama. 😊
}•Tae._.Tae•{ says:
So my best friend is very mad at me and I just don’t know what to do every time I try To talk to her she just looks away or yells at me. I just can’t loose her and I want to go up and talk to her and another friend of our she is mad at and she did even a worse thing then I did but I understand why she would be mad at me and her but idk if she bows that it was a mistake that’s all I want to tell her it’s sooooo hard not talking to her. What should I do?
Gloria Neva says:
Hi. So i have this problem with my friend. She got angry and dissapointed and digusted by me because i didn’t hang out with her. The reason i didn’t hang out with her anymore is because i recently got a boyfriend and i tend to spend more time with him. But i would always told her what’s going on between me and my guy and she would get disgusted. And one day she didn’t even want to look at me and i asked her why she said she couldnt stand looking at me because she felt disgusted. I know she is dissapointed but i got really hurt after she said that. I really loved her. What can i do?
Nirmal Kumar says:
I will try as per your guidance. Things should resolve soon!
Friend crisis says:
My friend hits me. Ive asked her nicely to stop. Ive asked her in a more serious way. She wont stop. My parents have noticed im being more quite lately and its because my friend wont stop hurting me. I could tell them but its nit going to make a difference. My friend just laughs when i say stop and carries on she never used to hit me but now she does. We recently had a sleep over and i had an allergic reaction to some makeup she new this but then thought it okay to slap me across the face 3 times then chuck things across my room and almost break my favourite photo frame. I ran into my bathroom and cried whilst she thought it was hilarious. I would cut her off but other than this shed my best friend. However recently she has started to start saying my secrets (eg crushes name) out loud and telling people his name. I need help- friend crisis
TheHopeLine® says:
Please check your email. We sent you one with some resources to help you with what is going on with your friend. Please tell someone what is going on.
qwerty says:
Hi, this year I made two new best friends. Jane (not her real name) started saying I was stupid, mean, and ugly, and that she hated me and was mad. I did not know what I did that was wrong. I kept asking her what was wrong but she wouldn’t tell me. What should I do?
Y0uNG 🅱️ l00d says:
Hi, my friend was mad at me during 6th period today:/ I asked what was wrong, but she just kept saying, “LeaVE Me AL0n3!” 🙁 then she hit my arm… It saddens me tremendously. We talked it out a few minutes after and the reason she was mad at me was because I, her BFF<3, was "making fun of" her for "all of a sudden" interest in doing her work. I mean, the ditched class and missed another day due to a dentist appointment, so how is she MAD at ME?? Anyways, we g00d now 😀
Ariana Almaraz says:
My best friend is angry at me because I was ignoring her during class now she’s saying she doesn’t need me and I’m the worse friend and is constantly making fun of me behind my back HELP
(I shall never put my name) says:
I need help, i HAD a friend, but now that someone else had joined our group, they have been bullying me… the girl says stuff like,”Oh, ITS back..” and “Ugh! Stop texting (friend) or i WILL Block you!” And lastly, “Ugh, go away, WE dont LIKE you!” And now IM The one being cast out…
anonymous says:
I need help- my friend trusted me with who she liked and I ended up liking the same guy- after a few weeks I rambled to my ex who I thought I could trust. He told the guy we both like and that guy told my friend. My friend wont even talk to me and isn’t listening to me when I say that I would do anything- please help me.
Jairna Harria says:
thanks heaps 😀 😀 😀
Sarah says:
My best friend is being mean to me and my other friends. The problem is, she doesn’t know she is mean. She thinks she is the nicest person ever. She confonted me and my friends and got really mad. My friends don’t like her and they often try to convince me to leave her. They broke into tears yesterday! What should I do?
Ariana Almaraz says:
My best friend is mad at me for the stupidest reason she says I brag and I don’t give her space and I’m too nosy I asked to talk it out but she doesn’t want to she rips my notes and ignores what i have to say help
Benjamin says:
My friend and I play splatoon alot and I always get mad whenever he rubs it in my face that he’s better at me it ( because he’s level 37). So now we’re kinda drifting apart and he won’t let me talk to him. Can anybody help? He’s my best friend and I don’t want to lose him. ;-;
Cameron says:
Hey i’m Cameron! I’m currently in a fight with my best friend Kylee But here’s the story. It all started when I was coming out of first period and we usually meet in the hallway were we both come out of to go to our next class. So we meet there, and she looks completely different, she was wearing clothes that my other best friend Ireland wears. So i come up to her a say… “Wow! you look like Ireland”, and keep this in mind i didn’t mean it in a mean way. But little did I expect she come around and goes” its ok you can judge me all you want”. So i just assumed that she was mad at me and just walked to my second period. We have the same p.e class so we get dressed in the locker room, and I come up to her and say Kylee i’m sorry, and she goes “no im good”. So i was like what do i do now? So I come up to her and I say i’m sorry again, and she goes “Mia told me everything, about how you and Ireland are best friends” and I go ” Even if we are, do you have a problem with it” and she goes “no you can have her”. And I was so blown away, I didn’t know what to do . This is where I messed up because I had said ” Its not my fault that i’m sealing your best friend” After that i was like wow Cameron nice move. But I didn’t mean it that way, and I know it didn’t seem like that but the way I meant it was that it wasn’t my fault me and Ireland are best friends. So now I’m upset and she won’t let me talk to her and this is our first fight so i don’t know whats going to come next.
Astrid Allen says:
i have a friend in mid. school. She keeps rolling her eyes at me. Whenever someone asks her why she doesn’t like me, she says,”for no good reason.” Please help! what do i do to get her to like me again? Thank you sooo much!
Eliza says:
I know how that feels because my best friend’s friends always bully him just because he’s best friends with me.
Deanna says:
So, one night about 6 months ago, I became really mad about some stuff. My family was going through a tough time after losing one of their really close friends. I had also just started high school. I had this one friend Her and I were SUPER close. Then my friend made this group with her friends that were also my friends and she left me out. I felt upset. With all of the tension building inside of me, I got so mad that one night I just typed out all of these things about my friend how I didn’t like that I was left out and how I always felt left out. Without even thinking, I sent it to her. Looking back it was the stupidest thing I’ve ever done. She became so mad at me. We haven’t spoken since. Because of this I also drive my other friends away too. It’s been six months and I don’t know what I should do. -Deanna
Emma says:
My ‘Bff’ is always getting mad at me, and I just don’t know what to do.. Example: We will just be joking around at lunch then she is “Roasting” people then someone says something to her, and even tho its just a joke, she just starts crying. Then, later she blames it on me for not “Having her back”. Example 2: We were playing a game and it was my turn and we both called dibs on the same thing, then, as I’m going She says ‘DON’T VOTE FOR HER VOTE FOR ME’ and when my turn was up, I finally saw the thing she said then was mad at ME because I called that Low. then, next day she is my ‘
Bff’ again
Luna says:
Hello!
I’m Luna.
About a year ago I lost my best friend at my 10th birthday party. She had been rude to my friend and I didn’t want to end me and her friendship or anything, I wasn’t going to choose sides. My best friend screamed at her “go die” and that’s when I had enough of her being rude to my friend, I screamed “STOP BEING RUDE, OKAY?” which made her really mad and she started crying, I asked her if she wants to call her mom to pick her up trying to be polite and she screamed in my face yes. I didn’t know she was going to get that mad. I got scared and got her phone for her because I wanted to still be friends. When her mom came in my friend Bella told her I did nothing and her child has anger issues. I thought about how nice Bella was and thought if my best friend hated me that we could be best friends, nope.. I realized nobody wanted to be my friend but a girl named Sara which, she plays with somebody else that I hate and my teacher doesn’t even allow me to talk to her. My ex best friend thought she ruled me, she would role her eyes at me and say don’t do that, ect. She told everybody that I was the problem, but everybody who witnessed it besides her said i was the bigger person and I did nothing wrong. When I make other people sad or mad it makes me feel like I did something wrong and I just want to be a kind person. She tells the whole class about me, I think. I don’t understand her. I just wish everybody could get over it, take some time apart and be friends again but nobody thinks we will ever be friends again. I don’t want my friends to choose sides or anything but I don’t really want to be friends with them if they have her attitude. I don’t know what to do.
Elizabeth says:
my friend is mad at me because I said something about her nails. I only said that they I thought they were going to be super pretty, and then she started ignorring me . I asked her about it and she asked me if i was serious and I really didn’t know. Now all she does is start rumors about me, calls me out, and tell on everything I do. Who new being a teenager was so hard.
Nofriends says:
Hello. So long story short I bring a puppet to school everyday. I wen’t to school one day with a smile on my face, My friend was happy and liked to play with the puppet with me during any free time we have. We wen’t to this teachers room for science, and we we’re playing with the puppet. When my friend was joking about killing the puppet I first said in a serious but not angry voice, That isn’t funny. He got angry at me and said “I was just kidding you don’t have to get angry” then the situation elevated. The teacher stopped us from arguing more. But from then on He is quiet and won’t talk around me. I came in the next day (Today) and same story won’t talk around me. We go to science again and he draws a picture of the puppet with blood. This is very alarming and I think the teachers are dealing with it but… He unfriended me online today and. I just don’t know what to do now. I really have no one to talk to, now that he stopped contact with me.
Hrhehe says:
What if she keeps ignoring what sou say.I keep saying “why are you mad at me” but she keeps going away from me.
Amber says:
My besy friend just stopped hanging out with me now for 3 weeks. So i went over to her and she called me a self-centered f*cking a**whole so it got me upset. Now everytime she sits by me in class she laughs at me or ignores me. We both are currently hanging with our other friends but she seem happy and Im just sad
Unknown says:
A girl asked me what background my bff was from. My bff didn’t tell her so I supposed that she didn’t want the girl to know. So I didn’t tell her either. When my bff was with me , the girl asked and SARCASTICALLY I said she’s from China. It was meant for a joke and they all knew bcoz then the girl said…”seriously , tell me” my bff first laughed but then she left, when I talked to her later.. she ignored me. Plz tell me what to do bcoz our friendship is really important to me and everytime I talk to her she ignores me.
Unknown says:
Hello! Ok so my bff is really mad at me. Th other day , a girl asked her hat background she as from, my bff didn’t tell her so I supposed that she didn’t want her to know. Th girl then asked me. SARCASTICALLY I said that she was from China, they both knew it as a joke bcoz the girl said “seriously just tell me plz” and my bff laughed. But then she left, when I talked to her she’s ignored me. Plz tell me what to do bcoz our friendship is really important to me and everytime I talk to her she ignores me. What do I do?.
georgia and cammie says:
so our best friend is mad at us because we were walking around town and she wanted to go home but me and my other friend wanted to go to target. so we started walking towards target and she started walking the other way. we kept walking to target because two out of the three of us wanted to go. once we got to target she got there like 5 mins later and yelled at us bc she wanted to go home. we walked home and she didn’t talk to us the entire way home and once we got home she stompted upstairs and ran until the bathroom and took a shower and listened to depressing songs about not having friends. she’s been in the bathroom for a good 40 mins crying and she won’t talk to us even when she came out she was silent. what are we showed to do
Jaebird:( says:
My friends Xavier and Sydney hate me. And i recently had the EOG’s so im really stressed out. I tried apologizing to Sydney but she is so mad she wont even look at me. And Xavier isn’t even talking to me on the bus. I am so sad right now. I need advice and comforting! Send help!
Emerald says:
My best friend was in a group with me for a trip to knoebles, but she ditched me and her two other friends took my phone and my money and ran off. When I told my mom what happened, my mom told her mom. Then my best friend went and told her mom a story that wasn’t true, and our parents kinda argued. Then her mom said we couldn’t be friends anymore. I loved my bestie so much and I need to know how to fix this. Please help me?
Ella O'Leary says:
Recently my best friend and I are not talking because I heard her talking about me so with my friends we were talking about how she was talking about me really loud and gave her dirty looks so she could hear and feel bad but in the end she said I was talking about her and when I asked her if she will hate me forever she said “dno” I don’t know what to do I would appreciate someone’s advice thank you xxoxo
NEHA DIYA says:
BESTFRIEND’S DOES’NT MEAN THAT SHE MUST KEEP PRAISIN U ALL THE TIME. AND THAT’S WHAT MOST PEOPLE EXPECT.THEY R ACTUALLY FAKE FRIENDS AND THEY’RE ALSO EXPECTING SOMETHING BIG FRM U.TRUE BF’S R THE ONE’S WHO TELLS U’R QUALITIES AND DISQUALITIES.AND BESTFRIEND CAN’T ALWAYS BE NORMAL TO ONE ANOTHER . WE MUST HAVE SMALL FIGHTS WITHOUT IT THERE IS NO POINT BEING BF’S.MY BF’S SAYS MY GOOD QUALITIES AND BAD QUALITIES AND EVEN I SAY THIERS. WE HAVE SILLY FIGHTS AND AFTER SOMETIME BECOME NORMAL.SO THE ADVICE I WUD LIKE TO GIVE U GUYS R “IF U BF’S R NOT TRUE JUST TELL THEM TO GET OUT FROM U’R LIFE. AND FINS NEW TRUE FRIEND’S. BEING THANKFUL TO GOD FOR GETTING BEST BF’S
Cat says:
So my friend is really funny and kind but sometimes when she gets mad or she’s in a fight she makes a big fuss over it and says that she’s always right. I tried talking to her about her anger issues because it kinda hurt my feelings once but I was too scared because she might of gotten mad at me and might not be my friend anymore. I don’t know what I should do to calm her down.
hanks for the Support 🙂
ana roberts says:
(IF YOU SEE THIS PLEASEEEEE REPLY I NEED HELP) i was just at a concert where two people I knew showed up. we talked for two minutes after the concert and then I left. I then posted a pic on instagram of me at the concert (they werent in the pic) but I tagged them coz i saw them. two minutes after i posted it, my best friend sent me a screenshot of my post coming all down on me for hanging out with them telling me how much this hurt her (bc they had hurt her in the past and she couldnt believe i was hanging out with them) i tried to explain to her that it was all a misunderstanding but she didnt trust me and was saying stuff like “how do i know thats true?’ or “are you lying to me?” and i tried explaining to her but ive sent about 5 thousand texts a hundred voicemails and no response. i even called her mother. i dont know what to. shes my best friend i cant lose her. and my bday is in two days and we have this whole day planned out but now that shes mad at me i doubt she will want to be w me on my bday. what do you i do??? and also my motives arent selfish its not my bday being ruined that im worrying about its the fact that my best friend will not talk to me
Terah says:
Same here. I have a friend that has been the closest friend Iv ever had. And I dont want it to end. Shes really sensitive and defensive, so I am scared to talk to her in person.
Alexa Blankenship says:
my best friend is mad at me because im dating this guy she doesnt like… 3 moths into him and my relationship she started telling me all these things he’s done to her and our other friend. i dont know if i believe her because why would she wait so long to tell me? anyway, i asked him if what she said was true and he denied it. but she says he’s lying. i dont really know what to say to that. i tried talking it out with her and then she ended the call and i tried texting her and she just keep talking crap about him. she says she “doesnt want to make me choose” between him and her but i feel like if i stay with him, she wont be my friend anymore. i’ve known this guy for years now and we’ve been really good friends for a really long time, and the guy i know wouldn’t do anything like what she’s saying he’s doing… any suggestions?
Me again. says:
Here I am today writing on this website yet again ABOUT THE SAME PERSON!… Well i’m going to sum up what happened last time. So that friend was angry because I got angry at him because he said something mean (Not on purpose) about my puppet that we would play with. He stopped talking to me for a few days then he apologized :D. I was so happy! Summer came along and school ended. me and him played roblox together sometimes. During the summer that would be the only way to contact him. A day after school ended I wen’t on a vacation with my family on a cruise. without access to internet. Then came back he wasn’t online for a while which is fine by me if he is offline… He came online and I kept messaging him via private messaging on the website (Not in-game) no answer… I tried day after day… he finally answered me for like a minute then stopped again. So today I decided to finally pull the trigger. I wen’t into his game and walked up to him and tried to talk to him but after a few tries, I realized he was not online, just in game. So a little later this person who I saw in the chat history talking to him said “Jeez give her a minute to answer she’s not online” I said “I realized and by the way he’s a boy” because his account was a girl but he made it a girl as a joke. He got back online and said “Who are you?..” I was like “Very funny” he said again “Who are you!?!?” In a cycle.. So I finally said “I’m going to message you in private chat!” Because you can only private chat with your friend. I did it only to get the response in private chat “Don’t you dare blow my cover!”… This really confused me and at first I wasn’t sad. I wen’t back onto the game and said in normal chat “JUST KIDDING! YOU JUST GOT PRANKED”… and left the game. I don’t know what’s going on my friend doesn’t respond to me for weeks and when I finally confront him he doesn’t want his new friend to know that I know him in real life.. So to sum up what happened MY FRIEND DOESN’T RESPOND TO ME DOESN’T WANT HIS FRIEND TO KNOW ME AND ISN’T PLAYING WITH ME BECAUSE HE PLAYS WITH HIS NEW FRIEND WAY MORE. I need help…
Eshee says:
we are a group of three. About three months ago, One of the students from our class liked one of us. i told Samantha that Derek likes you cause they kept chatting on snapchat and he kept flirting with her (in a good way) and we wanted to tell her that it will work and that she has feelings for Derek but she just didnt want to admit it. so me and my friend kinda made stuff up like Derek’s friends keep teasing him with Samantha’s name and that everyone in our class knows that Derek likes Samantha. and now they are dating!!!!!! and i told her the truth that we made a few things up about you and Derek but it was for her benefit! and now she is very mad at me and she wont talk to me even though i have told her our reasons and that it turned to be a very good thing and look where she is now and that she is dating that guy just cause we told a few lies. i dont know how to tell her that im sorry
Nina says:
I did something so stupid- my friend was camping in Scotland and our snapchat streak had a timer so I stupidly (I regret it so so so much) tried to log in to her snapchat by guessing her password. it did not work but the way she found out was that it sent her an email saying someone had logged in even though it hadn’t worked. it even said on the email my location, time and the model of my phone! I have talked to her and she is understandably very pissed off but said that it won’t ruin our friendship. she is not talking to me properly though so I still feel stuck. the problem is that we are on our school holidays right now and I want to meet up with her but I am worried she won’t but I want to see her. I have said im sorry loads of times and I just want it to go back to normal because she has not spoken to me like normal for 3 days. I just feel so sad.
Gracie says:
So my best online friend told me to kms for my sister as a “joke” and i took it seriously bc he would never say that, ever. And he got mad that I got upset and he said I couldnt take a joke and allat but now he wont respond to my messages. Im over the kys situation but I just want my friend back. Hes the best friend Ive ever had and I dont want it to go to waste. Its been three days and he hasnt even read my texts.
Sophoe says:
I missread a situation with my best guy friend and told him that i thought he was trying to make a move on my when he has a girlfriend. He texted me after saying that I hurt him and I tried to apologize a bunch of times but now he isn’t responding to my texts. I don’t want to have ruined our friendship.
Melanie Harner says:
One of my best friends was mad at me, and I had know idea why but once I learned I was so sorry for offending her the way I did. Sometimes friends are complicated, but I know that if they are my true friend we will get through it together. This article helped, for it was informational on helping friends and communicating in a way to help them understand our reasoning.
YJC says:
I just made a big mistake.. I told a secret my friend said not to tell to a person. That person told my friend and because the secret was about that person both were mad. My friend came to me and ask in a very mad voice why did I tell that person… I was too mad about myself. My friend is telling everyone now…. even my best friends… What should I do? I don’t want to make enemies….. Please help me.. I do regret this all
B says:
punch them in the face walk away get new friends that actually care for you and love you not get mad and u and leave after one little mistake
Isaac Rubalcado says:
Tell her you felt like you could trust that person and that your sorry tell her it was a mistake and everyone makes mistakes
The_Bird_Whisperer says:
My close friend told my table my crush, because someone at our table was gonna say her’s because he knew. Her crush sat at that table and offered 20 dollars to the person who knew her crush, (which was the boy we told.) She freaked out and said my crush’s name to her own crush. I got really upset because her crush likes me, and I threatened to tell him she liked him. I kept dropping little hints about her crush. It was her birthday and I wasn’t going to do it. I hid under the table to give a hint to the people at my table that I was mad. I told her that what she did was wrong and that I was very mad at her. She then responded with “My situation is worst than yours, you almost told him! That’s a great birthday wish, I sure am happy. Thanks.” I was extremely confused because she LITERALLY TOLD HER CRUSH WHO LIKES ME, MY CRUSH! Now she is mad at me, I really don’t get it.
Amelia says:
It’s ok guys… give it time because all the friends you make in grade school don’t matter in high school. You will leave them behind and make new friends. My friend is mad at me because I hate scary stuff and she asked me to come on a haunted Halloween hay ride and I said no she said I’m a wimp and I really just am sad.
Reign says:
I once lied to my best friend and she was mad indeed…but prayers….changed everything…when u are in pain u can just ask God to deal with it…no matter the difficulties God will fix ur friendship in a way no man could ever imagine…stay focused..
Rubaiya Durdana says:
My best friend is mad at me cause I haven’t give a study suggests .and using the chance my enemy tell her that I am trying to ignore her because I don’t want her to be the top in the class…..now how many times I tell that I didn’t told that..but she can’t trust me .and want me to ignore her.i haven’t talk with her more than 3 months…but I still can’t forget the moment I and my friend have spent….
Can you help me by giving me a suggestion that how I stop it…
Ashley says:
So like I read your comment and seems to me your not seeing what’s best for her as much as you want it for your self, try to talk to her even when she ignores you atleast u tried and if it really is a strong bond it well work out
Ashley says:
At the moment me and my best friend are in bad terms, she to me she’s like a sister and it hurts me when she is mad at me. Right now she’s mad at me because of how jealous I got of her and her old best friend but thing is they are just in good terms and they are not even close anymore. My only problem is how I fear to lose her because of how special she is to me. We always find a way to fix things but my mind speaks louder when I don’t hear her. She’s giving me the silent treatment which she knows I hate but she also wants to prove her point to not be jealous of anything between other people outside her family, I know all she wants me to know is that I need to trust her with that. I’m not giving up and neither should. Don’t let anything get between someone special in ur life especially when it’s just u being jealous it doesn’t do anything but hurt you.
Gabriella says:
My best friend is angry cos I changed the way I stored her name on my phone to just an initial.
Amelia says:
That’s stupid… I’m sorry to say this but if she is mad at you over that she isn’t really your best friend and I know that’s hard to take but best friends don’t care what kind of convoluted name you have for them as long as you share a close personal bond with them then you will have a healthy friendship.find someone who shares an interest with u or you like that’s your new friend
me says:
lol well maybe she is mad at more than that.
BLABLA says:
Today I was doing homework and my friends were mad because I was doing my Homework and not helping with our project. I started talking to someone and then when the bell rang they said you were talking to him the whole entire period. Which I wasn’t but who cares and practically my friend yelled at me which made tear up but I was strong but now I understand that they’re not my real bc that don’t usually talk to me like my other friends and they don’t get me. MAKE. SURE TO PICK THE RIGHT FRIENDS!
BLABLA says:
My friends became mad at me bc I didn’t help them with the project we were working on but I was doing homework. One friend yelled at me bc I was talking to someone but I was doing homework at the same time I almost cried later that day they were coming to the bathroom and I scared by walking out which I don’t know how now I realize that they are not real friends and that they don’t get me and I don’t get them PICK THE RIGHT FRIENDS DONT PICK FALSE FRIENDS!!!!!!!
Favour says:
My bestfriend for three years hates me because i said something terrible to her i said she wasn’t caring and i never wanted to be friends with her but i never ment all that i was just sad af those months stressed me out :/.And now she hates me i miss her so much her friendship everything she was the sweetest person ever and now she wont text or tall to mw she blocked me insta hp everything 😢. She one time slide up when i said slide up if i hurt u and want to fix stuff . And she slided up saying i wanted to but scared i was going to hurt her again or sum. I said i would never but she ignored 😢😢 . Idk wat to say or do 😢😢
Yvette Lopez says:
i know how you feel my friend is mad at me for something my cousins did.. and know im trying to talk with her but she is ignoring and it really hurts to lose a good friend like her.. i honestly wish i can somehow go back to the day so i can change what happened but im going to try and talk to her again and well if she ignores me then ill just give her some space and time to about it.. but the thing i hate is that she always told me that i was going to be the one to hurt her but…. shes the one that hurt me 😭😭😭😭 💔💔💔💔💔
Nikolas Jovanovic says:
i wissh i can make it up and any way shape or form
Nikolas Jovanovic says:
bad spelling sorry
Emily 💗x says:
My bestfriend is mad at me because he keeps telling secrets about him to another person and he said that I wouldn’t understand! 🙁 he said that and I shouted at him saying that he doesn’t know what I’ve been through and so now he’s not talking to me and we were bestfriends for 2 years 😭, it was just right before that other girl came along! She’s took him away and two other people away from there bestfriends and I feel like she’s going to hurt him soon and he’s going to come back to me and I’m going to be the “backup bestfriend” does anyone have any ideas on what I should do? X
Amelia says:
Find a new friend just like he moved on you move on that’s what I would do if I were you if that doesn’t work I would try to join their group of friends
Layliah says:
My TWO friends are BOTH mad at me because they THiNk I was talking about them and idk what to do they don’t believe me 😭😭
Meowmeowanime says:
My friend is angry at me because I said that I didn’t like how he acted foolishly and inappropriately.
WAR MACHINE 25 says:
Tell him/her that at that moment whenever it happened, you were pissed off
Lucy says:
I hurt my friend and i feel so bad i hated what i did to her it gets me the feeling to vomit or puke of how rude and mean i was. she said she forgives me but dose she really? I wanna make it up to her
Denise says:
My best friend is upset at me because I can’t visit her as often as she would like. I used to live with her so I guess she expects me to still be over there all the time. I have a full time job and family and other friends who all want my attention as well. I tried to talk it out with her but she’s still really jealous. How do I tell her that there are other people who want and need my attention as well. Not to mention my car has been broke down for weeks and family members will barely give me a ride to work, much less to my friend’s house! She thinks I’m avoiding her, but I’m not. I just don’t know what to do.
Rachel Caroline Fierro says:
I had a Best Friend Name Kaelyn and now it Takes matters yo our hands I thought having a Best Friend is Like the worst and now we are not talking anymore Because we are not getting along one thing is I Feel like to
Hit I feel angry At her the way she treated Like not as seriously for Our friendship
anonymous says:
So first my one friend got mad at me Bc I called her property Bc of the meme, then she got rlly mad and convinced my other best friend that I was like the worst person on earth so what should I do
Djdudhdueueeh says:
My friend is mad at me because my other friend wouldn’t give her gum back even though she gave it to me
Shi says:
I think that is dumb and she should not get mad at you for that
takiyah help Reasoner says:
well that i would tell that friend that its not a being deal and that is not your failt and she needs to get out her money and buy new gum
Shi says:
My friend always makes me feel like I am the bad person and so she got mad at me because I have more friends then just her what shuld I do should I drop here or should I keep her and work it out?
Me says:
Drop her. It’s not good to have someone jealous of you. A friend would be happy for you and take the time to hang out with your other friends. She shouldn’t try to keep you away from people. She doesn’t control your life, you do.
Selena says:
Do NOT drop her! You may think it will be for the best but you will miss her and realize nothing is worse than losing a best friend. Try to work it out.
takiyah help Reasoner says:
you should drop her she not doing any good the only thing she is doing is make ing you feel bad about yourself you are a good person you dont need that type of person in your life
Liv says:
My best friend is mad at because she thinks I’m mad at her. No matter how many times I tell her I’m no she still thinks I’m angry. I don’t know what to do at this point.😔
Me says:
It’s okay just give her time. Don’t tell her you’re not mad, show her. If this doesn’t work, I think she’s looking for a way to avoid you.
TOBYMAC_LOVER says:
my friend is mad bc she thinks that I said that her old basketball would be better without her. Um, no! I said that if the team was good without good form and fundamentals, imagine how much better would they be if they had them? All to imply that good form was important when she shot a basketball! WHAT DO I DO????!!!!!
Me says:
This is long, so I understand if you don’t read it, but to those who do, thanks.
My best friend got mad out of the blue today. I figure out why because it was the end of the day. I asked what was wrong and he just shook his head no. So I grabbed his sleeve, holding him back. He just said “No” in a harsh voice. It hurt and I can’t text him because I am not allowed to be friends with him. I’m a girl and I don’t know if I was just being emotional about it, but I almost cried. My heart ached. It really hurt, and this isn’t at all like him. He almost never gets mad. He gets sad of happy, but its rare to see him mad. It scares me. He just walked off to his bus. I stopped for a second, trying to take in what happened. Everything was so quick. It hurt when he yanked his arm away from me and walked off not even looking down at me. I’m scared, but I don’t know why.
I’m usually good with giving advice and I stick to a decision if I made it and I’m sure it’s for the best. It doesn’t feel right that I’m asking for advice from someone else because usuallyI’m the one people go to, but I didn’t know what else to do.
Please help. (Sorry if it’s confusing, I’m not good at asking for advice since I rely fully on myself and no one else.)
thehopeline says:
Thank you for reaching out to talk about this. Do not blame yourself for his actions. He may seem like he is mad at you, however, it sounds like there is something going on with him that is below the surface. Maybe something that is going on in his life triggered him to act this way. The best thing you can do is to continue to care about him and be kind to him until he’s ready to talk about what is really going on with him. I hope this helps! BTW, you are not confusing at all!
takiyah help Reasoner says:
so i think that you should leave him alone to think about it so he is OK but if weeks go by and he don’t talk to you then ask him whats wrong do you want to talk about it and if he do then talk but if he don’t respect his wishes but don’t apologys for something you did or did not do
HPKITTEN says:
Don’t give up on him. Probably something happened to him when you didn’t see and he was just angry. Don’t be scared. I’m also a girl, and I understand. Try to talk to him the next day. You can’t text him, so email him if you can. Just SLOWLY try to work out his feeling and whatever you do, BE A GOOD FRIEND TO HIM!!!!!
mady ayers says:
my friend is mad at me bc i started dating someone and i’m trying to make it better and i wanna cry but she is just still mad someone plzzz help me
lover of Jesus says:
Sorry if this is confusing but, my friend showed me this singing video, and she told me specifically not to tell this boy she was talking to. They ended up not talking anymore a few days later, but he acted like he still liked her. She can sing really well… so i showed him the video even though she told me not to. He laughed at it and made fun of it. i thought he would like it though. then my friend found out i showed him and she got mad and texted me. i apologized and told her how i felt and how i wanna be friends still. i told her she could be mad at me, but i will only say good things about her and be nice. she texted me later and said she will never forgice me, and she doesnt ever wanna talk to me, and that we are not friends. :(( what do i do??? i literally cried and she is being so mean…
bibi says:
she will get over soon dont worry, she ll start missing you and realise that u just wanted to help her. its not ok to lose your best friend over a boy, i almost lost my friend too but then realized its not ok
evans says:
my friend and i were friends for 10 years but he pulled a prank on me and i got mad and stop talking to him for two years but now we miss being friends but now were scared to talk because were like strangers but my friends say he misses me i do too but i don’t know what to say every time he gets close i run from him.
takiyah help Reasoner says:
just remember to be your self open up to him
do run come up to him a talk it out.
and when you go to him open up.
Someone says:
My friend is really mad at me because I spoiled a movie but I have anxiety and I only spoiled one part of it because I wanted to tell someone that it was making me anxious…this was mostly over text and I don’t know what to do when I see her next I already said I’m sorry but..
takiyah help Reasoner says:
well she should know that and she should get over it a move on to another movie and think about others some time and when they make a mistake
Michaela says:
I need help! My best friend thinks I value another one of my friends more than her. So now she’s mad at me and I don’t know what to do. I wrote her a sorry letter, sorry email, and I told her I’m sorry a MILLION times! She doesn’t believe me and isn’t talking to me anymore. It’s like I’m not a part of her life anymore. I’ve already given her plenty of time to cool off, but it isn’t working.
Helena says:
My friend is mad at me but she wont tell me why… All she is saying is that shes not mad, just upset and hurt, but i have no clue what I did and she is hard to talk to because she says shes fine and wont really tell me whats going on ever. How am I supposed to get it out of her? This is really tearing me up and im like crying over it but im in school and idk how to fix this… someone please help!!!
Swilling says:
Hi sry I really don’t know what to say just don’t let it tear you apart
annie says:
My friend is really mad at me because we got into an argument about where we shout keep our band stand . After that I called her ignorant and to go die and she cried for the rest of the class (30 minutes) and i got upset but she seemed really sad and hurt . At the end of the day she told her math teacher which i do not have the whole story and when my other friend went to ask a question she saw my name saying “talk to ___”. what should I do?
Kavey says:
Apologise say you didn’t mean it say it was in the heat of the moment and that she means so much to you but also give her a bit of time if she’s needs it don’t pressureize her
Z says:
You really need to check your anger. Apologize immediately and never yell at her again. Make sure you admit that you were totally in the wrong and ask her if there is anything that you can do to make up for being mean. If she does not want to be tour friend anymore be understanding of her feelings
Anominis says:
My friend just woke up and ignored me and won’t do anything and I’m at his house and idk what to do
Amelia says:
My friend was texting me and she said THICC I said it back and she got mad
Nouf Ali says:
My friend is mad because in a game there was something scary and a was shouting at him so he can come then I lost connection in the game and I rejoined he was mad at me when I left and now he always tells me I’m such a drama queen I told him please forgive me but he didn’t forgive me and I chatted with him and he just ignores the message I don’t know what to do plz anyone help me 😭
Swilling says:
I have had the same thing happen to me. If you want to keep this friend prove you aren’t scared and invite him to a haunted house or something if you don’t want him as a friend let him go.
Olivia says:
Hi, so I have a friend I become really really close with and there is another friend who is very emotionally abusive to me and her. I finally couldn’t take this emotional abuse and lashed out not only at the abuser but the friend I care about. I texted her saying I was sorry and that I wanna be there for her fix stuff ete. She said she needs time to think about it. Idk what to do because the emotionally abuseive friend treats her whorse than that 1 angered text I send. Should I just move on or is there something I can do to fix this.
Ava says:
My friend is mad at me because I told her I’m quitting a game we both played because there was to much drama and I couldn’t handle it and it got us in little fights so I said I’m not gonna play anymore so she said all those little fights were like jokes but she didnt act like they were jokes so I told her that we’re gonna end up getting in a big fight over a stupid game and she told me she’s done and she hasn’t responded to any of my other messages. What do I do?
sarah says:
recently me and my best friend got in a silent fight the “ignoring silent treatment” because i thought she kept my necklaces. yesterday we had an emotional ft and thought it was done… today at school we gave eachother gifts and at my tkd sport we were dead silent
Zozo says:
Hi,so I became close to a group of friends 3yrs ago.And one of them is my really close best friend.She means the world to me I swear .we’ve been friends for 5 yrs and me and the whole group got into a fight because rumors have been going around saying that I talk bad about them.i tried explaining that I really didn’t say anything and idk who are the girls that went around and said that but I really want this to go back like usual.they seem really mad.she called me once and we tried to talk but it wasn’t working out like expected.she says she can’t trust me anymore.idk what to do.they keep denying me in class and running away from me.moving all the chairs beside them so I won’t sit next to them.its hard to deny them too because they take up most of the class(we r a big group).all what is going around my mind is them and i really want to focus on studying because we have finals.help?
Mrunmayee Ambulkar says:
Just Ignore them and believe that if they really were your friends they would have never done that!!
Mel says:
So me and my friend were at school. My other friend’s stuff are in my friend’s locker. I tried opening it with scissors, it worked but it won’t close. My friend (who owns the locker) got really mad and worried that she might get in trouble. I apologised over and over again to her, yet I feel like she doesn’t forgive me. I’m scared to face her tomorrow..
Any ideas on how to fix this problem?
Amelia says:
This is going to be long so thank you to those who read it
So there is this really good prepatory school and it accepts pretty much anyone if you pass the entrance exam… so I took the exam and got in with a scholarship! My one friend though didn’t get in… 😢so he called me and told me and I was like ok yea you’ll be ok… and he never said couldn’t tell anyone so I told all of my friends (3) and they were like ok we won’t tell anyone and they didn’t but then he found out I told them and he said I hate you and he said lots of hurtful things… he vowed to never speak to me again he pushes me over and steals my lunch money… I’m too afraid to tell on him what should I do?
Emiky says:
U should tell someone and make things right with him tell him ur sry
Karin says:
Hey! So I have this really good friend. Our thoughts and minds are the same. Earlier this week I went to short vacation and she got really jealous because I travelled with old friend of mine who I don’t talk much. And now she blames me for judgeing her looks and she is always in the background and I want to be most seen. Also she told me I found new true friend and I don’t need her anymore. Actually this is all false I don’t think that way. We have shared a lots of memories this past 1 and half year because we got so close as friends. It’s really hard to let go. It sucks tomorrow is due to Christmas. She also has now told me she has no time to meet because of work and plans. She is ignoring me everywhere but I created a fake account to get her talk to me. So what should I do?
divya virmani says:
be honest with her… sit down and talk about your feelings. open up… and if she’s cancelling on every plan go to her.. make a sweet gesture
AlliSON says:
I have a question,
So, my best friend (we’ve been friends for over 7 years) got mad at me because I said something to my boyfriend about her. I told him to keep it between us in case she took it the wrong way. Turns out a couple of weeks later she is mad at me and tells me (and even shows me a picture of the text between us) how he told her that I was trash talking her, and I meant what I said, when I didn’t. I tried talking to her but she ignores me, and I tried giving her a Christmas gift but she told me to keep it, and that she didn’t want it. She said that what happened, happened and it was best for the both of us. I don’t know what to do, please help.
duke says:
first lose the boyfriend, he’s no good.
paige says:
You have to give it time, reach out with other people but don’t talk about this situation with others because it will most likely come back to her and make her even more mad. Honestly the best advice is to give it time. DO NOT BE PETTY oh lord don’t be petty it will make things worse.
Maddison says:
My besty got mad because I was making jokes and it was not appropriate and she is a person that doesn’t like when I talk about that kind of stuff and she told me to stop texting her and I do not know what to do
kerby says:
you dont know what you can do just give her time 3 minute
Lee says:
Give her time and show you are truly sorry and loose the boyfriend what use is he if he can’t keep a secret
divya virmani says:
ok so i have this really good guy friend and we both are/ were realllly close we used to talk for ours and everything now we barely talk and this has happened after i tried to set him up with a girl by helping the girl get close to him, he didn’t know about any of this and now he has started avoiding conversations with me and he asked me to not tag him in any of my posts ans stuff like that… what should i do?
Iceball Anonymous says:
So my friend and i were texting and i think i was asking her too many question so she got mad. i tried to be calm and solve the problem but she got extremely mad and left. I don’t know what will happen the next time we meet, so what should I do?
duke says:
i played this really awful prank or joke on my friend in terms of revenge and it backfired really hard to the point where she cried and told her mom. Of course i apologized to her multiple times and to her mom, but even before saying sorry i knew that it wasn’t enough. It’s Christmas break and I’m just ready to talk to her in person and have a REAL conversation with her. I’m ready to listen to what she has to say and not take it to the heart. She’s not a good listener but I hope she can do the same. I would like more tips and advice.
Bea says:
I have a friend who I have a crush on and I was joking around with him and told him he was trash at a video game just playing around and he got really mad and said that I was mean and and then said I was acting like a jerk and idk what to do
Bob says:
I lied to a close friend about my feelings for her. She called me out on flirting with her and said I was disrespectful towards her and her current relationship. I said I was only joking around and didn’t have feelings for her that way. She didn’t believe me. We live in different parts of the country and I can’t see her in person. I feel a mix of things and I don’t want to lose her. Honesty, admitting she was right and I do have feelings that I lied about, would probably kill things for good between us. It’d be too hard to reconcile and too easy to cut ties for good. I apologized for my behavior. I tried to reassure her that I was only joking around and I was sorry if I crossed a line. I haven’t heard anything back.
Amber says:
Sort yourself out and just hang in there
becca says:
Hi if anyone can help me it would be greatly appreciated. So last year one of my friends dated this guy. Before summer started they broke up and were fighting all summer break. In the end of summer we were really drunk and i hooked up with him (did not have sex with him though). She also ended up having sex with someone the night that they broke up which everyone just found out reacently but she is still mad at me. While they were talking she also made our with another guy and denys it to this day even though the guy confessed. She is still super mad at me even though they weren’t together when school stared and she got with a senior and her ex(but not really ex because they never actually dated) knew about it. She is super mad at me and is talking crap on me to everybody she can making me look like a horrible person. She has turned so many people against me because i have no more strength to fight back at this point. i have been so sad because i lost so many people due to this. I really need help i have tried everything and she wants nothing to do with me and is continuing to talk crap.
Lee says:
Whaaat she is nuts make her understand that
Afru says:
Hi
Anybdy pls give me solution of this
Me n my bestie we know eachother from 3 yrs.. she means a world to me. I m sharing each n everything of my life wid her . She always told everyone that I am her best friend but she nvr share anything to me or nevr make feel me diff from her other normal frnds.. So is it mean that I m not her bestie or she is just using me from 3 yrs or I m doing too much for staying with her.
Amber says:
Yes she does not deserve a wonderful person like you. Pls don’t make my mistake
Susan says:
I need help! My friend and I have been best friends for almost 5 years
Everyday we were together … something happened( petty) and we haven’t talked in 3 months ! I miss her so much! What do i do?? To get her back into my life 😢
Vairamuthu Babuji says:
Just keep trying.I know my best friend for only a period of 7 months.We had a fight.The mistake was mine.I did something terribly wrong.She is like my best friend and she is like my sister.She trusted me a lot.I couldn’t keep up my promise.When she comes to know about it,she was upset and she stopped talking to me.Now,I feel like she is gonna hate me for the rest of my life.But,I understand my mistake and I can’t imagine a life without her.Wherever I will be or whoever I will be,a life without her will make no sense to me.I am trying my level best to correct everything happened.I asked her sorry a thousand times.I promised her that I won’t repeat the same mistake again.She did everything for me,she cared,she was there for me whenever I was not okay.A single mistake teaches me everything.A single mistake made me realize her value.I don’t know,if she will accept me back.But,I am gonna try my entire life.So,if she is worth everything,just keep trying and hope for the best.
Lee says:
What did you do
The earlier you own up the better
Colleen Murphy says:
One of my best friends randomly blocked me on Instagram after getting her phone taken away by her mom and I know this because her mom went on her phone to text me, and she got her phone taken away so that my best friend can study. I got very mad because she always says she is busy, and I did not know what to do. I tried texting her asking why she blocked me, because it said “user not found” and I went on a website to try to see if she deleted her account but NO she blocked me but then I got a reply from her mom saying that she still has her phone and said that this is unacceptable. I have been crying for a month and this is not helping AT ALL. A week later, I sent her a very hurtful text because I was furious after realizing that my friend got her phone back and I see her updating her profile picture and bio on Instagram. One of my friends (my #1 BFF) whom I have known longer than the girl that is one of my best friends, showed me my friend’s Instagram story so I figured that she got her phone back. I tried texting her but I got no answer. This is a no bueno! A few weeks later, I tried adding her on Snapchat but then I get blocked by my best friend (same girl that blocked me on Instagram) FOR NO REASON. I started to cry again. A week later, I text her to apologize to her but underneath the text it says that she read it and no response. WHY DOES SHE HATE ME?!!!!! I WANT MY BEST FRIEND BACK RIGHT NOW!!!!!!
Colleen Murphy says:
She also updated her Snapchat profile and it’s really upsetting me
Lee says:
Jeez if u wanna get her to forgive you corner her, explain and show her all the reasons she needs you and most importantly you need her. Give her time but not space and don’t be pishy
Suzanne says:
My friend called me something that really hurt me at prom and then ran away so I grabbed her by her arm and accidentely damaged her dress. Now she’s mad at me, even though I apologised at least 10 times.. I tried to talk to her at school but she told me to go away.. and I just don’t know what to do anymore..
Lee says:
Its your partly. Just do something she has been wanting for a long time and make it a moderately dramatic surprise
Ana says:
Just give it time.
Suzanne says:
That didn’t work.. found a letter in my locker 2 weeks ago. It was saying: thank you for those two years. But it’s over.
I’m freaking broken.. I miss her so much..
Riel says:
So I have a really close friend and it seems like every time we talk we end up mad at each other. We used to love hanging out together but now he’s always hanging out with other people unless we just happen to be the only people together. We have different views about certain things and it just feels like he’s always pushing his agenda on me and other people! It’s so annoying, and I try not to let it bother me but it just does! And he also gets mad at me a lot! I think I’m just the person he lets his anger out on! I try not to let the fact that he’s mad at me bother me… but it’s so hard! And I know I do stuff to hurt him too, and afterward I feel so bad. It’s just that he’s hurt me so many times that whenever I have a chance I just want to lash out and hurt him as bad as he hurt me!😭
Bree says:
Don’t hurt him just ignore him and put him in a tight corner so he has to come to you
Robert N. Bogdanffy says:
Hello All never done this before but I don’t Know where else to turn. My best friend and I have been through a lot and encountered people who have left us and hurt us. We vowed to never abandon each other we say that were brothers most of the time and I truly consider him my family and always will. We went to real estate school together, took the test together, now work in the most prestigious firm in North Jersey together as business partners. At an open house with our boss from my point of view he was kind of ignoring me and I lent him my car to go get coffee and when He came back the key to his house had been taken off my keychain and this just made me upset. He only bothered to talk to me when he saw I was distraught. We had plans to hang out that night which he blew off and said he was sleeping. He was active on Instagram the whole time he was “asleep.”
It’s been four days and its been radio silence. Ive now been blocked on snapchat, Instagram, and iPhone. I began calling from other number pleading for him to call me and nothing. I might give him space but we’ve had horrible fights that never ended like this. this wasn’t even a fight. He just won’t talk to me. I’m devastated here. I lost a member of my family and there is nothing I can do. I may have over reacted a bit at the open house by not talking but how could that have caused all this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Bliss says:
Forget giving him space , he does not deserve you.he might have heard something somewhere without giving you benefit of doubt. Trust me been there just catch him unawares so you can take stuff over
Ana says:
In my opinion I think she is wrong not you she has no right to touch your food especially if you don’t want her too.
Fhgftfdsecbhnnghj says:
Me and my friend have had a fight with the other friend of ours and are not sure what to do .💖So we were in class as always,and in our free time we would look at funny spongebob memes and she’s a bit more serious than others and didn’t think they were funny and started getting annoyed.But,she didn’t have the nerve to tell us so we had to figure it out ourself. Then to maybe cheer her up in phys Ed anything she said we replied with a food. My friend ran up and raspberryed and she stomped off.We would sometimes call her BB , B, Pam spray, or beans and rice but she would normally be fine with that.We asked her if she’s mad and she said maybe,and now is hanging out with her other friend. What do y’all think would be the best thing to do?
jess says:
so my best friend is super mad at me and i din’t know what to do. I have this thing where I cant let people touch my stuff, and especially not my food. I know that it is a weird trait and I am working on it, and she knows about it. But before we went on break she touched everything in my lunch box, so I couldn’t eat it. Then she got mad at me because I went to go sit with someone else. I know she hates the girl i went to sit with, but that girl is also one of my best friends. I had to apologize, even though I don’t think i did anything wrong. Then today at lunch I had a cookie, and i never get cookies. Because my family is SUPER healthy. So this was sorta a big deal, and my favorite part about lunch. It was two Oreo cookies. I ate the first one and put the other in my lunch box for later. She reached in to my bag and grabbed it, then licked it. I will admit what i did next was not very nice, I stole it back from her and crushed it. I was just so mad! Then she said that she was going to be just like me and go leave, so she went and sat by my other friend. Because she also has friends at that table. AT my table we have another girl who sits there, and she took the crumbs and put them on my best friends seat. Then when my best friend came back, she got pissed and assumed it was me. She threw the crumbs at me. Then she went to another table away from me. The lunch monitors came by and asked whose mess it was, then the other girl that sits at our table told her that it was my best friends. Which I sort of agree with. Then I decided to be the bigger person and clean it up, she came back and sat down. Then our whole table got dismissed, but i was still cleaning. Today is also Disney day at my school, so i brought her some mickey ears, because i knew she would forget. After lunch i couldn’t see her, so i went to my next class. Then after the bell rang she came to my locker and gave me back the ears. I tried to ask her why and she just left. Her boyfriend also told me that she was really mad! I just don’t know what to do! PLease help!
ashley francis says:
so my best friend rachel is mad at me .i have only known her for 3 months and we became bffs.but we had our first argument over a girl because i said that i don’t like her because i felt like she was stealing rachel.and i got mad for no reason and shes been ignoring me for days and i don’t know what to do.every time i write notes she crumbles it up and throws it away
Uttara says:
Dont worry… I have experienced the same thing, but the opposite.. In my case i was Rachel.But let time heal it. You know she will definetely come back to you one day when she underestands how important you are.. Time will heal it.. She WILL come to you again!
Shada fathima says:
Hii
Our friendship is from 5 month but due to so missunderstanding
She is not talking now
And ignoring me i need a help plz some one suggest me. What to do and due this some enemy are laughing with me
Allison says:
My friend is mad at me because we were watching a movie and I was fooling around because I was bored. Now she isn’t talking to me and I’m really nervous about how she feels and what I can do to make it right. But , I just absolutely hate it when she is mad at me because it makes me wanna cry.
I dont tell my name says:
that is kinda what happened to me cause she got mad because the teacher let me do something that she wanted to do but she did not ask for that day she asked for thursday and then when i got done i asked her what was wrong and she just rolled her eyes and started talking to this other girl and it made me mad because i try to be the best friend ever but no one really notices that im trying to do what i can to be the best friend i can be so i get really sad :/
peppercorn says:
girl you stop right over there and fricken scream at her if you have to. jk just try to ask what yoy did wrong and dont defened yourself, be open to what you did even if it is hard
Matt says:
One of my best friends (that I have been with for 2 years… She said it’s best if we part ways) that’s friends with my best friend had a talk with her. And she replied with “Maybe….. I’ll maybe be friends with him” (Him is me) can you help?… I really don’t want to loose her…
Matt says:
(This talk was from a site called Quotev by the way) but still please help… I really want her to be friends with me again but I don’t know how to fix it
Katie says:
As a girl, I don’t know what you did to upset her but, i would go and ask her (as gently as possible) what you did wrong and how can you fix it. If its something that you don’t think matters remember not to get over emotional and say that you will try to not do it again or do something to fix it. If that doesn’t work idk. I hope everything goes ok!!!
John Cisneros says:
My friend is mad at me and I don’t know why. So I don’t know what to do. She’s been my friend ever since she went to school at mine. Should I give it time or part ways.
Katie says:
I would give it time if the relationship is really important to you.
Nichole | Wildly Alive says:
Its not really easy when our loved ones or our best friends are mad at us. Maybe we did some rude things or we did some mistakes and vice versa. These tips can really help. We must always give time to each other. And always fight rudeness with kindness. Always be kind to everyone.
Aaliyah says:
My best friend is refusing to ‘talk it out’ and has made a new best friend which she does everything with and has been avoiding me for a week
Katie says:
My best friend has gotten a boyfriend. I don’t want to get into her relationship but the guy doesn’t respect her and rides our bus. He gets mad at her for nothing. I might be making it sound a little out of hand. He is in eighth grade and she is in seventh. I tried to talk it out with her. She just gives me reason that makes me sound like the bad guy. I didn’t like the guy before they started dating him. She doesn’t even look at me anymore and started telling all her information to my sister instead of me. She stays with him all the time.
Alya says:
But what if they come up with something else right after we resolve the problem? Me and my friend talked it out and resolved everything, or at least I thought. Than she texted me again with another problem and now I’m completely drained
Alicia says:
My friend is angry at me just because i didn’t wait for him after school since then he’s been avoiding me it’s almost two weeks he is a boy and I’m a girl we’re both teenagers i don’t know what to do like for real ans it hurts me badly that he ignores me this days
Vishal says:
My best friend is angry on me because I didn’t call her for a while.
..and now she don’t want to talk with me..
What can I do..
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Sad girl says:
my friends are dating and I am a third wheel. I began to sit with them and talk to them and joke about their relationship and how I ship it. Now they both hate me and won’t talk to me. she now hangs out with other kids. I used to call her my kid now she calls someone else her ” dad ” this breaks my heart
Toothless says:
🙁
Toothless says:
She was yelling at me bcuz she thought I liked a guy, even though I really didn’t. She now has not talked to me AT ALL and it is starting to make me mad.
Candy says:
Don’t get mad that get worst. You have to make your friend you don’t like him for example show her prove
Meme Review says:
My friend was angry at me hugging her she said “Can you not put your arm around me!?” I just walked away angry. I guess I should have asked her what was wrong but she doesn’t tell me. I tell her everything, but she tells me nothing… I personally think she’s isn’t a hundred percent committed to our friendship or because I told her I liked her then a month later I asked her if she liked me she said no. I pretty sure I made feel guilty because I was super sad and she saw it. I’m going to apologize to her tomorrow thanks for the help (this all happened recently btw).
aaliicee says:
So, I was mad at my bestie cuz she started to hang out with this other friend and I felt as the third weel. This isn’t the first time it happens, but it’s the first time we don’t text each other or even spend time together for more tha 2 weeks. I told her why I was mad at her, and she replied that she was happy like this and that she doesn’t want to be my third wheel and that she’s always the one who is sad. But that’s not true at all. I haven’t sleep for days because of this arguement. I’ve texted her that maybe I was wrong and I sad sorry (it was really meant), but she hasn’t replied. Idk what to do with her, I’m really sad cuz she’s my best friend and now I’m loosing her (I have another bestis but the friendship we have is way different). What should I do? I’ve already tried to speak to her but she says that she’s happy now.
(btw, sorry if there are some mistakes but I’m an italian teenager of 14 years old)
Megan says:
My best friend is going to my favorite country singers concert on the 16th of this month and I can’t go and I am disappointed that she gets to go with her mom but I can’t and we have been friends since 10th grade and I don’t know if I should still be her friend or not please and I didn’t even sing in church this morning because I was sitting by my friend
Candy says:
What about if she doesn’t want to talk about it
A says:
My best friend has started being REALLY rude. We dont go to the same school anymore, and she keeps bragging about her other bffs and I told her I really dont care who she hangs out with. Today this was the conversation:
Her: My very best friend Jade said she has been texting you and u dont reply. Please reply to my best friend.
Me: Jade hasn’t talked to me since last year.
Her: I thought you were going to say something about her being my best friend.
I told her I dont care and she keeps doing it. Then she said I dont trust her because she made up some dumb lie about having a hot boyfriend and I saw through it. She has never dated anyone, and she has a huge crush on someone else. Then she wouldn’t talk to me for a week because “I dont trust her.”
PM says:
Your friend is toxic. I know it’s hard to hear, but u need to break up or else u might get hurt physically or mentally. Trust me, I know from experience.
sarah says:
my friend/ ex he is my ex but before that, we were good friends then we started to date he thinks I used him to make my ex jealous.
I tried to tell him I didn’t but he doesn’t, believe me, I even HAND wrote ( i sorry, please forgive me ) 216 TIMES. I really don´t want him to hate me so does anyone have any advice?
Lexie Hart says:
first off aww that so sad that your ex friend would think that about you and my advice is to tell you were right about my ex friend and see what he dose and i see where you are come from i get and if that dose not work then find a new friend
Haylee says:
My ex best friend came up to me and told me to stop talking to her boyfriend but I don’t want to stop talking to him because he’s my friend and she threatened me and I don’t know what to do because I just want my best friend back!
unknown says:
my bestfriend and I have had many problems because of this girl that used to be my bestfriend we were still on good terms but she was trying to get me out of the picture and soon enough she did she starting hanging out with the group leaving me out and just basically me stitting by myself at home and sure enough i let my anger get the best of me and the whole group is mad at me making me feel like im alone in this world i just dont know what to do so i texted my bestfriend and asked if we could talk im just scared and honestly dont know what to do at this point because i think im losing the people that meant the most to me because i was stupid.
Lexie Hart says:
i know how you feel every day bout been alone
Justin says:
This has happened to me before. The only thing you can do is apologize and, with time, your true friends will forgive you.
Jeremy says:
My friend is mad at me because I made him die in Fortnite
Rhyma says:
My friend is angry w me for no reason .. what do I do ?
Justin says:
There most likely is a reason- they just won’t tell you what it is. I’d suggest talking to them and try to understand why they’re upset.
Unknown says:
My friend thinks I was being rude when it was 2 of my other friends. They’re kind of being jerks and I want to help my friend but she left the group chat and unfriended me on Snapchat. Please help!
sarah smith says:
My bestfriend is mad at me because I spit on her but it wasn’t that bad!
She is also mad at me because I sent her a picture of her as a little kid and I guess she is mad now.
Rosie says:
My bff is mad because I said that I might un add her on Snapchat because of what one of my friends did and she said I’m not the same No more and she dosnt want to bffs what should I do?
Jaweryah says:
She’s angry cause I complaint about her while she was cheating on exams and her parents were called by the teacher because of that
Mariam says:
you should not say that
Anonymous says:
I don’t know what to do. I talked about my friend behind her back, but all I said was that I thought she was mad at me. Now she thinks our friendship can never go back to the way it was. What do I do?
Mariam says:
my best friend is mad at me cause em not responding his texts..! what do i do..? 😓😓
Sarah C Walker says:
my friend is mad at me b/c i said i wouldn’t talk to her and some other friends for 1 day. so i did that and she got really offended and said that she doesnt want to be my friend because i talk about too much sexual things. LIKE DA FUCK! this wasn’t a problem before so why now!?!?!?!
Natassia says:
I have a friend name Aaliya and she is mad at me because I got mad at her because I was in a bad mood I yelled at her in 6th hour class last Friday and she got upset and said I give you 1 more chance to make this right and if I break it she will drop me and she had been my friend sence 3rd grade I do not want to lose her if she
just asked me what was my problem I wouldn’t have not got a attitude towards her But I really hate myself for doing that it wasn’t her fault and I keep apologize to her she keep ignoring me what should I do but I got other friends
Adam Paul says:
Wonderful article. It is really a great blog post about to True Friends. I found some interesting tips for Friends. So thanks for sharing it with us. I guess. I could add that a true friend will never hurt your feelings intentionally.
Bambi says:
I recently broke up with my boyfriend who so happens to be best friends with my bff so when I told her how mean he was to me after the day we broke up I thought she was laughing at me and misunderstood what she was trying to say to me and thought she didnt care for me and instead cared for my boyfriend and cursed her behind back and she found out it was completely my fault and tried to fix it now idk how to fix this and i dont want to loose this friendship I was emotional from everything that’s happening around me so I acted out that way I was wrong what should i do ? I need help
Anonymous says:
I have a guy best friend that meant everything to me. He asked me out many times but I was afraid to open my heart because of the past. Right when I decided to open my heart, our friendship didn’t even last a week. I lost his trust after our friendship was on and off. I broke again…but I just wish that things can go back. Now, it’s been over a month….and all he says is that he doesn’t need me in his life anymore and to leave him alone…At the start…I swore that I didn’t want to loose him. And after all this time, I can’t forgive myself for hurting him…and it’s hard for me to move on when I don’t want to….everyone tells me he’s a jerk…but deeply inside, I know that he’s a really caring person…at least to me…and I trust him….because I love him for that. His smile completes me….and he asks me if I am ok when I’m not….cares for me when I get hurt….and more…..he means so much to me. Please help me….Anyone….Any advice would be appreciated…I just want to be ok again and be friends with him again….
Sonja Johnson says:
The exact same thing happened to me. I know exactly what you are going through. It’s super painful. Just try to move on and ignore him and if he keeps talking to you and trying to get your attention, then he still wants you in his life. If he continues to avoid you, then you should probably let him go. He isn’t worth your time and there is someone else out there who is better for you. It really hurts I totally understand. It’s super hard but it’s for the best probably.
Alex says:
I’m so sad I have no idea what I did wrong I was sick for a week and came back to one of my best friend hating me and my BEST friend not really talking to me a being short with me I gave it some time and it’s the same thing so I am planning on talking to her I really hope this doesn’t backfire.
Sonja Johnson says:
They probably aren’t real friends. Real friends would like you no matter what. Try finding a new friend and see if your old friends get jealous. If they confront you and ask you why you don’t hang out with them anymore, then they still want to be your friend. You just need to tell them that you thought they were mad at you and then they might apologize and all is good. If they don’t confront you or If they don’t apologize and they get even more upset at what you tell them, then they aren’t real friends and you should probably move on. It sad, I know, losing someone who you thought was your real friend is painful. But sometimes it’s for the best. 🙂
Alexya says:
So, me and my friends, got into a fight and my one friend only agree’s with my other friend, and I get mad and angry about it, I tried to confront them but it didn’t help. I’m going to lose both of them because of one. I love both of them (as friends) and I don’t want to lose them, I need help, please help.
Sonja Johnson says:
Real friends will forgive you for your mistakes because they still want you in their lives. If they are willing to leave you over something silly, then they aren’t worth your time. Finding real friends is hard and it takes a long time sometimes, but it’s totally worth it. If you leave them alone and they come back to you and ask for you to be their friend again, then tell them you have boundaries and you don’t want the same thing to happen again if you let them back into your life. You have to remember your self worth above everything 😉
Alexya says:
thank you so much, love your advice
Alexya says:
So I have gym with this girl and my other friend but my other friend sits with this other girl should I got up and start talking to the other girl and not the one who is being really a brat and mean to me? Please help??????????????????
Belle says:
What if a friend got angry without me knowing the reason. Its just suddenly, He treated me differently. Cold as ever. What should I do?
Alexya says:
The same thing happened to me I’m trying to figure out why, but I just can’t. Maybe try treating him cold as well don’t talk to him. An if he is talking to one of your friends go up and start talking to the other friend not him.
Ian says:
maybe he has a feeling with you hahahha
kailey creaesy says:
the same thing happed to me and my best friend means so much to me and we even share the same birthday and i wound do anything to get her back i love her as a friend but you and your friend may fight sometimes but that is ok you and your best friend may fight but it does not mean that she or he is going to hate you for ever an things happen and you only get one realy good friend in your life so you most stick to that person like glue and i am not saying that go find a best friend right now it takes time and find a great friend one you can count on ans respect there wishes
Shaquanda says:
My friends and I were spilling tea and they made me spill my friend’s tea. So I somehow ended up telling my friends the tea, and somehow she found out and now she’s mad at me. I know I shouldn’t have done it, but she’s spilled my tea 500 times!
Helper Cheyl says:
You have to let go and move on, if they are going to be a hypocrite there is no chance of being friends with her.
Claudia says:
My friend is mad at me because she thinks that I am flirting with her ex. He is in my math class and we laugh sometimes but so does everyone else in the class. He is a flirty guy in general so it doesn’t mean anything and he actually likes one of my friends. She doesn’t trust me and has found out from so many people that I flirt with him which isn’t true. She is my best friend and we are so close but she has been ignoring me and talking to only my other friends. I tried texting her tonight but she said I was causing too much drama and she doesn’t really care which she obviously does. I am scared that she will turn my friends on me and things will be awkward tomorrow. Please, please someone help and respond ASAP- I have been alone, crying for the past 3 hours and I don’t think she will ever forgive me and even cares about our friendship.
Emma says:
This has happened to me too what I did was give her evidence that I wasn’t flirting with her ex for example recordingYou and her ex talking so she know that you aren’t trying to flirt with him also try to ignore her ex. This is the best advice I can give you I hope It works
Emma says:
I don’t know what happened but my two only friends( yes I only have two friends 😔) but each time I get close to a specific One of them the other one comes And tells me she needs to tell her something in private I don’t know what I did or why you’re mad at me but I have something this Friday that we’re all going to do together and I’m scared that they won’t let me do it I need help ASAP
Hannah E.S says:
Try and talk with them and ask them whats going on.
if they are still doing it maybe try and make friends xx
Hannah E.S says:
my best friend had sleepover with her other bestfriends and i did not get invited. i was really confused about this and annoyed because i thought she hated me and was using me. I was at this surprise cocert that i won so she kinda used it as a excuse (even tho she didnt know i went until after she had the sleepover and a day after the concert)
do i make up with her???
Billy says:
This wasn’t a best friend, but more of a “he’s my wife’s uncle, none of his family goes around him, I feel sorry for him, so I’ll hang out with him occasionally. I had spoken to him on the phone one day, and he had asked me to come by later (he had something he needed help moving or something). I said ok and mentioned later I was going somewhere. He asked where, then asked if he could go. I said yes, he could go with me. Time to leave comes and I can’t reach him on the phone, so I leave to go to my destination, which is about 30 minutes directly west of my house….her uncle lives about 15 – 20 minutes directly south.
On my way to my destination, Publix Supermarket, I finally spoke to him on the phone. I told him where I was, which was about 5 minutes from my destination, and that I had tried to call before I left, but didn’t get an answer. I told him I would come by after I left Publix, so I would see him in a little while.
So I get to his house, and he is on the porch, walks down the sidewalk to meet me and ask, “are you ready?”. I asked him where we were going, and he started referring to our first conversation that morning when he asked me to come by and told him he could ride with me to Publix, “we’re going over there where we talked about.” Puzzled, I said, “Tom, I’ve already been over there.” He blew up -“you told me on the phone that you were coming to get me!”. I tried to reason with him, and told him, “on our first phone call, yes I did, but I tried to call you when I left, got no answer, so I left. Then when we spoke last time I told you exactly where I was, and that I would come by after I left Publix.”
There was no reasoning with the guy. I finally walks in his house, tell me he doesn’t want me around him, and to get the hell off his property, so I casually said, “you are one crazy old dude, no wonder your family doesn’t come around you”, and left.
Haven’t heard from him since, and as long as he has a mentality like that I don’t care to. My point is that sometimes we just have to discard some people from our lives. It’s never pleasant, and if it is a best friend it is even worse. In my case it was my wife’s relative, and I hate that he is like that, but I’m not gonna live with toxic people in my life. And since I was the only person from his family that would go see him, I was the person he called when he needed a ride to the doctor. To give an example of how I liked he is even by aquatinted people and family, just a few months prior to his glitch I took him to the ER and was his only family member or friend to visit him in the hospital…that speaks volumes.
Harley says:
My friends and I did a prank on one of our other friends. We prank each other often and we thought she would have a laugh but instead, she yelled at us and started crying. We said that we spilt some “tea” when she was away and we won’t tell her because it’s personal. She got mad so we told her that it was a joke. Now she won’t talk to any of us. I need some help.
Maddy says:
Well, the best thing to do is talk about it obviously and if you really care about your friendship, then the best thing to do is tell her how much you care about her and how you are sorry and what you did was wrong.
Emilia says:
I was texting my best friend whose Mormon and she came to my youth group and I was wondering how she liked it and how my friends treated her and she said that she wouldn’t hang out with my friends because they weren’t her type so I was really mad and hurt so I texted her back saying that when I went to her youth group that I thought her friends were fake and annoying and then we started fighting and I was really mad and hurt I was crying because I hate my school and I don’t like anybody their so that’s why I’m leaving next year and she is going to a different school as well but I don’t want us to stop being friends and I really didn’t mean what I said b4 but after she said that I was really mad because my friends are sweet and kind and mean the world to me and I thought she was being really rude but then after awhile I texted telling her I’m sorry and that I didn’t mean what I said and that I didn’t understand what she was trying to say and we started fighting again and I sent her a sincere apology and she didn’t text me back and I don’t want her to ignore me all day tomorrow but I am still hurt and mad but she did apologize but still idk what’s going to happen and I just everything to go back to normal. Please help me 😕
cali says:
i am in a fight with my best friend right now i was pranking her thinking she’d just laugh about it but instead i was wrong and went to far i kept pranking her till the point she was really upset and than i finally realized i was in the wrong and apolized i said i was sorry and really mean and asked her to forgive me she has been ingnoring me and i am really sad what should i do?